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Trying out dealing with disrespect as written in Hector's article.
Last night I go out to the bar with some buddies. Almost immediately when I walk in I see Thing 2, a sexy chick that games guys and I've had numerous trials with. Also I put a sock in her friend's mouth.
She sees me walk in. She smiles and waves, appears to be in a good mood. She flaked on me last time so I give her a slight smile and a wave, then walk away from her. I hadn't planned on talking to her till later (if at all) but at one point I'm getting a drink and she happens to be right there. I couldn't make it weird and not continue walking towards her just because I saw her, that would make me look bitter, so I continue forward.
When I sit down with her she is immediately touchy and friendly. I do my best to be as neutral as possible, with minor reciprocation. I learned my lesson last time, this is nothing special (girls touching you and being sexual to you). Be casual. She says something along the lines of "oh baby don't ever think that we won't be together" (shit test that puts me in the chasing position) and I give her a look like *bitch, what?* and say "what?" and she changes the subject. Good girl.
We talk some more, and she starts bringing up all these guys chasing her and guys she fucks. I start getting more touchy with her, the subject being sex, and she brings up the sock-in-the-mouth thing with me banging her psycho friend, again. I show non-verbally it's kind of annoying how she brings it up, my face kind of like *here we go again* and she picks up on it. She says "hey you can make fun of me for doing my weird bondage shit", and I say, "why would I make fun of you for doing bondage?" and she gets visibly nervous.
My friend comes over and I introduce him to Thing 2, remarking how cute my friend is. We chit chat and blah blah blah. I take her scarf and play with it, then put it over her head when she says something silly with a "stop it". Playful feminine game.
Once the bullshit is done and it's just her and I again, I invite her home. She doesn't give me a straight answer and goes back to her phone. Then she starts talking about the guys again and I look deeply in her eyes, and can see her frame shaking. She knows I'm aware of her game. Eyes are a major strong point of mine in attracting girls, I know they can be powerful if used correctly. Usually I use the bedroom eyes to spike arousal, but today I used them to communicate, "I see you".
This angle I'm playing (for lack of a better word, this all felt quite natural) isn't the best one to play, but it shows her I see her little games she's trying, it doesn't effect me. It lowers attainability and raises value. My attainability was too high last time, so it's an attempt to restore the balance. She's trying to get me chasing to feed her ego, the stories she's telling me about these guys all have the central theme of guys chasing her, while she plays on her phone and shows me the guys she's texting, laughing at them. Me remaining neutral and a bit aloof pushes me away from any chasing. It's a "you're losing me, cut the shit before I autoreject" frame.
Unfortunately, I didn't wield this tool to optimal conditions. She fled to her friend, saying "be right back" likely out of discomfort. I wait for about a minute then leave. I "autoreject". I think I pushed it a few seconds too far / didn't comfort her afterwards.
Eventually I'm reading on my phone smoking a cig near the entrance, and she taps me and goes "cya!!!" while walking out. I say nothing.
Hue
Last night I go out to the bar with some buddies. Almost immediately when I walk in I see Thing 2, a sexy chick that games guys and I've had numerous trials with. Also I put a sock in her friend's mouth.
She sees me walk in. She smiles and waves, appears to be in a good mood. She flaked on me last time so I give her a slight smile and a wave, then walk away from her. I hadn't planned on talking to her till later (if at all) but at one point I'm getting a drink and she happens to be right there. I couldn't make it weird and not continue walking towards her just because I saw her, that would make me look bitter, so I continue forward.
When I sit down with her she is immediately touchy and friendly. I do my best to be as neutral as possible, with minor reciprocation. I learned my lesson last time, this is nothing special (girls touching you and being sexual to you). Be casual. She says something along the lines of "oh baby don't ever think that we won't be together" (shit test that puts me in the chasing position) and I give her a look like *bitch, what?* and say "what?" and she changes the subject. Good girl.
We talk some more, and she starts bringing up all these guys chasing her and guys she fucks. I start getting more touchy with her, the subject being sex, and she brings up the sock-in-the-mouth thing with me banging her psycho friend, again. I show non-verbally it's kind of annoying how she brings it up, my face kind of like *here we go again* and she picks up on it. She says "hey you can make fun of me for doing my weird bondage shit", and I say, "why would I make fun of you for doing bondage?" and she gets visibly nervous.
My friend comes over and I introduce him to Thing 2, remarking how cute my friend is. We chit chat and blah blah blah. I take her scarf and play with it, then put it over her head when she says something silly with a "stop it". Playful feminine game.
Once the bullshit is done and it's just her and I again, I invite her home. She doesn't give me a straight answer and goes back to her phone. Then she starts talking about the guys again and I look deeply in her eyes, and can see her frame shaking. She knows I'm aware of her game. Eyes are a major strong point of mine in attracting girls, I know they can be powerful if used correctly. Usually I use the bedroom eyes to spike arousal, but today I used them to communicate, "I see you".
This angle I'm playing (for lack of a better word, this all felt quite natural) isn't the best one to play, but it shows her I see her little games she's trying, it doesn't effect me. It lowers attainability and raises value. My attainability was too high last time, so it's an attempt to restore the balance. She's trying to get me chasing to feed her ego, the stories she's telling me about these guys all have the central theme of guys chasing her, while she plays on her phone and shows me the guys she's texting, laughing at them. Me remaining neutral and a bit aloof pushes me away from any chasing. It's a "you're losing me, cut the shit before I autoreject" frame.
Unfortunately, I didn't wield this tool to optimal conditions. She fled to her friend, saying "be right back" likely out of discomfort. I wait for about a minute then leave. I "autoreject". I think I pushed it a few seconds too far / didn't comfort her afterwards.
Eventually I'm reading on my phone smoking a cig near the entrance, and she taps me and goes "cya!!!" while walking out. I say nothing.
Hue
