To be less intellectual?

[ulrich]

So I was having a chat with one of my natural friends yesterday and I asked his opinion on a party girl that we met a couple weeks before.

I have this running issue where I meet girls in parties, really get along, start deep diving, get them very interested and suddenly have them drop the interaction.

My friend said that because I am too intellectual (most my conversations are deep and thoughtful) most girls get intimidated, specially party girls.
Something related to attain ability for sure.

I think he may be right.

Has anyone run in this issue before? Would you give me some of your advice?

 

[Rob Roy MacGregor]

Question is for me is it really party girls you want?

 

[Whiteheart]

I had the same problem with party girls. I was in the same situation five years ago where I was seducing one party girl. I used deep diving and she was quite bored and ditched me.

From my experience deep diving is great technique but it works better with smart, adult and generally quality women and in environments better suited for talking. I use it during daygame to reach hook up point and on dates.

For party girls I suggest you to have a good vibe, sexy smile, be playful in conversation and focus on eye contact, touch and sex talk. This techniques will allow you to soon ask for compliance i.e. kiss them, pull them to other place,…

 

[ljrozz69]

Hey there uriel!
Being intellectual is not an issue, there are guys doing well while being very intellectual.

Problem is somewhere else... if you want to find out where the issue(s) is(are) and what to do about it you should post a FR and ask someone to analyze it.

Klimax

 

[ulrich]

Question is for me is it really party girls you want?

Not really... not for a serious relationship at least... but some party girls are hot and I'd like to get friends with benefits.

I had the same problem with party girls. I was in the same situation five years ago where I was seducing one party girl. I used deep diving and she was quite bored and ditched me.

From my experience deep diving is great technique but it works better with smart, adult and generally quality women and in environments better suited for talking. I use it during daygame to reach hook up point and on dates.

For party girls I suggest you to have a good vibe, sexy smile, be playful in conversation and focus on eye contact, touch and sex talk. This techniques will allow you to soon ask for compliance i.e. kiss them, pull them to other place,…

OK, thanks @Blackheart, that makes sense.
I didn´t think that deep diving could not work because of the environment.

I will try that. Thanks!!