Gym
7/22
Girl 1: sitting at table. I approach. She does not fully take my hand and is uncomfortable. Does not let me sit next to her. I leave.
Girl 2: outside library. Brunette in sundress and tall black boots (mm-mmm). I circumvent some trees and tap her on the elbow. I tell her I love her style. I ask questions about her book. I didn't have a sexy vibe with this girl but it might just be one of the best deep divings I've ever done. I ask her what she studies and why. Biology to become a vet. "You have a lot of pets?" "Yes, I used to have a hermit crab which I would take with me down slides" I laugh at this and she laughs too and the stranger awkwardness is chinked.
Then: "What do you like to do?" read books, watch movies, go camping "Camping? Where do you camp?" Don't remember how, but we start joking about how she is a vegetarian because she doesn't want to eat her friends. "What about me? Would you eat me?" No, I wouldn't eat you. We joke about hiding in the bushes outside a gym and picking off the fit ones for consumption. I ask to hang out and she volunteers her number. But it will not lead to anything because I did not have a flirty sexy vibe. Still, I will see what happens. At least, it would be good to have a new friend.
Summary: SLEGIM
7/24
University Campus
Girl 1: pretty asian sitting at table. She is very flattered and actually asks me more questions than I am able to ask her. But then her boyfriend (or something) walks up (the look on his face was PRICELESS) and she leaves. I say if she wants to hang out sometime, she says that he and she are "talking" (what the hell does that even MEAN? *gasp* I should ask that next time I get that response!) I say " no he's not he's on his phone" She says "Are you trying to make trouble?" in a cute way. I SHOULD HAVE SAID "Maybe" with a sexy smirk. Anyhow, she goes.
To improve on: investment from her is very good but don't let her control the interaction, should have moved her or at least tried to
Girl 2: sitting at bench. She says she has to leave but I just make conversation anyway and she stays to talk. We don't have chemistry (ironic cause that's her major) but we get along well. Anyhow, she is resistant to my charms (I am comfortable but still not sexy). Nada.
To improve on: SLEGIM
Girl 3: girl at table inside. I botch the approach (don't know how but i could feel it) and she is unreceptive. Nothing.
To improve on: APPROACH IS PARAMOUNT!
Girl 4: Hispanic girl walking towards me. I approach and she is slightly confused before I tell her that she's very cute. She laughs and says thank you but I need to get to class. I just follow her. We make conversation and I ask her where she's from. She asks me where I am from. I follow her inside the building but she says that she has a boyfriend and is only here for a month (I think these are excuses she says to herself rather than to me).
To improve on: she was walking very quickly perhaps I should have kept up with her instead of maintaining a slow gait behind her? No, she should slow down for me, I should not speed up for her.
Girl 5: tiny Asian walking. I see her from across the courtyard and I walk so that we will coincidentally bump into each other. It works and she is walking next to me. I approach and we get on quite well. She also needs to head to class. I try to initiate but she says she has a boyfriend, I find myself standing very close to her and wanting to kiss her soft lips. Perhaps I should have? I ask again and she declines.
To improve on: perhaps just go for it?
Girl 6: tall tanned one walking rights towards me. I say "Hi!" and she smiles but looks away, then I stop her and tell her that she's cute. I follow her (getting good at that). She is flattered and we get into some good deep diving. She says it's her first day here. I ask her what she did. Then I ask her what she studies. communications. She wanted to be a communications major cause of her grandfather. I ask her "How did your grandpa influence you?" We carry on for a little bit but she says that she has a boyfriend but maybe we'll see each other around? Drats.
To improve on: response to maybe we'll see each other around: "I'd rather not take that chance. Life is full of detours and we may never see each other again. So let's not have that happen. Let's meet up" Something like that.
Summary: remembered yes ladders occasionally, use sexy voice (I had it down this morning!), sexier faces
7/22
Girl 1: sitting at table. I approach. She does not fully take my hand and is uncomfortable. Does not let me sit next to her. I leave.
Girl 2: outside library. Brunette in sundress and tall black boots (mm-mmm). I circumvent some trees and tap her on the elbow. I tell her I love her style. I ask questions about her book. I didn't have a sexy vibe with this girl but it might just be one of the best deep divings I've ever done. I ask her what she studies and why. Biology to become a vet. "You have a lot of pets?" "Yes, I used to have a hermit crab which I would take with me down slides" I laugh at this and she laughs too and the stranger awkwardness is chinked.
Then: "What do you like to do?" read books, watch movies, go camping "Camping? Where do you camp?" Don't remember how, but we start joking about how she is a vegetarian because she doesn't want to eat her friends. "What about me? Would you eat me?" No, I wouldn't eat you. We joke about hiding in the bushes outside a gym and picking off the fit ones for consumption. I ask to hang out and she volunteers her number. But it will not lead to anything because I did not have a flirty sexy vibe. Still, I will see what happens. At least, it would be good to have a new friend.
Summary: SLEGIM
7/24
University Campus
Girl 1: pretty asian sitting at table. She is very flattered and actually asks me more questions than I am able to ask her. But then her boyfriend (or something) walks up (the look on his face was PRICELESS) and she leaves. I say if she wants to hang out sometime, she says that he and she are "talking" (what the hell does that even MEAN? *gasp* I should ask that next time I get that response!) I say " no he's not he's on his phone" She says "Are you trying to make trouble?" in a cute way. I SHOULD HAVE SAID "Maybe" with a sexy smirk. Anyhow, she goes.
To improve on: investment from her is very good but don't let her control the interaction, should have moved her or at least tried to
Girl 2: sitting at bench. She says she has to leave but I just make conversation anyway and she stays to talk. We don't have chemistry (ironic cause that's her major) but we get along well. Anyhow, she is resistant to my charms (I am comfortable but still not sexy). Nada.
To improve on: SLEGIM
Girl 3: girl at table inside. I botch the approach (don't know how but i could feel it) and she is unreceptive. Nothing.
To improve on: APPROACH IS PARAMOUNT!
Girl 4: Hispanic girl walking towards me. I approach and she is slightly confused before I tell her that she's very cute. She laughs and says thank you but I need to get to class. I just follow her. We make conversation and I ask her where she's from. She asks me where I am from. I follow her inside the building but she says that she has a boyfriend and is only here for a month (I think these are excuses she says to herself rather than to me).
To improve on: she was walking very quickly perhaps I should have kept up with her instead of maintaining a slow gait behind her? No, she should slow down for me, I should not speed up for her.
Girl 5: tiny Asian walking. I see her from across the courtyard and I walk so that we will coincidentally bump into each other. It works and she is walking next to me. I approach and we get on quite well. She also needs to head to class. I try to initiate but she says she has a boyfriend, I find myself standing very close to her and wanting to kiss her soft lips. Perhaps I should have? I ask again and she declines.
To improve on: perhaps just go for it?
Girl 6: tall tanned one walking rights towards me. I say "Hi!" and she smiles but looks away, then I stop her and tell her that she's cute. I follow her (getting good at that). She is flattered and we get into some good deep diving. She says it's her first day here. I ask her what she did. Then I ask her what she studies. communications. She wanted to be a communications major cause of her grandfather. I ask her "How did your grandpa influence you?" We carry on for a little bit but she says that she has a boyfriend but maybe we'll see each other around? Drats.
To improve on: response to maybe we'll see each other around: "I'd rather not take that chance. Life is full of detours and we may never see each other again. So let's not have that happen. Let's meet up" Something like that.
Summary: remembered yes ladders occasionally, use sexy voice (I had it down this morning!), sexier faces