I went out last Saturday with my wingman and hit a nightclub called The Castle, in Tampa Bay. As soon as We got inside the venue We headed to the bar to get some drink in order to warming up for the rest of the night. After getting the drink we moved to the dance floor where the hottest girls were dancing. I am not a good dancer but I can follow the rythm in some ways so I dont look awful either. Anyways my vibe was ok that night and I was standing and dancing with my wing while waiting for a strong IOI from at least one of those hot girl in the dance floor and fortunately it happened. I got a strong eye contact like for about 3 second from one of two girls who were standing next to me so that I didnt even have to walk or anything other than leaning in a little bit. I whispered in her ear the following "I just noticed you were checking me out and I just did the same" (while saying this I put my left hand on her shoulder)
guess what? She turned her head so my leaps and her leaps face each other which was clear she wanted to be kissed and I did
Based on how fast I escalated the set I knew I had to keep that same speed and sexual intensity going otherwise she might get all the validation from me and disappear. If I started playing comfort game and rapport I might have risked rejection even more. specially if the girl was just horny and wanted sex to happen fast. I am at the point in my journey that I would prefer to get rejected for being too sexual than for not being sexual enough. In the nightclub you get rejected before you get friendzoned.
Anyways, I tried to isolate her from her friend and start delivering a sexual convo and get her horny to pull her as soon as the bell would ring in my mind and that she comfirmed to me she wanted a ONS in some way or another. However she came up with the "can't leave my Friend" objection. I was able to handle it and got to move her away but not too far either.
At that point I saw my wingman having a good vibe going on and maybe hitting on my target's friend and then i thought the best way to pull my girl was if we both pull them at the same time. Nevertheless, even though I told my wing many times "it was time to pull" he still was vibing and connecting and having the comfort game with my girl's friend which i knew wasnt a good idea in the nightclub. At some point and after almost an hour of my friend having a good vibing with my girl's friend the vibe was gone and he came up to me with "empty hands" his girl left and after that my girl left as well.
Today was awful, I really dont know what is happening I guess I was just lucky the other day. We hit a place called Parana in Ybor City. All my approaches were shit but I guess we get better feedback from failures than from success where some times we get lucky and the numbers game plays in our favor. Anyways, I was just feeling lost in the game about how to move things forward. I didnt much physical escalation with any of the set and to me is very crucial for the nighclub and feeling very hesitant to show intent. It is like the Confidence wasnt there. Hesitant to approach at first. Hesistant to show intent. Hesitant to be physical. Hesitant to sexualize and get verbally sexual. Hesitant hesitant and hesitant to everything. I was trying to fix with every following set I got rid of the AA after couple of set and not giving a fuck and out of my mind, however something was still off and not working like i was short of words and things to say to move it forward and girls were noticing that. Anyways when that happen all I do is to ask for their numbers or some kind of sexual come on and see how lucky i am that night lol, hey! at least is better trying than nothing.
Another thing I was struggling with was to get her invested. I mean since most of what I have done is Daygame I am used to get her invested and engaged in the conversation with simple stuff like how old are you, what is your job however those questions fail to get a girl invested in the nightclub
Any of you has experienced these isuues? How did you solve it?
Best DSR
guess what? She turned her head so my leaps and her leaps face each other which was clear she wanted to be kissed and I did
Based on how fast I escalated the set I knew I had to keep that same speed and sexual intensity going otherwise she might get all the validation from me and disappear. If I started playing comfort game and rapport I might have risked rejection even more. specially if the girl was just horny and wanted sex to happen fast. I am at the point in my journey that I would prefer to get rejected for being too sexual than for not being sexual enough. In the nightclub you get rejected before you get friendzoned.
Anyways, I tried to isolate her from her friend and start delivering a sexual convo and get her horny to pull her as soon as the bell would ring in my mind and that she comfirmed to me she wanted a ONS in some way or another. However she came up with the "can't leave my Friend" objection. I was able to handle it and got to move her away but not too far either.
At that point I saw my wingman having a good vibe going on and maybe hitting on my target's friend and then i thought the best way to pull my girl was if we both pull them at the same time. Nevertheless, even though I told my wing many times "it was time to pull" he still was vibing and connecting and having the comfort game with my girl's friend which i knew wasnt a good idea in the nightclub. At some point and after almost an hour of my friend having a good vibing with my girl's friend the vibe was gone and he came up to me with "empty hands" his girl left and after that my girl left as well.
Today was awful, I really dont know what is happening I guess I was just lucky the other day. We hit a place called Parana in Ybor City. All my approaches were shit but I guess we get better feedback from failures than from success where some times we get lucky and the numbers game plays in our favor. Anyways, I was just feeling lost in the game about how to move things forward. I didnt much physical escalation with any of the set and to me is very crucial for the nighclub and feeling very hesitant to show intent. It is like the Confidence wasnt there. Hesitant to approach at first. Hesistant to show intent. Hesitant to be physical. Hesitant to sexualize and get verbally sexual. Hesitant hesitant and hesitant to everything. I was trying to fix with every following set I got rid of the AA after couple of set and not giving a fuck and out of my mind, however something was still off and not working like i was short of words and things to say to move it forward and girls were noticing that. Anyways when that happen all I do is to ask for their numbers or some kind of sexual come on and see how lucky i am that night lol, hey! at least is better trying than nothing.
Another thing I was struggling with was to get her invested. I mean since most of what I have done is Daygame I am used to get her invested and engaged in the conversation with simple stuff like how old are you, what is your job however those questions fail to get a girl invested in the nightclub
Any of you has experienced these isuues? How did you solve it?
Best DSR
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