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In New York again, I love this place. I was busy all day yesterday, but essentially had most of today free. My morning was taken up by something, I slept a little bit and hit the streets at 5 on a mission.
I'm walking across times square and see this attractive girl at a crosswalk on her phone, and instantly know the approach will work. I just open from the side and tell her that she's stunning, and then walk along with her.
We go to get smoothies (I pay), and then sit down and I'm trying to deep dive but it's like pulling teeth. I play her some of my music and she's very clearly impressed by my immense talent, and asks how old I am. I'm 22, she tells me she's 27.
We sit down and I run the cube on her, while our legs are touching. I'm trying to think up ways to sex talk but I can't figure out a way to smoothly transition. The body is willing, but the mind is weak. I decide to bounce because the smoothie bar is loud and I can't escalate much more than grazing her legs, and I tell her lets go.
We start walking, and while we're mid conversation I bring up an earlier thread about the type of music I listen to and tell her that we're gonna go listen and then return to the conversation topic. I'm describing psychology, the shadow and jung.
I think with this one, I didn't focus on arousal enough, but I don't know. Total time was 58 minutes.
Next one is outside the New York Library, which is by the way one of the best spots to game here in my opinion. This girl was super reserved.
I walk up to this girl and ask her if I could use a chair that her stuff is on.
Basic talk about the city, how she likes it, and how she's been before. I'm amazed she's solo traveling but I don't bring that up. I ask her to go get juice, she says yes. Fluff talk on the way, then we sit next to eachother at the juice bar (I pay
)
We're very close, and I begin just basically asking her about her interests while touching her rings and escalating physically. She's complying, we leave the juice bar and go sit down.
At this point I'm caressing her hand, and then lift her leg onto mine and just continue talking. We get really close and I'm essentially just looking at her during silence and escalating tension. She keeps looking away. At some point, music is discussed and I tell her that we can go listen, and she says no.
I tell her let's go check out times square (where my hotel is) and she says yes, but she has to catch a train in an hour and 30 minutes. We're walking and at one point I tell her to give me her phone but she mishears me and holds my hand, and I get basically right outside of my place before I lean up against a wall and start talking to her again. I pull her in and she's turned away, but complies mostly.
My hands under her shirt touching her back, and we're talking about something or other when we kind of trail off and I just look at her. I don't think with her I can just walk in without the same situation transpiring, so I go to kiss her and she turns away.
I guess I should have kept going with this? I just fractionated out and told her that we should at least get out of the rain and just listen to music. She said it was irresponsible so she can't. She said that she would kiss my cheek and leave and I said okay. She kisses my cheek and starts to go and I ask where she's going? She says she has to leave cause she said she would and that's that.
I think with this one I didn't build enough comfort so maybe the exact opposite problem. If I wanted to set positive frames with these two, what would have been the ideal routines I should have utilized?
I'm walking across times square and see this attractive girl at a crosswalk on her phone, and instantly know the approach will work. I just open from the side and tell her that she's stunning, and then walk along with her.
We go to get smoothies (I pay), and then sit down and I'm trying to deep dive but it's like pulling teeth. I play her some of my music and she's very clearly impressed by my immense talent, and asks how old I am. I'm 22, she tells me she's 27.
We sit down and I run the cube on her, while our legs are touching. I'm trying to think up ways to sex talk but I can't figure out a way to smoothly transition. The body is willing, but the mind is weak. I decide to bounce because the smoothie bar is loud and I can't escalate much more than grazing her legs, and I tell her lets go.
We start walking, and while we're mid conversation I bring up an earlier thread about the type of music I listen to and tell her that we're gonna go listen and then return to the conversation topic. I'm describing psychology, the shadow and jung.
I think with this one, I didn't focus on arousal enough, but I don't know. Total time was 58 minutes.
Next one is outside the New York Library, which is by the way one of the best spots to game here in my opinion. This girl was super reserved.
I walk up to this girl and ask her if I could use a chair that her stuff is on.
Basic talk about the city, how she likes it, and how she's been before. I'm amazed she's solo traveling but I don't bring that up. I ask her to go get juice, she says yes. Fluff talk on the way, then we sit next to eachother at the juice bar (I pay
)We're very close, and I begin just basically asking her about her interests while touching her rings and escalating physically. She's complying, we leave the juice bar and go sit down.
At this point I'm caressing her hand, and then lift her leg onto mine and just continue talking. We get really close and I'm essentially just looking at her during silence and escalating tension. She keeps looking away. At some point, music is discussed and I tell her that we can go listen, and she says no.
I tell her let's go check out times square (where my hotel is) and she says yes, but she has to catch a train in an hour and 30 minutes. We're walking and at one point I tell her to give me her phone but she mishears me and holds my hand, and I get basically right outside of my place before I lean up against a wall and start talking to her again. I pull her in and she's turned away, but complies mostly.
My hands under her shirt touching her back, and we're talking about something or other when we kind of trail off and I just look at her. I don't think with her I can just walk in without the same situation transpiring, so I go to kiss her and she turns away.
I guess I should have kept going with this? I just fractionated out and told her that we should at least get out of the rain and just listen to music. She said it was irresponsible so she can't. She said that she would kiss my cheek and leave and I said okay. She kisses my cheek and starts to go and I ask where she's going? She says she has to leave cause she said she would and that's that.
I think with this one I didn't build enough comfort so maybe the exact opposite problem. If I wanted to set positive frames with these two, what would have been the ideal routines I should have utilized?
