To approach or not to approach

[spicynoodle]

I'm an absolute beginner as far as seduction goes; I've had several girlfriends so I have some skill with women but I have no idea what I've done to actually gain them as girlfriends. My question is thus, should I be approaching every girl that seems attractive or just every girl that attracts me? I'm aware that as a beginner it is important to approach, approach, approach but should I be approaching girls that don't excite me?

 

[fsc]

I'm going to say that it depends on you.

If you want to expose yourself to more social situations, then approach, approach, approach, even the ones who don't excite you. If you want to be more selective and make sure that the girls you land are bombshells or whatever, then approach the ones you find attractive.

I personally have been approaching only the girls who I find attractive because with the girls who I don't find attractive, I don't feel like putting in the effort. However, this isn't the quickest way to improve.

What I do currently is sort of like a mixture, and I feel like it's not a bad idea to suggest. I still approach girls I find attractive with intention, but I try to chat up everyone else (I mean EVERYONE) if I can come up with a good situational/indirect opener, and I simply don't go for the close. This way, you're still improving your social skills.

 

[Nova]

depends what you want really. if your goal is to learn and develop and enhance your abilities with women going approach crazy will do you good.