This is a field report about a party I attended a few weeks back. Thought I could use some feedback on what I did good/bad.
I had been working the whole day and just got home and taken a shower where I get a text from my friends asking if I wanted to come along to a party fairly close to home. Nothing else was planned for that evening so I accepted and 20 min later they picked me up. (one of my friends don't drink so he usually drives to the parties we attend).
First thing that happens when I walk through the door is that I put down my bottle of rum so my hands are free and can greet my friends and all the new people I didn't know at the time that opened the door for us. Once I put down my bottle of rum I feel someone squeezing my ass, I wasn't expecting that so I turned around and accidently knocked over a glass of red wine on the floor. The night was already more exciting than my day at work. The girl who is the host of the party runs over and asks what happend and I explain and make a few jokes to lighten the mood, she was fine with it and I had to go down on my knees and clean up the living room (the living room was right next to the front door) for the first 10 minutes of the party. It wasn't the smoothest start but I managed it pretty good imo.
After I cleaned everything up I went out with a drink and took a smoke with my friends, I didn't have any ciggarettes myself so a girl gave me one of hers. After that I went inside to mingle, greeted a few people, then I teased a girl about being "famous" on social media and such (dont really remember what she said, but she was way too cocky and bitchy so I had to pull her down to the earth again). It wen't on for a few minutes then I was bored and went to refill my drink. Once in the kitchen I meet another girl, very dominant, tall (i'm 6.5 so a tall girl for me is like 5.11) I teased her a bit and she really liked it. Went outside again and continued talking with a group of girls I had been chatting with earlier that evening. We were playing around, slapping eachothers asses and just had fun. Then the tall girl comes out, goes to me and says: god, that ugly foreigner just kissed me from nowhere. (She said a few more things about him that I wont bring up, she was bit of a racist. He was short and a foreigner as mentioned above, and i'm tall white with dirty blonde hair. She was probably sick with everything that happens in sweden, the imigration crisis or w/e).
Didn't know if she was trying to make me jealous or w/e but I just said cool then faced the group again. Once inside again in the kitcken for my third refill she pulls me in and says she wants to make the guy jealous, I said sure and started kissing her infront of everyone in the kitchen. And then used what I've learned here, I pulled away first, teased her a bit more than procceded out once more. (my friend was right next to us in the kitchen when that happend and told me that the tall girl was furious that I pulled away and left here there).
On my way out I was feeling how my bladder was full and mother nature called. I went upstairs, in the middle of the stairs the first girls stops me and we started talking. (I love to tease people, one of the best things I know). I could feel she was digging me so I went closer and closer untill I was right infront of her face, she didn't move or say anything and I could smell the tension. Then I pulled away and went to the toilet without kissing her. I had already managed kissing one girl this party already so I felt I would experiment a bit and see how much of an ass I could be. After I had pee'd I went down and stayed there for a while before I remembered I forgot my drink in the bathroom. Right when I had taken my drink and was walking downstairs the "famous" girl asked why I didn't kiss her earlier. I never had a girl asking me that before and I got such a rush from all this so I just manhandled her, pulled her to the closest bedroom and threw her on the bed. That continued for a few minutes before we hear a voice coming next to us from the bed. (the girl outside who's ass I had slapped before had fallen asleep next to us and woke up due to the noise we were making) I asked if she wanted to join us and the girl I was kissing said I was crazy and we went on for a few more minutes. Then she stops and says that I don't like her, or think she's pretty, fishing for compliments. I felt like a king already after everything that happend so I just said: if you're going to act like a kid, you'll find me downstairs. Then she started qualifying herself and we started making out again. I didn't escalate because of the girl right next to us and all other rooms in the house we're either locked or busy.
I was trying to move downstairs to my friends again once more but the tall girl sees my walking out from the bedroom with girl n2. She said I was such a player and I felt like a greek god by now. I pulled her in, starting kissing her then we layed down on the couch next to us. This was in a open room which many people went through. The 2 girls from the group I was talking to outside earlier saw us, I pulled them both in by their hands, they didn't back away or anything. Before I knew I had 3 girls on the couch with me, everyone kissing everyone. Never felt better before. Then I saw my friends in the stairs just looking in awe at me. After a while me and the tall girl goes to the toilet alone. She just like the first girl starting to fish for compliments and such. I just bust her balls and continues. (fyi, i'm a virgin, and only kissed 4 girls before this night.) After a while she started to unzip my pants, and I was ready. She started to stroke my dick and balls. Unfortunately I couldn't get it up. Guess I was nervous, that with all the rum I had been drinking.
That was pretty much the night for me. But It says drama in the title?
