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The lay was super fast but the outing was pretty interesting, so I wrote a little OR as well:
So towards the end of the night I was walking towards my car while calling my friend I drove with so I could leave.
While on the phone I saw this cute (but really short) girl with 2 other friends eyeing me pretty hard.
I stopped, smiled, and held up my finger in a “one second” kind of motion. She nodded and stayed put.
I finished my call and walked over to her. Conversation didn’t last longer than 3 minutes:
Me: So how’s your night going?
Her: Great! How about you.
Me: Pretty boring. Just a few near death experiences.
Her: (Laughs)
Me: I like your fit wow! You really know how to put that on.
Her: Thank youu
Me: What year are you?
Her: Freshman. How about you?
Me: Ahh so you new here. I’m a Sophomore.
Her: Yeah I’m still getting used to the place. You should show me around.
Me: Most def. I really like your energy and how you looked at me. I love a girl that knows exactly what she wants.
Her: (Giggles shyly) Thank you!!
(Blah Blah Filler talk /Flirting / Screens)
Me: You played any sports in hs? (my go-to screen out of habit)
Her: Yes!! I did cheer.
Me: I could have guessed that. You look very throwable (again, my textbook response. A lot of girls do cheer)
Her: You’re crazyy
Me: Haha yeah. Anyways, I really like your energy. You know what you should do?
Her: What?
Me: *Brings out phone keypad* (Again, I do this a lot. You know what you should do? > what? > point to phone keypad. I dont even know if this does anything beneficial lol its just what I do.)
Her: *Smiles and types in number*
Me: I’ll definitely text you
Her: Please do
(The conversation had some more stuff then that but that was roughly what was said^^ sorry I cant remember everything)
At the end my smile and body language was a little awkward so I thought I cooked it. I was kind of rushing through the approach anyway since I had been approaching all night and was tired.
Felt like the night was a bust even though lots of girls were looking at me. I’m super reputation conscious right now, I don’t even want the negative social proof of a bad approach anymore lol. Too many people know my face. I’ll loosen up eventually.
Here are the texts with the girl:
At first when she said “come” I didn’t put any stock in it since girls have flaked on me at the VERY last minute in the past.
I just kept driving home and almost hopped into bed until she sent me the room number. At that point I decided she was serious and went over.
She was nervous but I calmed her down by talking and teasing her a bit. No resistance at all when I escalated, I need to get better at building sexual tension though - I didn’t let it build up like I should’ve.
Sex wasn’t super satisfying. Feels like the more I do this the less I want to do it more. The sex feels empty.
To not start yapping too much on this LR, Here are my deeper thoughts about this lay and seduction in general
It’s 2am at this point and the strip near my college is bustling with activity. We all just came out of a massive mansion party nearby so the streets were swarmed.
The #1 thing that made this night successful (in my opinion) was my outfit.
I wore a ripped raggedy looking denim shirt with nothing underneath to show off my muscles. Wore black pants and white air forces.
I also made sure to have a slight smile on my face (<<This is HUGE for some reason).
The amount of IOIs and AI’s I was getting was more then I’ve ever gotten. Was kind of insane.
I looked like a homeless bad boy lol. It happened maybe 3 times that night I’d be talking to one girl and her friends would come up and ask me if I had any homeboys lol.
(Link to the exact shirt:
I didnt even unbutton the full shirt because I didnt want to be unattainable.
Too bad I was on a college campus I already tore through and not an anonymous place...
Almost every girl that I wanted to approach there was either friends or connected to a girl I fucked or tried to fuck.
And it doesn’t help that I’ve only fucked black girls which lowers the availability pool by 90% (the black community is literally like its own separate social circle… races dont mix when it comes to parties and social circles here )
The biggest bane in the world is when I get the number of one girl, and then I approach another girl who is throwing big IOIs just for her to say “I saw/heard you were talking to my friend” while still acting attracted. Now if I get her number too I look like a poon hound because I like to approach direct.
Like I cant just fuck both of yall? Sharing is caring man.
Theres also times when I see a group of girls and I want to get all their contacts but I’m stuck having to choose one.
This leads to me psyching myself out of approaches because I don’t want the poon hound reputation that I was so close to having last year after fucking 15 girls (and failing to fuck many more). I’ve only practiced direct game or indirect-direct game so that’s probably why.
I need to learn a way to approach those girls and screen for interest without triggering reputation damage. Until then I’m only approaching the super strong AIs.
