Today I met up with some old friends I haven't seen for awhile. Back then I was much of a joker type. Always being the loudest to entertain people and make them laugh, always looking for attention. But now I was more quieter WAY quieter.
My friends notice and kept telling me to more. I tried to but I wasn't trying to become a joker. I was trying to be more of a suave cool type person. I tried to speak less and slowed my movements. But I notified when I was trying to conversate it got very awkward. And I was trying to he more of a suave guy, I became to self conscious oh what I was gonna say because I didn't want to become the joker type, so I froze all the time when I tried to talk. One of the girls from the social circle was trying to make conversation with me, but I kept freezing trying to be more calm and relaxed and more suave. It pt unnatural it got awkward. How do I socialize without being to self conscious and trying hard. Basically become more natural. Thanks guys!
My friends notice and kept telling me to more. I tried to but I wasn't trying to become a joker. I was trying to be more of a suave cool type person. I tried to speak less and slowed my movements. But I notified when I was trying to conversate it got very awkward. And I was trying to he more of a suave guy, I became to self conscious oh what I was gonna say because I didn't want to become the joker type, so I froze all the time when I tried to talk. One of the girls from the social circle was trying to make conversation with me, but I kept freezing trying to be more calm and relaxed and more suave. It pt unnatural it got awkward. How do I socialize without being to self conscious and trying hard. Basically become more natural. Thanks guys!
