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Intro
Been busy with work and some side projects, but pushed myself to go out these past couple weeks and Lady Luck smiled on me.
The first stroke of serendipity came last weekend when I met this older (mid-to-late-thirties) guy who'd been in the city for years and was willing to show me some spots. I was a fool for not seeking out a guide like this earlier as the venues he showed me blew my previous spots out of the water. It would have taken several months or even years to uncover these places. No fish bit that night, but I knew the new knowledge and new connection will set up scads of lays in the future.
Starting this past Friday.
This friend (I'll call him Dreaded Entrepreneur or DE) and I met up at this bar in Soho to start the night to get grab a couple drinks and get warmed. It was more of a calm social venue, so no gaming, but through DE I met the owner of this spot who was super cool. Will definitely be back again. Anyways after a bit we head out to EV... which seemed kinda dead so we switch plans and push further east into Brooklyn.
Now prior to meeting DE I didn't do much exploring in New York's second most popular borough and have been worse for it. While the venues are more spread out and the logistics less favorable, the women who are out tend to have lower shields and a willingness to meet new people that I haven't always seen in Lower Manhattan. After a few more stops we land at this split level bar in Bushwick where we got down to work.
I split with DE to head to the bathroom and queued behind this cute Irish gal. We have a brief, but flirtatious conversation for a bit before she kindly points out the near empty line for the urinals which I go into. I thank her on the way out with a shoulder squeeze and a flirtatious smile which she reciprocates and she says she'll look for me when she gets out.
Never did see her again for the rest of the night lol But she did get me in a really nice state going forward!
I opened another set with DE that fizzled out and another chick who was on her own for a bit before finally finding my conquest of the night.
The Girl
Opened this pretty faced chick who I caught speaking French to her friend next to DE and I at the bar. Just said hi, asked her how her night was going, then "noticed" her accent and asked her where she was from. Montreal apparently. And she and her friend were only down here for the long weekend...
Well luckily I'd been studying French for past couple weeks (Have some personal reason for wanting to learn and Francophone women make me hard lol) so I whipped out my rudimentary French.
Her: Yeah we're from Montreal. My friend and I are here for the weekend.
Me: Montreal you say? Ça va?
Her: (Gives a big laugh in surprise) What you speak French?!?
Me: (Smirks and shrugs) Just enough to be dangerous...
She laughs again and I look over to DE who had already begun chatting up her friend. Good. Competent wings aren't easy to find. While he's not some master PUA, his game won't fuck things up for me. After some more fluff talk I move her from the bar to a nearby sitting area a few feet away where we chat some more before she noticed that a group left one of the booths next to us. She suggests the four of us sit down here and after pretending to think about it for a second I agree. I tell her to sit and call DE to bring his girl over to sit with us.
Again I was lucky she brought that idea up as it ensured, I could keep an eye on DE's interaction while getting his girl more committed to socializing with him as well. I really should have thought of this and will add this tactic to my kit going forward.
In the booth me and my girl continue our conversation. She keeps talking about how "tough" she is and keeps making it clear she's not soft or some shit like that. I just tell her that's good because I can't stand women who are too soft (true) and that I would've already left if I sensed too much weakness in her which she laughs at.
Both girls get up to head to the bathroom (I knew they'd be back since they left their still full drinks with us) and me and DE debriefed. He said his girl being standoffish and bitchy. Fuck! She had a mean resting bitch face sure, but I didn't think it was anything more than that. To his credit though he hung in there and correctly figured out that through my girl, who was clearly super into me, we could both pull to his place which was close by. He said he could entice them both back with cocaine.
Ah blow. Whiff. Snow. Cocaine. I've always been skeptical of it's supposed use case for seduction. Especially in this case where the chick I'm chatting with is a French Linguist, going back to school for her second masters. Sure she has a nose stud and a couple of tats here and there, but she wouldn't be enticed by some coke right? As we'll see later in this report, I could not have been more wrong!