The #1 thing that made this night successful (in my opinion) was my outfit.
I wore a ripped raggedy looking denim shirt with nothing underneath to show off my muscles. Wore black pants and white air forces.
I also made sure to have a slight smile on my face (<<This is HUGE for some reason).
The amount of IOIs and AI’s I was getting was more then I’ve ever gotten. Was kind of insane.
I looked like a homeless bad boy lol. It happened maybe 3 times that night I’d be talking to one girl and her friends would come up and ask me if I had any homeboys lol.
(Link to the exact shirt:
Manfinity LEGND Men's Short Sleeve Ripped Denim Shirt
api-shein.shein.com
I didnt even unbutton the full shirt because I didnt want to be unattainable.
Too bad I was on a college campus I already tore through and not an anonymous place...
Almost every girl that I wanted to approach there was either friends or connected to a girl I fucked or tried to fuck.
And it doesn’t help that I’ve only fucked black girls which lowers the availability pool by 90% (the black community is literally like its own separate social circle… races dont mix when it comes to parties and social circles here )
The biggest bane in the world is when I get the number of one girl, and then I approach another girl who is throwing big IOIs just for her to say “I saw/heard you were talking to my friend” while still acting attracted. Now if I get her number too I look like a poon hound because I like to approach direct.
Like I cant just fuck both of yall? Sharing is caring man.
Theres also times when I see a group of girls and I want to get all their contacts but I’m stuck having to choose one.
This leads to me psyching myself out of approaches because I don’t want the poon hound reputation that I was so close to having last year after fucking 15 girls (and failing to fuck many more). I’ve only practiced direct game or indirect-direct game so that’s probably why.
I need to learn a way to approach those girls and screen for interest without triggering reputation damage. Until then I’m only approaching the super strong AIs.
So towards the end of the night I was walking towards my car while calling my friend I drove with so I could leave.
While on the phone I saw this cute (but really short) girl with 2 other friends eyeing me pretty hard.
I stopped, smiled, and held up my finger in a “one second” kind of motion. She nodded and stayed put.
I finished my call and walked over to her. Conversation didn’t last longer than 3 minutes:
Me: So how’s your night going?
Her: Great! How about you.
Me: Pretty boring. Just a few near death experiences.
Her: (Laughs)
Me: I like your fit wow! You really know how to put that on.
Her: Thank youu
Me: What year are you?
Her: Freshman. How about you?
Me: Ahh so you new here. I’m a Sophomore.
Her: Yeah I’m still getting used to the place. You should show me around.
Me: Most def. I really like your energy and how you looked at me. I love a girl that knows exactly what she wants.
Her: (Giggles shyly) Thank you!!
(Blah Blah Filler talk /Flirting / Screens)
Me: You played any sports in hs? (my go-to screen out of habit)
Her: Yes!! I did cheer.
Me: I could have guessed that. You look very throwable (again, my textbook response. A lot of girls do cheer)
Her: You’re crazyy
Me: Haha yeah. Anyways, I really like your energy. You know what you should do?
Her: What?
Me: *Brings out phone keypad* (Again, I do this a lot. You know what you should do? > what? > point to phone keypad. I dont even know if this does anything beneficial lol its just what I do.)
Her: *Smiles and types in number*
Me: I’ll definitely text you
Her: Please do
(The conversation had some more stuff then that but that was roughly what was said^^ sorry I cant remember everything)
At the end my smile and body language was a little awkward so I thought I cooked it. I was kind of rushing through the approach anyway since I had been approaching all night and was tired.
Felt like the night was a bust even though lots of girls were looking at me. I’m super reputation conscious right now, I don’t even want the negative social proof of a bad approach anymore lol. Too many people know my face. I’ll loosen up eventually.
Here are the texts with the girl:
At first when she said “come” I didn’t put any stock in it since girls have flaked on me at the VERY last minute in the past.
I just kept driving home and almost hopped into bed until she sent me the room number. At that point I decided she was serious and went over.
She was nervous but I calmed her down by talking and teasing her a bit. No resistance at all when I escalated, I need to get better at building sexual tension though - I didn’t let it build up like I should’ve.
Sex wasn’t super satisfying. Feels like the more I do this the less I want to do it more. The sex feels empty.
To not start yapping too much on this LR, Here are my deeper thoughts about this lay and seduction in general
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