Hey guys, I want to discuss a technique I use that helps me out with girls. This is mostly for guys that have more experience under their belt but you could try if you're a beginner too.
What I mean by treat her like she's yours, I mean treat her like she's someone your really close too, treat her like an ex or a girl you've been friends with for a while, like a best friend per se. To treat her like one you have to adapt an abundance mentality, reason why is if something goes wrong you just get another girl. That's why I say guys with more experience would do better with it, reason being they would have skill under their belt already to have the mentality and on how to treat the girl.
But don't become bf material and don't get too attached or you'll A. Not get intimacy from her quickly and she'll try to play the courting role and B. If you get too attached you'll be thinking with your feelings and not your head. The result of both are there's too much time involved and it'll mess you up big time and you'll be heart broken about it.
What you want to do is just be cool with her don't worry about coming on strong too or too weak, just in between. Ill tell you what I do, I deep dive with them over the phone a little that way we can get to know each other which makes it easier to meet up, I call her nicknames like my baby and all that, I make them invest in me as much as I can make them, I'm also firm and playful with them, ill ask them "you talking to any other guys?" They say yes or no. Don't believe no ever but don't let them know you don't believe them. Doing so will make you insecure, so just believe them. For the yes you just say OK just asking or whatever you want but for no I say I like that or better not be LOL, just show her you really care for her but don't be soft and needy. You want to be. Cool and chill no matter what. Other tips are put your arms around her,kiss her on the cheek., whatever the point is just be comfortable with her and show her you care for her and like her, but also show you can get another girl just like her so she wont get too comfy with you.
Well that's what works for me and the more invested you get the girls the easier it is to do these things I've said worked for me. What I can't explain too well on is why the would want to invest, I have a cocky don't care attitude and I tell girls what I want or I don't have to do anything and show value and they want to do stuff for me. To get there you have to get your fundamentals down and abundance mentality. When you act and look like you can take her or leave her she'll try to win you over.
That's my first post guys enjoy!
Peace
ShotCalla
What I mean by treat her like she's yours, I mean treat her like she's someone your really close too, treat her like an ex or a girl you've been friends with for a while, like a best friend per se. To treat her like one you have to adapt an abundance mentality, reason why is if something goes wrong you just get another girl. That's why I say guys with more experience would do better with it, reason being they would have skill under their belt already to have the mentality and on how to treat the girl.
But don't become bf material and don't get too attached or you'll A. Not get intimacy from her quickly and she'll try to play the courting role and B. If you get too attached you'll be thinking with your feelings and not your head. The result of both are there's too much time involved and it'll mess you up big time and you'll be heart broken about it.
What you want to do is just be cool with her don't worry about coming on strong too or too weak, just in between. Ill tell you what I do, I deep dive with them over the phone a little that way we can get to know each other which makes it easier to meet up, I call her nicknames like my baby and all that, I make them invest in me as much as I can make them, I'm also firm and playful with them, ill ask them "you talking to any other guys?" They say yes or no. Don't believe no ever but don't let them know you don't believe them. Doing so will make you insecure, so just believe them. For the yes you just say OK just asking or whatever you want but for no I say I like that or better not be LOL, just show her you really care for her but don't be soft and needy. You want to be. Cool and chill no matter what. Other tips are put your arms around her,kiss her on the cheek., whatever the point is just be comfortable with her and show her you care for her and like her, but also show you can get another girl just like her so she wont get too comfy with you.
Well that's what works for me and the more invested you get the girls the easier it is to do these things I've said worked for me. What I can't explain too well on is why the would want to invest, I have a cocky don't care attitude and I tell girls what I want or I don't have to do anything and show value and they want to do stuff for me. To get there you have to get your fundamentals down and abundance mentality. When you act and look like you can take her or leave her she'll try to win you over.
That's my first post guys enjoy!
Peace
ShotCalla
