FR: Two sexy slim 18 yr olds.
What’s up guys, I have been a reader here for a while now, and you might have saw some of my posts / comments. Anyways, this is my first legit FR I am posting here to the site. I Hope you enjoy it and can help me pinpoint some problem areas i’ve been trying to figure out. This is long so if you want to jump down to the grand finale you can do that, although there is some backstory.
First off, a little back story to the night…
My good friend came up yesterday to stay with me for a few weeks. I would consider him more on the natural side. He is just naturally a well spoken person and attracts most people he talks to. Most of what i’ve learned, outside of this site, has come from him. As I read this site more, I was able to relate to him better, but he still doesn’t follow a “girls chase” process.
Now, I had a few solid options going into the night, one being an old lay from the beginning of the summer (tattoo girl). She ended up texting me out of the blue a few days before and was going out with her friends in the area I live in. I pretty much wrote this chick off since she is just too shy and quiet for my taste. The second was a 19 yr old sex nympho from tinder that my friend reeled in. My main goal was meeting up with her because it was a sure thing and I was looking for some easy fun. While I was waiting for that to happen, we ended up walking down to the bar where the other girl was. I only went out because I thought her one friend was single again and my friend wanted to meet her. After conversating I quickly found out that she still had BF. Not much else to say about this at this point. These girls pretty much sucked (which i already knew) so we bounced to another bar.
On the way there we run into 3 girls. This black girl was sexy as fuck and had great energy, I immediately put my arm around her and started walking and bantering, great vibe instantly. We all wanted to get on the dance floor. These girls didn’t amount to much, we danced a little bit but other dudes stole her from me on the dance floor lol (i deflected a few). I didn’t care too much honestly, I was still thinking about bringing back tattoo girl and going to another bar.
We went across the street to the next bar in our journey. It was here where we ran into tattoo girl again and her two friends. Me and my friend chatted with them for a few mins then they left to go to the bar where the other friend was. Immediately after this my friend opened two girls that were walking around with popcorn baskets. It was vibing really well with these two. The one girl i was talking to was visiting her friend (perfect) and was all excited to be out and partying it up. We eventually convinced these girls to go back to the other bar where there is a dance floor. On the way out, we see tattoo girl and her friends. They saw us walk out with these two chicks lol. I thought it was a good thing, having her see that I can get other girls. Anyways…
We get to the other bar and these chicks weren’t really dancing with us. They just danced with themselves lol. This was the second time where we were getting positive reactions from the girls but it deflated quickly. At this point I realized this and sort of laughed. We didn’t put too much work in with these girls. On to the grand finale…
************grand finale of the night***************
We walk back out and down the street. My friend tells me to text tattoo girl to keep that ball rolling. The text was polarizing and to the point: “Do you want to meet me when you’re done with your friends?”. I felt a little uncomfortable with the text but he assured me it was the perfect one to send. She did reply : “oh but i thought you already had some other company”. My friend then told me to basically put the blame on him for the other girls… and it worked. She told me to get back to the other bar.
Outside the final bar were the two 18 yr olds. My friend walked up to the one girl and flat out said, with great eye contact and calmness, “I’m in love with you”. I didn’t know what he said until we got in the bar and he told me because i was sort of walking ahead at that point.
We are at this bar for 10 or so minutes and the two girls come back in and are at the bar. I didn’t really know it was the two from outside though since I missed the whole brief interaction before. He tells me to head over with him since he wanted to talk with her. They immediately start to hit it off and I begin talking to her friend. I will admit it was real rocky at first. The convo wasn’t really going anywhere and wasn’t gaining traction. After some brief moments of silence I started talking again. What caught me off guard was her reactions… this chick would lean into me and talk back very enthusiastically…and the touching of the arm came soon after. At this point I was just trying to remain calm and relaxed and just have a normal convo with her. She eventually begins to tell me that she is 18 yrs old and has a fake lol. I also found out she is a partier and smokes a lot of weed. A real irish girl. This chicks body was phenomenal, she had that tight skinny body with a short black skirt. That’s one of the reasons I like girls this age, they still have that slim figure to them.
