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Turning down girls who try too hard.

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Space Monkey
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I want to know what are your experiences with this are and how you handle it.

I'm specifically talking about females who will try and mold themselves to you and change their behaviors, views, and start bringing up conversation of things they are doing or did that is obviously an attempt at relating. Now some of this is fine and even welcomed by me. But when it becomes try hard it is such an absolute turn off to me that I can't help but reject it.

What is your personal experience with rejecting women? Mine tells me that it is perfectly ok to do this sometimes, and might even have a positive effect in the long run despite shutting down her attempts to relate to you, which obviously stems from her wanting your acceptance.

I understand it completely. But, it makes me lose respect if I considered this woman high value.

Thoughts?
 
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