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Documenting my most recent lay. Feedback welcome and appreciated! The girl will be referred to as A. Shes a 21-year-old blonde girl with bright blue eyes, c cup, nose ring.
Part 1: Initial meet up
Exchanged messages on tinder A on July 4th. She asked if I have plans for the night. Tell her no this is my first time staying in on the 4th. Tells me " Come to bar x". Ask her if she's leaving soon. "We're now at bar Y". Okay lets do this. Tell her " Yeah I may come by". Get her number and while i had a few drinks. Chat up my Uber driver to get in a social mood. Arrive at bar go outside and start chatting with an older woman after I asked her for a cigarette. Text A "This place looks like a house". She replies" Omg your here?". Ignore and chat with various patrons to pump my state. Text her to come meet me outside and she does. She's with her average looking friend. Sit down at table and start chatting with them. Nothing crazy. Her friend gets up to and get another drink. Had to take the isolation to escalate.
I held out my hand to her. She hands me a JUUL that we'd been passing back forth. I put it on the table. Focusing on eye contact. She takes my hand.
I immediately pulled her in for a kiss. After kissing her she says "I lost my train of thought". I immediately resume the previous conversation like we never kissed. Isolate her again when I ask her to join me as I get another beer. Kiss her more before returning to the table. Me her and her friend all engage in casual conversation until last call. I get up and say I'll get myself an uber and asked where they parked. A offers me a ride home. Get her to invest? Check. We arrive at my place.She said she had fun. Go in and kiss her one last time and whisper in her ear "See you this weekend". I'm in my room and she texts me. "Hey we can hang out after I drop my friend off if you want" Respond "Yeah sure" expected a flake. I was right. She " didn't see the text till she was home." After a bit of back and forth, she invites me to a party Friday night. I tell her I may be able to depending on the details.
Part 2: The Club "Date"
It turns out the "party" was at a club. I tell her to meet me beforehand at my place so we can have drinks and then go. She agrees. I tell her I have to work at 8 am and can't be out all night. She says she doesn't really want to be out all night anyway but she still wants to go out. Whatever.jpg. We go to the club have a drink and dance for a bit. She was there to meet a friend. He was nowhere to be seen. 40 minutes in she asks if I want to go to another bar or home. I tell her home because drinks are free there but let's find your friend first. We meet her friend and she talks to him for maybe 5 minutes.
We go back to my place. We chat for another 20 minute or so. I'm playing music on my computer and she's standing near the bed checking her phone or something. I just lift up my hand again and say "hey". She takes my hand we start making out. Straight to the bed. We had sex for about an hour then we both fell asleep.
She sais she had a good time and we should hang out again at two different points in the evening. So now I want to turn this into a casual relationship/ FwB situation. I've made that proposition over text in the past. Two times and it's worked. But I think in person will be better plus I want to get at that again but I don't want to see her too much or be clingy. So thats it fella's questions and comments welcome!
Part 1: Initial meet up
Exchanged messages on tinder A on July 4th. She asked if I have plans for the night. Tell her no this is my first time staying in on the 4th. Tells me " Come to bar x". Ask her if she's leaving soon. "We're now at bar Y". Okay lets do this. Tell her " Yeah I may come by". Get her number and while i had a few drinks. Chat up my Uber driver to get in a social mood. Arrive at bar go outside and start chatting with an older woman after I asked her for a cigarette. Text A "This place looks like a house". She replies" Omg your here?". Ignore and chat with various patrons to pump my state. Text her to come meet me outside and she does. She's with her average looking friend. Sit down at table and start chatting with them. Nothing crazy. Her friend gets up to and get another drink. Had to take the isolation to escalate.
I held out my hand to her. She hands me a JUUL that we'd been passing back forth. I put it on the table. Focusing on eye contact. She takes my hand.
Dario: Cute or sexy?
A Blushing: what?
Dario: Cute or sexy?
A: me or you?
Dario: You
A: Both of course!
Dario: Haha fair enough. Now me
A: Oh wow haha um both.
Dario: Really? Interesting...
A visibly a bit nervous: yeah
I immediately pulled her in for a kiss. After kissing her she says "I lost my train of thought". I immediately resume the previous conversation like we never kissed. Isolate her again when I ask her to join me as I get another beer. Kiss her more before returning to the table. Me her and her friend all engage in casual conversation until last call. I get up and say I'll get myself an uber and asked where they parked. A offers me a ride home. Get her to invest? Check. We arrive at my place.She said she had fun. Go in and kiss her one last time and whisper in her ear "See you this weekend". I'm in my room and she texts me. "Hey we can hang out after I drop my friend off if you want" Respond "Yeah sure" expected a flake. I was right. She " didn't see the text till she was home." After a bit of back and forth, she invites me to a party Friday night. I tell her I may be able to depending on the details.
Part 2: The Club "Date"
It turns out the "party" was at a club. I tell her to meet me beforehand at my place so we can have drinks and then go. She agrees. I tell her I have to work at 8 am and can't be out all night. She says she doesn't really want to be out all night anyway but she still wants to go out. Whatever.jpg. We go to the club have a drink and dance for a bit. She was there to meet a friend. He was nowhere to be seen. 40 minutes in she asks if I want to go to another bar or home. I tell her home because drinks are free there but let's find your friend first. We meet her friend and she talks to him for maybe 5 minutes.
We go back to my place. We chat for another 20 minute or so. I'm playing music on my computer and she's standing near the bed checking her phone or something. I just lift up my hand again and say "hey". She takes my hand we start making out. Straight to the bed. We had sex for about an hour then we both fell asleep.
She sais she had a good time and we should hang out again at two different points in the evening. So now I want to turn this into a casual relationship/ FwB situation. I've made that proposition over text in the past. Two times and it's worked. But I think in person will be better plus I want to get at that again but I don't want to see her too much or be clingy. So thats it fella's questions and comments welcome!