Anyways, we eventually move to a table that opened up. We are all vibing and having a good time. Talking collectively every now and again as well as just one on one with our girls. I was still texting tattoo girl when I got the chance and tried to stall that as long as possible. We were probably at this bar a good hour before tattoo girl said she was leaving to go home. At this point, my focus was already switched to irish girl. I knew she liked me, we had made out a few times. I didn’t want to do it at the bar but she was initiating so i followed through. I did respond to tattoo girl and said “I’m walking there now”, “where are you”. She responded a half hour later and said she wasn’t receiving them right away. Which i believed because they were getting sent as regular text messages as opposed to imessage. Either way, it worked in my favor because I wanted irish girl.
At this point, this is where my girl chase knowledge starts to kick in. We have been with these girls for over an hour nearing 2AM. I was telling my friend we need to leave and go back to my apt. He wanted to hit the dance floor first…so that is what we did. Luckily it didn’t hurt our chances and we kept the ball rolling. My friends girl finally gave us the open that i was looking for… “im going outside to smoke”. Boom, yes, lets get the fuck out of here. We end up chillin outside on the steps for a brief moment before I tell them lets go back to my apt. They didn’t realize I lived so close.
The main event…
finally we get to my apt, a short 2 minute walk from the bar. We are all laughing and having a good time. Put some music on and we are all chillin in the living room. Irish chick had to pee bad (even before we got back to apt) so she went to the bathroom. I showed her where it was and immediately began escalating. Making out hard, etc. after a minute or so of this she said she had to pee. I went to the kitchen and drank some water and waited for her to come out. As she came out i slowly walked towards her. Our bodies met and i pushed her up against the wall of my bedroom. I start making out with her and she shows me her pierced nipples. She had very small boobs so i thought it was sexy and cute. I then start pulling her dress up and grabbing that fine tight ass of hers. She quickly tells me she doesn’t wanna hook up tonight and go all the way. I don’t even register this and just say “ok” and keep kissing. We eventually stop for a brief moment since i had to piss bad as well. She waits for me on my bed. When i get out i slowly sit next to her and we start making out again. I’m feeling her body, caressing her small boobs and smooth skinny legs. I eventually try for the pussy. She isn’t having it and says again that she doesn’t want to hook up tonight. We eventually lay down and start talking more. So at this point I was like ok, maybe I need to get her more comfortable…but i was really confused because this chick was into me the WHOLE night. So we start talking and she's asking me about my family and what i like to do. I have her talking as well. As this is going on I’m thinking ok… she either is fucking someone else and doesn’t wanna have sex because of that or is slotting me into the BF category. I use this as an opportunity to pry some information from her… i say, “You are so young and innocent”, "are you on your period?" (no). She proceeds to tell me not so much innocent (baited). Later on I eventually asked her what she was looking for. She told me a “friend” and wasn’t looking for a relationship. Fuck…
As we were talking i was continually holding her and caressing her legs, etc. She had her head on my chest at one point. I continued my escalation and got her to make out a little more but after that she didn’t even wanna make out either. She did seem really tired and mentioned it. Tried for the pussy again and again got the “dude i dont wanna hook up tonight”. She said dude to me a lot so i eventually told her to stop calling me that it was impersonal or something. She said “dude” is a form of endearment to her and only calls it to people she likes. Anyways, this chick was pretty tired and she eventually passed out in my bed. My friend slow played his girl the whole night… didn’t kiss her in the bar and didn’t even kiss her until he went for the escalation. I got up and noticed they were fucking on the couch… I was happy for my friend but sort of sucked to have this girl passed out in my bed.
A quick note, this was the most I have persisted with a girl to date. There was a lot of back and forth than i discussed in the previous paragraphs. It is HARD to keep your composure when you have a hot skinny 18 yr old in your bed and you are almost at the promise land.
The ending…
We ended up bringing these chicks back to campus since it wasn’t too far away (15 mins) and it was after 4 AM and they were gonna have to call the cab anyways. The ride back was alright, i could tell irish chick was tired and she mentioned it a lot. When we roll up to drop them off me and irish girl have a quick kiss. My friend told me to get her number but i told him I already did.
Of course I was bitching at my friend that I didn’t hook up with her. He assured me that these girls were into us and we will see them again. He usually has good intuition but my confidence level of seeing her again isn’t that high. He kept telling me that some girls just don't fuck on the first night/date or whatever and not worry about it. However, you can see where I don't totally agree with that from this site.
I think i had good intuition throughout the interaction… I would really appreciate others insight though.
My main question is… did this girl slot me into the boyfriend category or would this be a complete write-off since i failed to escalate with her? I see now more than ever how reactions don’t always equal success and smooth sailing home. I really did think this was in the bag.