When the girls come back my girl is acting even more romantic than before. Our faces are close to each other and she leans in for a kiss. I let it go on for a beat before pulling away and continuing the conversation which I guess she takes offense to and damn near goes into auto-rejection, telling me I "lost my chance".
This may not be the best way to deal with a shit test like this but I couldn't help myself: I laughed. I laughed so hard I nearly cried! There was just something so funny about this girl thinking she could get me to chase with a takeaway like that... Yeah even as I'm typing this I'm chuckling.
After I settle down I'm able to pull her out of auto rejection with a little work (use takeaways of my own to discourage her attitude and that slowly but surely gets her vying for my attention again). Then to my surprise she asks us if either of us have coke. And to my surprise my man DE produces a little vial of the stuff and gives her some to take lol. Shortly after the bugger off the bathroom again and at this point I thought we were done. I told him we could have brought them back to hers with that, but he thought I told her he had some on his person right now and he figured he'd produce it.
But they came back lol
And my girl hits me another shit test again. This time telling me to buy her a Moscow Mule or some shit. No laughter from me this time, I just put on the skeptical look and wonder if she could hear herself. She tries to tell me again, to which I reply no. She tries to tell me a third time to which I respond her she doesn't tell me to do anything. If she asks nicely I might consider it. What did she think I was a slave? To which the other two (who are black) start dying of laughter at. She looks EMBARRASSED for a minute then asks like a little girl if I would please get her a drink. Hahahaha. I love taming these lionesses.
I take her hand and lead her to the bar where I get the drink and we share it. Shortly after the four of us decide to bounce.
Again I got lucky here multiple times. Their Airbnb was a stone throw away from DE's place. DE's girl decided she was tired and wanted to go to bed, but despite that my girl was game and decided to go with us. We stopped by their Airbnb to drop off her friend and she continued along with us. DE happened to have a basement apartment that he used for Airbnb that I could use. I just had to manage the pull.
The Pull
When we got to DE's place me and my girl headed to the basement and he called me up explaining that I could use it but asking for a $20 cleaning fee. I got it and gave him the cash. I thought things would be smooth sailing from here, but man the amount of LMR I had to deal with here boys was fucking biblical...
First she was asking where DE was thinking the three of us were going to hang and I explained that he told me he got super tired and needed wanted to head to bed. She almost wanted to go home right then and there, but I got her to stay for a bit and she did saying "Okay but we're not having sex." LOL
Spent the next hour plus getting her comfortable and turned on. About 10 minutes into us being there she asked for some coke which I went upstairs to DE to get. Mofo had me buy the vial off him lol, but I get it this shit is expensive.
So basically two step forward, one step back and all until she finally gives in and asks if I have a condom, which of I course do.
We fucked for hours over multiple rounds. By the time we wrapped things up and I was walking her back to her Airbnb it was like 7:30 AM and broad daylight lol
Takeaways
I'm glad to get the lay, but I still feel like there are a lot of things I need to work on with my game. A more advanced seducer could have done things much more smoothly. Still I handled shit tests pretty well, was able to navigate a logistical situation I wasn't in control of, and handled a lot of LMR to get the lay.
And I've confirmed that the je ne se quoi that a lot of French and Québécois girls have absolutely extends to the bedroom lol
Thanks for reading. Any feedback is always welcome.
Protean
Been busy with work and some side projects, but pushed myself to go out these past couple weeks and Lady Luck smiled on me.
The first stroke of serendipity came last weekend when I met this older (mid-to-late-thirties) guy who'd been in the city for years and was willing to show me some spots. I was a fool for not seeking out a guide like this earlier as the venues he showed me blew my previous spots out of the water. It would have taken several months or even years to uncover these places. No fish bit that night, but I knew the new knowledge and new connection will set up scads of lays in the future.
Starting this past Friday.
