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Transitioning from talking to sex

Rancorous

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I've had many guys ask me for advice on how to transition from talking to sex when the girl you pulled is back at your or her place.

As I wrote in my guide when you two are back at your or her place, sit on the couch for a bit. Talk for like five minutes then I usually say, "you know, I've been dying to know what kind of underwear you got on lol." I say it in a laughing joking manner or a slow sensual tone depending on the vibe she's giving off.

Then if she's wearing jeans or shorts I start unzipping her pants and take off her underwear. If she's wearing a dress or skirt I scrunch it up and reach up it and take off her underwear. Then I take her by the hand and guide her to my bedroom and plop her down on my bed.

It seems like a lot of guys are scared or reluctant to make a move on her when she's on the couch. I tell guys, "in all my years of pulling girls from bars and clubs I've never, never, had a girl ever stop me or tell me no when I started taking off her clothes to transition to sex. Like ever, not once."

She's going to be expecting you to make a move on her. I remember back when I first started pulling girls we'd sit on my couch and it looked like she was waiting for me to do something. The vibe I got was like "anytime now". But I failed to make a move and she got up and left. So now I make a move and their happy that I do. They always seem to laugh and giggle as I unzip their pants take off their underwear. They got a big smile on their face.

So the Tl;dr is just go for it. What's she gonna say? "Oh no, don't take my clothes off". She knows what's up and knows why she came back with you.
 
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Rancorous

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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You don't kiss her first?
You can, but I usually don't. By this point you should've kissed her in the bar or club.

Another way to transition is to kiss her and say "I'd love to show you my bedroom."

Or start making out with her and start taking off her pants or guide your hand over and down her stomach and under her dress and take off her underwear.

I usually always use my line "you know, I've been dying to know what kind of underwear you got on lol." It makes her smile and I really enjoy unzipping her pants or reaching up her dress. It gets me turned on.
 
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