Thanks.
What’s up guys, I have been a reader here for a while now, and you might have saw some of my posts / comments. Anyways, this is my first legit FR I am posting here to the site. I Hope you enjoy it and can help me pinpoint some problem areas i’ve been trying to figure out. This is long so if you want to jump down to the grand finale you can do that, although there is some backstory.
First off, a little back story to the night…
My good friend came up yesterday to stay with me for a few weeks. I would consider him more on the natural side. He is just naturally a well spoken person and attracts most people he talks to. Most of what i’ve learned, outside of this site, has come from him. As I read this site more, I was able to relate to him better, but he still doesn’t follow a “girls chase” process.
Now, I had a few solid options going into the night, one being an old lay from the beginning of the summer (tattoo girl). She ended up texting me out of the blue a few days before and was going out with her friends in the area I live in. I pretty much wrote this chick off since she is just too shy and quiet for my taste. The second was a 19 yr old sex nympho from tinder that my friend reeled in. My main goal was meeting up with her because it was a sure thing and I was looking for some easy fun. While I was waiting for that to happen, we ended up walking down to the bar where the other girl was. I only went out because I thought her one friend was single again and my friend wanted to meet her. After conversating I quickly found out that she still had BF. Not much else to say about this at this point. These girls pretty much sucked (which i already knew) so we bounced to another bar.
On the way there we run into 3 girls. This black girl was sexy as fuck and had great energy, I immediately put my arm around her and started walking and bantering, great vibe instantly. We all wanted to get on the dance floor. These girls didn’t amount to much, we danced a little bit but other dudes stole her from me on the dance floor lol (i deflected a few). I didn’t care too much honestly, I was still thinking about bringing back tattoo girl and going to another bar.
We went across the street to the next bar in our journey. It was here where we ran into tattoo girl again and her two friends. Me and my friend chatted with them for a few mins then they left to go to the bar where the other friend was. Immediately after this my friend opened two girls that were walking around with popcorn baskets. It was vibing really well with these two. The one girl i was talking to was visiting her friend (perfect) and was all excited to be out and partying it up. We eventually convinced these girls to go back to the other bar where there is a dance floor. On the way out, we see tattoo girl and her friends. They saw us walk out with these two chicks lol. I thought it was a good thing, having her see that I can get other girls. Anyways…
We get to the other bar and these chicks weren’t really dancing with us. They just danced with themselves lol. This was the second time where we were getting positive reactions from the girls but it deflated quickly. At this point I realized this and sort of laughed. We didn’t put too much work in with these girls. On to the grand finale…
************grand finale of the night***************
We walk back out and down the street. My friend tells me to text tattoo girl to keep that ball rolling. The text was polarizing and to the point: “Do you want to meet me when you’re done with your friends?”. I felt a little uncomfortable with the text but he assured me it was the perfect one to send. She did reply : “oh but i thought you already had some other company”. My friend then told me to basically put the blame on him for the other girls… and it worked. She told me to get back to the other bar.
Outside the final bar were the two 18 yr olds. My friend walked up to the one girl and flat out said, with great eye contact and calmness, “I’m in love with you”. I didn’t know what he said until we got in the bar and he told me because i was sort of walking ahead at that point.
We are at this bar for 10 or so minutes and the two girls come back in and are at the bar. I didn’t really know it was the two from outside though since I missed the whole brief interaction before. He tells me to head over with him since he wanted to talk with her. They immediately start to hit it off and I begin talking to her friend. I will admit it was real rocky at first. The convo wasn’t really going anywhere and wasn’t gaining traction. After some brief moments of silence I started talking again. What caught me off guard was her reactions… this chick would lean into me and talk back very enthusiastically…and the touching of the arm came soon after. At this point I was just trying to remain calm and relaxed and just have a normal convo with her. She eventually begins to tell me that she is 18 yrs old and has a fake lol. I also found out she is a partier and smokes a lot of weed. A real irish girl. This chicks body was phenomenal, she had that tight skinny body with a short black skirt. That’s one of the reasons I like girls this age, they still have that slim figure to them.