This friend (I'll call him Dreaded Entrepreneur or DE) and I met up at this bar in Soho to start the night to get grab a couple drinks and get warmed. It was more of a calm social venue, so no gaming, but through DE I met the owner of this spot who was super cool. Will definitely be back again. Anyways after a bit we head out to EV... which seemed kinda dead so we switch plans and push further east into Brooklyn.
Now prior to meeting DE I didn't do much exploring in New York's second most popular borough and have been worse for it. While the venues are more spread out and the logistics less favorable, the women who are out tend to have lower shields and a willingness to meet new people that I haven't always seen in Lower Manhattan. After a few more stops we land at this split level bar in Bushwick where we got down to work.
I split with DE to head to the bathroom and queued behind this cute Irish gal. We have a brief, but flirtatious conversation for a bit before she kindly points out the near empty line for the urinals which I go into. I thank her on the way out with a shoulder squeeze and a flirtatious smile which she reciprocates and she says she'll look for me when she gets out.
Never did see her again for the rest of the night lol But she did get me in a really nice state going forward!
I opened another set with DE that fizzled out and another chick who was on her own for a bit before finally finding my conquest of the night.
The Girl
Opened this pretty faced chick who I caught speaking French to her friend next to DE and I at the bar. Just said hi, asked her how her night was going, then "noticed" her accent and asked her where she was from. Montreal apparently. And she and her friend were only down here for the long weekend...
Well luckily I'd been studying French for past couple weeks (Have some personal reason for wanting to learn and Francophone women make me hard lol) so I whipped out my rudimentary French.
Her: Yeah we're from Montreal. My friend and I are here for the weekend.
Me: Montreal you say? Ça va?
Her: (Gives a big laugh in surprise) What you speak French?!?
Me: (Smirks and shrugs) Just enough to be dangerous...
She laughs again and I look over to DE who had already begun chatting up her friend. Good. Competent wings aren't easy to find. While he's not some master PUA, his game won't fuck things up for me. After some more fluff talk I move her from the bar to a nearby sitting area a few feet away where we chat some more before she noticed that a group left one of the booths next to us. She suggests the four of us sit down here and after pretending to think about it for a second I agree. I tell her to sit and call DE to bring his girl over to sit with us.
Again I was lucky she brought that idea up as it ensured, I could keep an eye on DE's interaction while getting his girl more committed to socializing with him as well. I really should have thought of this and will add this tactic to my kit going forward.
In the booth me and my girl continue our conversation. She keeps talking about how "tough" she is and keeps making it clear she's not soft or some shit like that. I just tell her that's good because I can't stand women who are too soft (true) and that I would've already left if I sensed too much weakness in her which she laughs at.
Both girls get up to head to the bathroom (I knew they'd be back since they left their still full drinks with us) and me and DE debriefed. He said his girl being standoffish and bitchy. Fuck! She had a mean resting bitch face sure, but I didn't think it was anything more than that. To his credit though he hung in there and correctly figured out that through my girl, who was clearly super into me, we could both pull to his place which was close by. He said he could entice them both back with cocaine.
Ah blow. Whiff. Snow. Cocaine. I've always been skeptical of it's supposed use case for seduction. Especially in this case where the chick I'm chatting with is a French Linguist, going back to school for her second masters. Sure she has a nose stud and a couple of tats here and there, but she wouldn't be enticed by some coke right? As we'll see later in this report, I could not have been more wrong!
When the girls come back my girl is acting even more romantic than before. Our faces are close to each other and she leans in for a kiss. I let it go on for a beat before pulling away and continuing the conversation which I guess she takes offense to and damn near goes into auto-rejection, telling me I "lost my chance".
This may not be the best way to deal with a shit test like this but I couldn't help myself: I laughed. I laughed so hard I nearly cried! There was just something so funny about this girl thinking she could get me to chase with a takeaway like that... Yeah even as I'm typing this I'm chuckling.