During all this, the few times I had a chance to sit down with the people I got to the party with I had sort of a beef with this guy. I was sitting around the couch downstairs with my buddies and this fat kid walks up, asks if he could hit me. I said sure, NEVER thought he would do it. NEVER seen him before, NEVER talked to him before or anything like that. He was so calm when he asked so I thought it was a joke, but then he slapped me with an open hand. My friends got furious and asked why I let him walk away. I've read here that you should always avoid a fight at anycost if it's not for self defence. And my father has taught me that too from his wild days. It was just a slap so I let it slide. I had such a great night and I didn't wanna get in a fight and get kicked out already. (This was maybe 40 min after we arrived and just after my first make out with the tall girl, I was hoping for more with her that's why I didn't jump him). Maybe 10-15 minutes later he comes back, says he wanna fight me. Makes a whole scene about it. I thought okay, I have to do this now. We walk outside, I was already full of adrenaline from everything earlier, fit for fight when he turns around and starts laughing, telling me he was joking. At the time I thought he was a fucking retard. I went inside and remembered my drink in the bathroom.
After failing to get hard I went downstairs, starting chatting up another girl that was clearly into me. I found her very pretty and everything went smooth when the fat kid walks up and slaps me in the face AGAIN. This time my blood is boiling, I jump up from the couch I was sitting in next to the pretty girl and walk up to him, almost like I was going to kiss him like the previous girls. Asking him what his problem was. He said he wanted to fight outside, right now. At the time I had the tall girl who was sleeping over, and 2 other girls on the hook, I REALLY didn't wanna get kicked out so I calmed down in a second. Sat back down in the couch and ignored him, chatting up the pretty girl again, she had her legs over mine, resting her head on my shoulder. Then ONCE more the fat kid runs in, starting calling me a faggot for not fighting him. At this time I was so amused by him, I felt bad for him. I just laughed, I was totally calm. Agreeing to everything he said, that I was a gay. But everyone in the room knew already I made out with 4 girls that evening and on my way to the fifth. He made a fool out of himself and the girls tried to calm him down etc. 5 minutes after that we get kicked out by the host, (the fat kid was her friend, and he was staying the night.) So in the end I lost my chance for probably losing my V-card because me and the tall girl talked about staying the night and sharing bed. What I regret from this party is that I didn't hit the fat kid.
One last thing I wanted to add before this turns into a novel. I maybe said like a few sentences total to all the girls that night. Mostly body language and nonverbal. Both girls also said I was a player and asked if I did this often etc. And I continued to tease and play with them. This was also the first time I wore my new parfume, La Nuit de l`Homme, almost every girl that evening complimented me on it. While I was making out both also stopped in the middle of everything and said that I smelled incredible and asked what it was.
I had been working the whole day and just got home and taken a shower where I get a text from my friends asking if I wanted to come along to a party fairly close to home. Nothing else was planned for that evening so I accepted and 20 min later they picked me up. (one of my friends don't drink so he usually drives to the parties we attend).
First thing that happens when I walk through the door is that I put down my bottle of rum so my hands are free and can greet my friends and all the new people I didn't know at the time that opened the door for us. Once I put down my bottle of rum I feel someone squeezing my ass, I wasn't expecting that so I turned around and accidently knocked over a glass of red wine on the floor. The night was already more exciting than my day at work. The girl who is the host of the party runs over and asks what happend and I explain and make a few jokes to lighten the mood, she was fine with it and I had to go down on my knees and clean up the living room (the living room was right next to the front door) for the first 10 minutes of the party. It wasn't the smoothest start but I managed it pretty good imo.
After I cleaned everything up I went out with a drink and took a smoke with my friends, I didn't have any ciggarettes myself so a girl gave me one of hers. After that I went inside to mingle, greeted a few people, then I teased a girl about being "famous" on social media and such (dont really remember what she said, but she was way too cocky and bitchy so I had to pull her down to the earth again). It wen't on for a few minutes then I was bored and went to refill my drink. Once in the kitchen I meet another girl, very dominant, tall (i'm 6.5 so a tall girl for me is like 5.11) I teased her a bit and she really liked it. Went outside again and continued talking with a group of girls I had been chatting with earlier that evening. We were playing around, slapping eachothers asses and just had fun. Then the tall girl comes out, goes to me and says: god, that ugly foreigner just kissed me from nowhere. (She said a few more things about him that I wont bring up, she was bit of a racist. He was short and a foreigner as mentioned above, and i'm tall white with dirty blonde hair. She was probably sick with everything that happens in sweden, the imigration crisis or w/e).
Didn't know if she was trying to make me jealous or w/e but I just said cool then faced the group again. Once inside again in the kitcken for my third refill she pulls me in and says she wants to make the guy jealous, I said sure and started kissing her infront of everyone in the kitchen. And then used what I've learned here, I pulled away first, teased her a bit more than procceded out once more. (my friend was right next to us in the kitchen when that happend and told me that the tall girl was furious that I pulled away and left here there).