Anyways, we eventually move to a table that opened up. We are all vibing and having a good time. Talking collectively every now and again as well as just one on one with our girls. I was still texting tattoo girl when I got the chance and tried to stall that as long as possible. We were probably at this bar a good hour before tattoo girl said she was leaving to go home. At this point, my focus was already switched to irish girl. I knew she liked me, we had made out a few times. I didn’t want to do it at the bar but she was initiating so i followed through. I did respond to tattoo girl and said “I’m walking there now”, “where are you”. She responded a half hour later and said she wasn’t receiving them right away. Which i believed because they were getting sent as regular text messages as opposed to imessage. Either way, it worked in my favor because I wanted irish girl.
At this point, this is where my girl chase knowledge starts to kick in. We have been with these girls for over an hour nearing 2AM. I was telling my friend we need to leave and go back to my apt. He wanted to hit the dance floor first…so that is what we did. Luckily it didn’t hurt our chances and we kept the ball rolling. My friends girl finally gave us the open that i was looking for… “im going outside to smoke”. Boom, yes, lets get the fuck out of here. We end up chillin outside on the steps for a brief moment before I tell them lets go back to my apt. They didn’t realize I lived so close.
The main event…
finally we get to my apt, a short 2 minute walk from the bar. We are all laughing and having a good time. Put some music on and we are all chillin in the living room. Irish chick had to pee bad (even before we got back to apt) so she went to the bathroom. I showed her where it was and immediately began escalating. Making out hard, etc. after a minute or so of this she said she had to pee. I went to the kitchen and drank some water and waited for her to come out. As she came out i slowly walked towards her. Our bodies met and i pushed her up against the wall of my bedroom. I start making out with her and she shows me her pierced nipples. She had very small boobs so i thought it was sexy and cute. I then start pulling her dress up and grabbing that fine tight ass of hers. She quickly tells me she doesn’t wanna hook up tonight and go all the way. I don’t even register this and just say “ok” and keep kissing. We eventually stop for a brief moment since i had to piss bad as well. She waits for me on my bed. When i get out i slowly sit next to her and we start making out again. I’m feeling her body, caressing her small boobs and smooth skinny legs. I eventually try for the pussy. She isn’t having it and says again that she doesn’t want to hook up tonight. We eventually lay down and start talking more. So at this point I was like ok, maybe I need to get her more comfortable…but i was really confused because this chick was into me the WHOLE night. So we start talking and she's asking me about my family and what i like to do. I have her talking as well. As this is going on I’m thinking ok… she either is fucking someone else and doesn’t wanna have sex because of that or is slotting me into the BF category. I use this as an opportunity to pry some information from her… i say, “You are so young and innocent”, "are you on your period?" (no). She proceeds to tell me not so much innocent (baited). Later on I eventually asked her what she was looking for. She told me a “friend” and wasn’t looking for a relationship. Fuck…
As we were talking i was continually holding her and caressing her legs, etc. She had her head on my chest at one point. I continued my escalation and got her to make out a little more but after that she didn’t even wanna make out either. She did seem really tired and mentioned it. Tried for the pussy again and again got the “dude i dont wanna hook up tonight”. She said dude to me a lot so i eventually told her to stop calling me that it was impersonal or something. She said “dude” is a form of endearment to her and only calls it to people she likes. Anyways, this chick was pretty tired and she eventually passed out in my bed. My friend slow played his girl the whole night… didn’t kiss her in the bar and didn’t even kiss her until he went for the escalation. I got up and noticed they were fucking on the couch… I was happy for my friend but sort of sucked to have this girl passed out in my bed.
A quick note, this was the most I have persisted with a girl to date. There was a lot of back and forth than i discussed in the previous paragraphs. It is HARD to keep your composure when you have a hot skinny 18 yr old in your bed and you are almost at the promise land.
The ending…
We ended up bringing these chicks back to campus since it wasn’t too far away (15 mins) and it was after 4 AM and they were gonna have to call the cab anyways. The ride back was alright, i could tell irish chick was tired and she mentioned it a lot. When we roll up to drop them off me and irish girl have a quick kiss. My friend told me to get her number but i told him I already did.
Of course I was bitching at my friend that I didn’t hook up with her. He assured me that these girls were into us and we will see them again. He usually has good intuition but my confidence level of seeing her again isn’t that high. He kept telling me that some girls just don't fuck on the first night/date or whatever and not worry about it. However, you can see where I don't totally agree with that from this site.
I think i had good intuition throughout the interaction… I would really appreciate others insight though.
My main question is… did this girl slot me into the boyfriend category or would this be a complete write-off since i failed to escalate with her? I see now more than ever how reactions don’t always equal success and smooth sailing home. I really did think this was in the bag.
Thanks.
