Recently, my first dates go as follows: Grab 1-2 drinks at a bar (90 minutes max) and then pull. Once I get the girl secluded at my place or hers, I go in for a manhandle kiss. The kiss is no problem; it's everything after that. After 2 minutes, she usually starts to protest that "we're moving too fast" and "I'm being too aggressive."
I've tried the following:
1. Ignore their comment(s) and just keep kissing. Usually causes her to keep protesting and withdraw.
2. Acknowledging her concern. Gives the girl room to exit and forces me to set up another date.
3. Arguing for her to stay 5 more minutes or whatever is the most successful counter I've found. Doesn't work as well when I'm at her place, though. Occasionally, the women I'm dealing with are too experienced to fall for it.
Analysis:
I must be doing something wrong in the first 90 minutes. I'm dealing with 22-25 year olds so they're probably looking for bf material. I dress well and I may give off too much value at the bar. To compensate I usually tell women I'm not looking for anything serious upfront and that I just ended a long-term relationship (true). The awkward ending typically makes it difficult to get a second date so I'm willing to try radical approaches.
I've tried the following:
1. Ignore their comment(s) and just keep kissing. Usually causes her to keep protesting and withdraw.
2. Acknowledging her concern. Gives the girl room to exit and forces me to set up another date.
3. Arguing for her to stay 5 more minutes or whatever is the most successful counter I've found. Doesn't work as well when I'm at her place, though. Occasionally, the women I'm dealing with are too experienced to fall for it.
Analysis:
I must be doing something wrong in the first 90 minutes. I'm dealing with 22-25 year olds so they're probably looking for bf material. I dress well and I may give off too much value at the bar. To compensate I usually tell women I'm not looking for anything serious upfront and that I just ended a long-term relationship (true). The awkward ending typically makes it difficult to get a second date so I'm willing to try radical approaches.
