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Hi Everyone,
This girl and I are both at masters level in college. We've spoken are few times over the last month or two, and seeing as we seemed to be crossing paths more, I eventually asked her out one day in the library (last Friday).
She said yes, and gave me her number. It was about 8pm at the time, and I said that we could even do it that night. She said that she'd either be studying or in bed for the next 2 to 3 days. She's finished now, but since Monday I've been the one who's been bombarded with study. My last exam is tomorrow at 9am, and the thing is, I've no place to stay that night as I'll then be out of my place, and will be driving back to my own city. College doesn't start again until late January though! She's an international student, so I don't know if that means she'd be having a lonely time over Xmas or not!
If I met up with her during the day (tomorrow after exam), knowing that I'd be going home later, I wouldn't feel like I'd be giving myself a fair chance. And it might seem too eager to see her... giving that I'd already planned to go home that night. I wouldn't want a kiss to feel forced.
I would have preferred to meet at night. I'd find it easier to meet up with her, while not feeling attached to outcome, if I felt I'd lots of other options at the moment. But it's been a good few months since I've been on a date. Anyway, I haven't texted her yet. Is there something obvious I'm forgetting here?!
This girl and I are both at masters level in college. We've spoken are few times over the last month or two, and seeing as we seemed to be crossing paths more, I eventually asked her out one day in the library (last Friday).
She said yes, and gave me her number. It was about 8pm at the time, and I said that we could even do it that night. She said that she'd either be studying or in bed for the next 2 to 3 days. She's finished now, but since Monday I've been the one who's been bombarded with study. My last exam is tomorrow at 9am, and the thing is, I've no place to stay that night as I'll then be out of my place, and will be driving back to my own city. College doesn't start again until late January though! She's an international student, so I don't know if that means she'd be having a lonely time over Xmas or not!
If I met up with her during the day (tomorrow after exam), knowing that I'd be going home later, I wouldn't feel like I'd be giving myself a fair chance. And it might seem too eager to see her... giving that I'd already planned to go home that night. I wouldn't want a kiss to feel forced.
I would have preferred to meet at night. I'd find it easier to meet up with her, while not feeling attached to outcome, if I felt I'd lots of other options at the moment. But it's been a good few months since I've been on a date. Anyway, I haven't texted her yet. Is there something obvious I'm forgetting here?!