On my way out I was feeling how my bladder was full and mother nature called. I went upstairs, in the middle of the stairs the first girls stops me and we started talking. (I love to tease people, one of the best things I know). I could feel she was digging me so I went closer and closer untill I was right infront of her face, she didn't move or say anything and I could smell the tension. Then I pulled away and went to the toilet without kissing her. I had already managed kissing one girl this party already so I felt I would experiment a bit and see how much of an ass I could be. After I had pee'd I went down and stayed there for a while before I remembered I forgot my drink in the bathroom. Right when I had taken my drink and was walking downstairs the "famous" girl asked why I didn't kiss her earlier. I never had a girl asking me that before and I got such a rush from all this so I just manhandled her, pulled her to the closest bedroom and threw her on the bed. That continued for a few minutes before we hear a voice coming next to us from the bed. (the girl outside who's ass I had slapped before had fallen asleep next to us and woke up due to the noise we were making) I asked if she wanted to join us and the girl I was kissing said I was crazy and we went on for a few more minutes. Then she stops and says that I don't like her, or think she's pretty, fishing for compliments. I felt like a king already after everything that happend so I just said: if you're going to act like a kid, you'll find me downstairs. Then she started qualifying herself and we started making out again. I didn't escalate because of the girl right next to us and all other rooms in the house we're either locked or busy.
I was trying to move downstairs to my friends again once more but the tall girl sees my walking out from the bedroom with girl n2. She said I was such a player and I felt like a greek god by now. I pulled her in, starting kissing her then we layed down on the couch next to us. This was in a open room which many people went through. The 2 girls from the group I was talking to outside earlier saw us, I pulled them both in by their hands, they didn't back away or anything. Before I knew I had 3 girls on the couch with me, everyone kissing everyone. Never felt better before. Then I saw my friends in the stairs just looking in awe at me. After a while me and the tall girl goes to the toilet alone. She just like the first girl starting to fish for compliments and such. I just bust her balls and continues. (fyi, i'm a virgin, and only kissed 4 girls before this night.) After a while she started to unzip my pants, and I was ready. She started to stroke my dick and balls. Unfortunately I couldn't get it up. Guess I was nervous, that with all the rum I had been drinking.
That was pretty much the night for me. But It says drama in the title?
During all this, the few times I had a chance to sit down with the people I got to the party with I had sort of a beef with this guy. I was sitting around the couch downstairs with my buddies and this fat kid walks up, asks if he could hit me. I said sure, NEVER thought he would do it. NEVER seen him before, NEVER talked to him before or anything like that. He was so calm when he asked so I thought it was a joke, but then he slapped me with an open hand. My friends got furious and asked why I let him walk away. I've read here that you should always avoid a fight at anycost if it's not for self defence. And my father has taught me that too from his wild days. It was just a slap so I let it slide. I had such a great night and I didn't wanna get in a fight and get kicked out already. (This was maybe 40 min after we arrived and just after my first make out with the tall girl, I was hoping for more with her that's why I didn't jump him). Maybe 10-15 minutes later he comes back, says he wanna fight me. Makes a whole scene about it. I thought okay, I have to do this now. We walk outside, I was already full of adrenaline from everything earlier, fit for fight when he turns around and starts laughing, telling me he was joking. At the time I thought he was a fucking retard. I went inside and remembered my drink in the bathroom.
After failing to get hard I went downstairs, starting chatting up another girl that was clearly into me. I found her very pretty and everything went smooth when the fat kid walks up and slaps me in the face AGAIN. This time my blood is boiling, I jump up from the couch I was sitting in next to the pretty girl and walk up to him, almost like I was going to kiss him like the previous girls. Asking him what his problem was. He said he wanted to fight outside, right now. At the time I had the tall girl who was sleeping over, and 2 other girls on the hook, I REALLY didn't wanna get kicked out so I calmed down in a second. Sat back down in the couch and ignored him, chatting up the pretty girl again, she had her legs over mine, resting her head on my shoulder. Then ONCE more the fat kid runs in, starting calling me a faggot for not fighting him. At this time I was so amused by him, I felt bad for him. I just laughed, I was totally calm. Agreeing to everything he said, that I was a gay. But everyone in the room knew already I made out with 4 girls that evening and on my way to the fifth. He made a fool out of himself and the girls tried to calm him down etc. 5 minutes after that we get kicked out by the host, (the fat kid was her friend, and he was staying the night.) So in the end I lost my chance for probably losing my V-card because me and the tall girl talked about staying the night and sharing bed. What I regret from this party is that I didn't hit the fat kid.
One last thing I wanted to add before this turns into a novel. I maybe said like a few sentences total to all the girls that night. Mostly body language and nonverbal. Both girls also said I was a player and asked if I did this often etc. And I continued to tease and play with them. This was also the first time I wore my new parfume, La Nuit de l`Homme, almost every girl that evening complimented me on it. While I was making out both also stopped in the middle of everything and said that I smelled incredible and asked what it was.
