Let's just preface by saying I was i over my head last night.
So I meet a girl for a date last night, we each grab a drink and talk for an hour. I got the impression she was into me but she wasn't sending off strong signals. So about an hour in she says "Hey, I'm sorry I have plans to go meet my girlfriend." I say no big deal, whatever. She responds by saying "we"re going to hangout at another club or bar, why don't you join us?"
I figure, what the hell, maybe I can try to seduce her on the cab ride down. So I go along. We're in the cab and I'm teasing her a bit, leaning in for the kiss but not giving it to her. We get downtown and she calls her friend. I figure we are going to meet on the street. Instead she invites me up to her friends apartment. I figure we are just going to pick her up before we go. We get to the friends apartment and the friend pours us all a drink.
You can see where this is going and I wish I had recognized it last night.
We are sitting around chatting for a bit, but neither girl is giving off any signals. At one point though we are talking about dating and my girl says "I went on a bad date a few weeks ago, all the guy wanted to talk about was sex." (Yeah, I missed it) So after about an hour we all depart.
It wasn't until today that I realized --- I MISSED OUT ON A THREEWAY!!!! I had never been in that situation before and had no idea how to play it.
Should this situation ever arise again (fingers crossed) How do I play this so I am in more control. How do I steer a room with two girls sexual without putting them into autorejection and towards a bed.
So I meet a girl for a date last night, we each grab a drink and talk for an hour. I got the impression she was into me but she wasn't sending off strong signals. So about an hour in she says "Hey, I'm sorry I have plans to go meet my girlfriend." I say no big deal, whatever. She responds by saying "we"re going to hangout at another club or bar, why don't you join us?"
I figure, what the hell, maybe I can try to seduce her on the cab ride down. So I go along. We're in the cab and I'm teasing her a bit, leaning in for the kiss but not giving it to her. We get downtown and she calls her friend. I figure we are going to meet on the street. Instead she invites me up to her friends apartment. I figure we are just going to pick her up before we go. We get to the friends apartment and the friend pours us all a drink.
You can see where this is going and I wish I had recognized it last night.
We are sitting around chatting for a bit, but neither girl is giving off any signals. At one point though we are talking about dating and my girl says "I went on a bad date a few weeks ago, all the guy wanted to talk about was sex." (Yeah, I missed it) So after about an hour we all depart.
It wasn't until today that I realized --- I MISSED OUT ON A THREEWAY!!!! I had never been in that situation before and had no idea how to play it.
Should this situation ever arise again (fingers crossed) How do I play this so I am in more control. How do I steer a room with two girls sexual without putting them into autorejection and towards a bed.
