I have tried a technique lately that I've seen nothing but good results from.
Basically I'll meet up with a girl for food, and tell her we're going to eat there, but once we get our food I say "you know what, there's a lot of people in here and it's going to be tough to hear each other. Plus it's a beautiful day! Let's go to a chill park that I know of." My fundamentals are pretty tight so I know for a fact they don't get a creepy vibe from me so they comply! It's all in how you say it, if you come off unsure she'll probably be nervous, if you come off confident she'll follow your lead with no problems. Another note: Don't ask them if they'd like to, tell them in a cool, calm, and collected way that that's what you're going to do. I've tried this with 4 different girls all that I met through cold approach and I've noticed a few positive things happen from it.
1.) You get compliance from her and build trust very quickly. (They'll be able to tell you're a cool, high value guy if your fundamentals are down)
2.) On the ride over to the park you can find out that you both like the same music, tease her a bit, and build comfort quickly.
3.) It takes her out of her "auto-pilot date mode." It's likely that another guy has never done that with her, ESPECIALLY on a first date!
4.) There's way less social pressure in a public park, way less distraction, and you both can focus on just the two of you making a connection since deep diving will be easier and she'll likely be pretty comfortable with you by the time you get to the park. I've noticed chase frames and sexual frames are easier as well, and since you've led the entire date she accepts them pretty readily!
5.) You can transition to your place smoothly (unfortunately, I don't have the luxury of this yet since I still live with my parents so I need to find another place to pull them to, but when I do have my own place I could imagine it would be easy to bounce her from the park to there after this process.)
Every one of the girls I've done this with I've kissed at the end of the night, they've texted me when they got home without me telling them to do so, and setting up second dates to have them come to my place has been a breeze.
So far I haven't personally closed from this for the fact that I'm not confident in my logistics yet (Never done a first date car lay so I haven't tried that one yet)
But if anybody reads this, uses it, and gets a LR from it let me know!
Good luck guys, hope this helps someone!
-Drew
Basically I'll meet up with a girl for food, and tell her we're going to eat there, but once we get our food I say "you know what, there's a lot of people in here and it's going to be tough to hear each other. Plus it's a beautiful day! Let's go to a chill park that I know of." My fundamentals are pretty tight so I know for a fact they don't get a creepy vibe from me so they comply! It's all in how you say it, if you come off unsure she'll probably be nervous, if you come off confident she'll follow your lead with no problems. Another note: Don't ask them if they'd like to, tell them in a cool, calm, and collected way that that's what you're going to do. I've tried this with 4 different girls all that I met through cold approach and I've noticed a few positive things happen from it.
1.) You get compliance from her and build trust very quickly. (They'll be able to tell you're a cool, high value guy if your fundamentals are down)
2.) On the ride over to the park you can find out that you both like the same music, tease her a bit, and build comfort quickly.
3.) It takes her out of her "auto-pilot date mode." It's likely that another guy has never done that with her, ESPECIALLY on a first date!
4.) There's way less social pressure in a public park, way less distraction, and you both can focus on just the two of you making a connection since deep diving will be easier and she'll likely be pretty comfortable with you by the time you get to the park. I've noticed chase frames and sexual frames are easier as well, and since you've led the entire date she accepts them pretty readily!
5.) You can transition to your place smoothly (unfortunately, I don't have the luxury of this yet since I still live with my parents so I need to find another place to pull them to, but when I do have my own place I could imagine it would be easy to bounce her from the park to there after this process.)
Every one of the girls I've done this with I've kissed at the end of the night, they've texted me when they got home without me telling them to do so, and setting up second dates to have them come to my place has been a breeze.
So far I haven't personally closed from this for the fact that I'm not confident in my logistics yet (Never done a first date car lay so I haven't tried that one yet)
But if anybody reads this, uses it, and gets a LR from it let me know!
Good luck guys, hope this helps someone!
-Drew
