Tired

[kgreene012]

Quite frankly, I'm tired of being that nice. I'm tired of people treating me any kind of way. Not getting what I want or who I want. Girl after girl Activity after activity I seem to be the one being left behind and Im sick of it. Being nice in this world doesnt work and people take advantage of it. I try to be the rational one and take peoples feelings into account but idgaf anymore. but I need help where do I begin Transform me into that asshole

 

[Marty]

Why It’s Bad to Want to Be Liked Too Much

 

[bassman]

Hey KG, the article Marty suggested is a great place to start. I used to be that super nice guy too. After being shit in enough and going through some life changes I did a total 180 and became a pretty big asshole. I though fuck everybody. But I ended up burning so bridges I wish I wouldn't have by being that way. But since I found this site I have been on my path to becoming the best I can be. The best of both the nice guy and asshole guy world if you will.

I think a lot of people go through similar changes as I did, but most never try to find that middle ground and leave the complete asshole behind. Because it's much harder to work towards that perfect balance It's easier to stay an asshole the rest if your life because it's better than being a nice guy.

But if you are here then you've found the right place to improve yourself. Dig through all the old articles on this site and you will find some of the best advice anywhere.

Hope you the best KG!

 

[kgreene012]

appreciate the articles and taking the time out to reply. I'm a bit younger so I guess I have some time to put it all together