To chase: how to 'unlock' girlfriend after break up

[fernand]

Hi,

I have read chase saying he can 'unlock' a girl sexually by nexting her for a long period of time. I have a situation where were living together and the attraction is going down and shes not doing the stuff she used to and I'm getting angry with her about that and other things. So he's feeling I dont like her and then withrowing and then I like her less for that and so on. This is not a sutainable situation.

Any thoughts oon how to turn this around?

The way I thought of doing it is by nexting her for a long time, maybe completely and get her if I want to after. How can this be done effectively? Can I say were not sexualy compatible? Probably not can I say just were not compatible in something important enough for her to leave and then come back when she misses me? How do I keep the distance. Also she has insecurities about if I like her or not because of the above and says she doesnt feel secure to be intimate. So can this work in this case?

What else could I do? I'm trying to just not act angry or resentful and be more detached, alpha etc

Thanks

 

[Marty]

Unfortunately, cohabitation removed NEXTing power completely.

Does it though? What if Fernand gets up one night, slips out quietly, heads downtown, opens a couple bubbly, jolly girls leaving a club and brings one home?

Fernand's GF will be outta there before you can say "cohabitation". NEXT!

 

[fernand]

Hi,

I have done nexting to her before for a week or two and she came back and the attraction got much higher. But I can't do that now because we moved to another country. I don't want to cheat either. She has daddy issues from that. Also she is saying shes not as comfortable doing what we used to do because she doesnt trust me. Nexting her will only decrease the trust (but might be bs). Shes also being needy and is not working and stays at home. She also stopped taking the pill because her libido was going down. Now it is going up but slowly.

I do realize I am getting needy so I thought about doing some things,

Fapping
Get more hobbies, more work
Flirt, chat, go to coffee with girls at my work
Catch myself being needy or verbalizing I'm horny, need sex, etc.

Anything else I can do?

 

[fernand]

I nexted her and she went back to her mothers house. She was living there before she moved in. Since we moved to another country that isnt really an option. I am just ignoring her with the excuse that I need to do work and it is working but not quite like a nexting. Any other ideas?