tricked and manipulated to comply by fast talking girl

[disciple99]

hey guys i today got tricked by a fast talking girl the thing is she tricked me into getting a book for her from liabray i have to give her book in three days but the was is still on i am going to say no to her tommorow and counter offer her to explain her the subject but the problem is she talks very fast i mean vrey fast and blows all questions and excuses with logic and emotion i am morrow going to say hard no but main thing i want her compliance to be alone with me so how do i blow her defences coz she thinks very fast too.
also in future how to save myself with fast and smooth talkers because these are only people who can make me give compliance.
'i cant talk fast' & these people hijack my mind and i dont know what hit me.
my plan now is be around them and learn their game and than beat them in their game.
do you have any advice tips and tricks to deal with them.
thanks in advance KINGS!!!

 

[JuviSuave77]

tell her something that will put her on her heels and then switch the topic immediately. the sooner you cut her thread in the conversation the sooner you will be in control and the more she will see you as a sex worthy male. when she is droning on with her smooth shit just lie or blow up on some bullshit. ex. she is talking about how she likes candy. say that candy reminds you of your grandma that died last year, then switch the conversation up to the new pizza place across the street with the dope sauce. who cares if its manipulative, that is what a smooth talker is. they are used to being in a flow when talking to someone, so then more you are able to put her on her heels the better. I recommend disrupting them with some outlandish lie or truth that is a little dark or deep then immediately making a statement about something light and intriguing. you want this chick to think with her emotions NOTHING ELSE!!! right now she is in cruise control feeling virtually NOTHING!!!!! for her to fuck you, you are going to have to change up the game.

 

[Richard]

Some of the best advice I ever got regarding pool also applies here; "Don't fall into your opponents rhythm. When it's your turn, play at your own pace."

People that talk quickly are usually highly creative and intelligent people who speak quickly as a means to not skip over information; they're trying to get all of their thoughts out without missing anything. I find it best to talk to them by letting them talk, summarizing their thoughts, and responding from there.

You should be speaking slowly, yourself, and that will help to pull them into your pace.