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I’ve been swamped with uni work as semester is coming to a close. Not gaming much. This is a cold approach turning social circle kinda report.
I met this girl in winter 2021 just moving to Budapest. Not used to nightgaming solo and sober I’ve had strugles with anxiety. This resulted in me nit setting a proper sexual frame in beginning and eventually friendzoning myself.
We exchanged contacts then and met a couple of times. I tried to escalate a couple of times but she always had something to do after meeting me… not letting me escalate.
After 3 “dates” I’ve decided to come clear with her. Because if I’m going to decelope a friendship with a person I want it to be honest.
Then I stopped pursuing her, stopped texting her. After a month (now its February 2022) she texted me “are you dead”. I was out of the country at that time and set up a polite meeting with her as I come back.
We went to a dance performance (she’s a contemporary dancer) and then a couple of beers. Nothing romantical, just shooting shit, as I said I get along with her. I remeber her saying goodbye to me “see you soon”. I don’t know if that means anything.
She invited me to a birthday party 2 weeks ago. I decided to game her friends there and bring a female friend with me for social proof.
I made out with her there. How?
- brought a female to the party, made her jealous
- gave all the attention to other guests, being just polite with her (I was trying to game)
- then said to her “I value you as a friend, you’re the kind of person I want to have arround”. She looked frustrated at this remark, I think she even sighed “oh”.
- then we were dancing. in a joke I lifted her up and spinned her around and in the process she spilled her drink on my shirt. i took off my shirt and continued dancing shirtless. I’m well built and all the female attention was on me at that moment. Even some guys girlfriend touched my chest and told me I don’t need a shirt, the guy got defensive haha
- then we started dancing. closer and closer until we made out.
We made out for the rest of the evening. I lifted her up and took her to the bedroom “we don’t have to do anything” (after putting her hand on my dick) just to be kicked out by the flat owner because she didn’t want us to fuck on her bed.
Then we just continued to make out. When the time was to go home we went home. It just didn’t seem the timing to ask her to come to mine then but looking back I should’ve. We parted with “see you very soon”.
I texted her a day after the party that we should get a drink soon. She said she’s going to an event on all the evening this week and next week to Serbia. OK. I’m playing it cool. I know that she does want to see me again though, just feeling. I’m going to dissapear again for now.
I really like this chick. To the point that my emotional reactions seem kinda gross to me.
This is it, hope it helps someone who’s in the friendzone. I decided to cool myself off with a spontaneous trip to London full of gaming. Field/ lay reports comming in Sunday.
DG
I met this girl in winter 2021 just moving to Budapest. Not used to nightgaming solo and sober I’ve had strugles with anxiety. This resulted in me nit setting a proper sexual frame in beginning and eventually friendzoning myself.
We exchanged contacts then and met a couple of times. I tried to escalate a couple of times but she always had something to do after meeting me… not letting me escalate.
After 3 “dates” I’ve decided to come clear with her. Because if I’m going to decelope a friendship with a person I want it to be honest.
As we were having a drink at a bar near my place, me trying to escalate again, she asked me “why are you looking at me that way”. My response was “Nah, I’m not going to tell you” “C’mon” “Ok, since you asked.. I am attracted to you. I can see this is not going both ways. I want my intentions to be clear, I believe in this shit”. She was (acting?) a bit surprised “Mhm… but are you cool with staying it this way (friendship)?”. I was cool with it because I got along with her. Unopinionated, openmimded person, the kind of people I like to have around. And she probably has some cute friends.
Then I stopped pursuing her, stopped texting her. After a month (now its February 2022) she texted me “are you dead”. I was out of the country at that time and set up a polite meeting with her as I come back.
We went to a dance performance (she’s a contemporary dancer) and then a couple of beers. Nothing romantical, just shooting shit, as I said I get along with her. I remeber her saying goodbye to me “see you soon”. I don’t know if that means anything.
She invited me to a birthday party 2 weeks ago. I decided to game her friends there and bring a female friend with me for social proof.
I made out with her there. How?
- brought a female to the party, made her jealous
- gave all the attention to other guests, being just polite with her (I was trying to game)
- then said to her “I value you as a friend, you’re the kind of person I want to have arround”. She looked frustrated at this remark, I think she even sighed “oh”.
- then we were dancing. in a joke I lifted her up and spinned her around and in the process she spilled her drink on my shirt. i took off my shirt and continued dancing shirtless. I’m well built and all the female attention was on me at that moment. Even some guys girlfriend touched my chest and told me I don’t need a shirt, the guy got defensive haha
- then we started dancing. closer and closer until we made out.
We made out for the rest of the evening. I lifted her up and took her to the bedroom “we don’t have to do anything” (after putting her hand on my dick) just to be kicked out by the flat owner because she didn’t want us to fuck on her bed.
Then we just continued to make out. When the time was to go home we went home. It just didn’t seem the timing to ask her to come to mine then but looking back I should’ve. We parted with “see you very soon”.
I texted her a day after the party that we should get a drink soon. She said she’s going to an event on all the evening this week and next week to Serbia. OK. I’m playing it cool. I know that she does want to see me again though, just feeling. I’m going to dissapear again for now.
I really like this chick. To the point that my emotional reactions seem kinda gross to me.
This is it, hope it helps someone who’s in the friendzone. I decided to cool myself off with a spontaneous trip to London full of gaming. Field/ lay reports comming in Sunday.
DG
