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This is something I kind of stumbled upon myself accidentally and recently decided to actively utilize. So far it has given me great results several times, I told my brother about it and it worked really well for him too. Im going to continue to put it into practice and gauge my results, but so far it has been working very very well and I thought I would share it with you guys. Its nothing too complex or advanced but I haven't seen any posts or material about something like this.
-This is best utilized when you are dealing with a girl who is neutral, lukewarm, and a bit flaky towards you. Her level of interest and desire to hang with you isn't exactly where you want it to be. And you have had some degree of interaction with her whether it is social circle or a cold approach that went decently well.
THE TECHNIQUE
Basically what I do is hit them up through text, start a SHORT conversation and I tell them that me and some friends are going to be partying near her, in her town, on campus, whatever and I tell her that she should come party with us. I try to get her interested by letting her feel my positivity and excitement about it (like selling a product) I focus on being not needy at all but playful and fun. Usually she barely shows any change in interest at this point (maybe a little more) but this is still just the set up.
What I do then is purposely be a bit vague with the exact details (so I have something to provide her with later on). After I invite her and she replies with something like “Oh sounds cool, I have such and such though so I don't know if I will be able to make it. I'll let you know” (or any shit that sounds doesn't sound too enthusiastic)” Then I respond with “Well I'll let you know whats goin on tomorrow night when I get the details. If your plans change or you are looking for something to do, it would be cool to hang” (a response that handles what she said well, and states that you are going to give her the details and let her know whats going on later tomorrow when you find out and she can come if her schedule frees up)....
THEN YOU JUST DON'T CONTACT HER AT ALL THE NEXT DAY
every time I have done this the girl calls me or texts me late late that night, or the next day with much more interest (asking me about my night and or joking with me how I stood them up in a playfully pouty way) and then goes on to set up a 1 on 1 with me themselves, or be very forward and obvious giving me an opportunity (“I was hoping to see you”).
Then as long as you aren't too apologetic “im sorry, I ment to but... blah blah blah” (and blow the purpose of the whole thing) or you are not trying to be too cool and playing too hard to get afterwards, you should be fine.
There you have it
-hit them up and invite them out to a group/party thing
-Make sure they are expecting contact from you the next day
-don't contact them at all
-experience a spike of interest and investment from them
Feel free to try it out yourself and report your results below. As of now Im pretty confident in it.
-This is best utilized when you are dealing with a girl who is neutral, lukewarm, and a bit flaky towards you. Her level of interest and desire to hang with you isn't exactly where you want it to be. And you have had some degree of interaction with her whether it is social circle or a cold approach that went decently well.
THE TECHNIQUE
Basically what I do is hit them up through text, start a SHORT conversation and I tell them that me and some friends are going to be partying near her, in her town, on campus, whatever and I tell her that she should come party with us. I try to get her interested by letting her feel my positivity and excitement about it (like selling a product) I focus on being not needy at all but playful and fun. Usually she barely shows any change in interest at this point (maybe a little more) but this is still just the set up.
What I do then is purposely be a bit vague with the exact details (so I have something to provide her with later on). After I invite her and she replies with something like “Oh sounds cool, I have such and such though so I don't know if I will be able to make it. I'll let you know” (or any shit that sounds doesn't sound too enthusiastic)” Then I respond with “Well I'll let you know whats goin on tomorrow night when I get the details. If your plans change or you are looking for something to do, it would be cool to hang” (a response that handles what she said well, and states that you are going to give her the details and let her know whats going on later tomorrow when you find out and she can come if her schedule frees up)....
THEN YOU JUST DON'T CONTACT HER AT ALL THE NEXT DAY
every time I have done this the girl calls me or texts me late late that night, or the next day with much more interest (asking me about my night and or joking with me how I stood them up in a playfully pouty way) and then goes on to set up a 1 on 1 with me themselves, or be very forward and obvious giving me an opportunity (“I was hoping to see you”).
Then as long as you aren't too apologetic “im sorry, I ment to but... blah blah blah” (and blow the purpose of the whole thing) or you are not trying to be too cool and playing too hard to get afterwards, you should be fine.
There you have it
-hit them up and invite them out to a group/party thing
-Make sure they are expecting contact from you the next day
-don't contact them at all
-experience a spike of interest and investment from them
Feel free to try it out yourself and report your results below. As of now Im pretty confident in it.