After I settle down I'm able to pull her out of auto rejection with a little work (use takeaways of my own to discourage her attitude and that slowly but surely gets her vying for my attention again). Then to my surprise she asks us if either of us have coke. And to my surprise my man DE produces a little vial of the stuff and gives her some to take lol. Shortly after the bugger off the bathroom again and at this point I thought we were done. I told him we could have brought them back to hers with that, but he thought I told her he had some on his person right now and he figured he'd produce it.
But they came back lol
And my girl hits me another shit test again. This time telling me to buy her a Moscow Mule or some shit. No laughter from me this time, I just put on the skeptical look and wonder if she could hear herself. She tries to tell me again, to which I reply no. She tries to tell me a third time to which I respond her she doesn't tell me to do anything. If she asks nicely I might consider it. What did she think I was a slave? To which the other two (who are black) start dying of laughter at. She looks EMBARRASSED for a minute then asks like a little girl if I would please get her a drink. Hahahaha. I love taming these lionesses.
I take her hand and lead her to the bar where I get the drink and we share it. Shortly after the four of us decide to bounce.
Again I got lucky here multiple times. Their Airbnb was a stone throw away from DE's place. DE's girl decided she was tired and wanted to go to bed, but despite that my girl was game and decided to go with us. We stopped by their Airbnb to drop off her friend and she continued along with us. DE happened to have a basement apartment that he used for Airbnb that I could use. I just had to manage the pull.
The Pull
When we got to DE's place me and my girl headed to the basement and he called me up explaining that I could use it but asking for a $20 cleaning fee. I got it and gave him the cash. I thought things would be smooth sailing from here, but man the amount of LMR I had to deal with here boys was fucking biblical...
First she was asking where DE was thinking the three of us were going to hang and I explained that he told me he got super tired and needed wanted to head to bed. She almost wanted to go home right then and there, but I got her to stay for a bit and she did saying "Okay but we're not having sex." LOL
Spent the next hour plus getting her comfortable and turned on. About 10 minutes into us being there she asked for some coke which I went upstairs to DE to get. Mofo had me buy the vial off him lol, but I get it this shit is expensive.
So basically two step forward, one step back and all until she finally gives in and asks if I have a condom, which of I course do.
We fucked for hours over multiple rounds. By the time we wrapped things up and I was walking her back to her Airbnb it was like 7:30 AM and broad daylight lol
Takeaways
- Having a solid wing makes going out way more fun and I wouldn't have gotten the lay without DE.
- Shit tests have never been a big deal for me, but a new strategy I need to play with more is baiting women who try to throw out hard shit tests into repeating themselves then effortlessly defanging whatever shit test they tried to drop on you.
- I need more experience gaming with wings in general. I felt like I could have got DE laid had I managed the whole group better
- My girl had a way better body once her clothes came off. Don't discount girls who don't dress as flashy
- One kinda risky piece of tech I used to bust through LMR at the end was just nonchalantly whipping my dick out lol You need to have a feel for when you can do this, but after I knew she saw my erection and had felt it through my pants I mentioned "needing to get comfortable" and whipped my dick out for a few seconds before adjusting it back into my pants. She was noticeably more turned on after that. Still wanna test this more though
- Sexual prizing works to bust LMR too. We somehow got on the topic of sex and my descriptions turned her on a lot too.
- Also noticed some attainability problems caused the LMR. She kept saying she was fat (she had a little chub but was not obese by any means plus I like that lol) so a lot of what I had to do was reassure her on that front as well.
- I happened to be her type. She mentioned afterwards really liking black guys.
- Language is powerful for building rapport. The little French I knew made big gains in that department. Something as basic as using "Oui" instead of "Yes" made huge strides.
I'm glad to get the lay, but I still feel like there are a lot of things I need to work on with my game. A more advanced seducer could have done things much more smoothly. Still I handled shit tests pretty well, was able to navigate a logistical situation I wasn't in control of, and handled a lot of LMR to get the lay.
And I've confirmed that the je ne se quoi that a lot of French and Québécois girls have absolutely extends to the bedroom lol
Thanks for reading. Any feedback is always welcome.
Protean
