Girl 1: sitting down at table, I approach from behind but my approach feels scripted and weak. I got very good results yesterday when I dropped the "I saw you standing here and I had to come over to say..." and just said "You are very cute". It's all about rolling with the punches. Anyhow, we talk awkwardly, I am not feeling sexy but she is nice. I sit down anyway after she said that she is leaving just now. We talk some more but nothing happens.
To improve on: stronger opening
Girl 2: walking, I open her from behind and we talk. She is receptive but I feel that I am coming off not as playful but immature. She mentions her husband and I consider the seduction dead so I ask her about how she met her husband and why she married him. She said she doesn't know why.(Probably just didn't want to tell me). Anyway, we walk in silence for the next five minutes cause we're both going the same way, then we part.
To improve on: less gamey, more sincere, sexier like yesterday
Girl 3: cute Asian just standing there. I approach (still a little insincere) and we talk. I do good conversational jiujitsu here as she starts asking me more question than I do her. She asks me where am I from. I ask her "Why all the questions?" in a flirty way and she says "You approached me" I just stay quiet and look at her and ask her "Where are you from?" I do this several times and each time, she doesn't catch on that I avoided her question and made her answer mine. I try to set something up but nothing but then she offers me a part time job
and we start talking more about the job she is talking about (some internet franchising thing). I am initially wary but then I remember that I am supposed to be open to new experiences and I am looking for a way to make more money anyway. never throw away an opportunity. We talk some more about this. I get her number for business.
To improve on: sexier approach, more sincere, perhaps not call her out on her asking me questions (might be a cultural thing)
Girl 4: in library. She is on the computer but I notice that she is on facebook and clothing websites so I conclude that she might be receptive. I was wrong. I approach but am insincere (again!) and she is unreceptive. I spend some time talking standing over her until I can find a good time to sit down, ignoring her discomfort. She doesn't look at me when I sit down so I say "I was over there, now I'm over here" and it actually works! She turns to look at me. We talk some more and I thought that I had reeled her back in. I try to initiate a yes ladder: "Do you like talking to me?" No. "No? Why?" in mock hurt. "I don't know, I don't know you" "but you know what it's like to talk to me. So do you like talking to me?" "No" "Why? Am I a bad talker?" "I don't know, I have to study" She brings up a word document with NOTHING on it. I resist the urge to call her out on it (well, I do a little: I say: Yeah, you've done a lot already") Anyway, I leave.
To improve on: good persistence, especially in getting her to keep talking to me by maintaining set but I need to know when to quit, also: don't be bitter, she is uncomfortable with me that's why she lied about studying, it was MY fault
Summary: don't have lines, just walk up and say what you feel
To improve on: stronger opening
Girl 2: walking, I open her from behind and we talk. She is receptive but I feel that I am coming off not as playful but immature. She mentions her husband and I consider the seduction dead so I ask her about how she met her husband and why she married him. She said she doesn't know why.(Probably just didn't want to tell me). Anyway, we walk in silence for the next five minutes cause we're both going the same way, then we part.
To improve on: less gamey, more sincere, sexier like yesterday
Girl 3: cute Asian just standing there. I approach (still a little insincere) and we talk. I do good conversational jiujitsu here as she starts asking me more question than I do her. She asks me where am I from. I ask her "Why all the questions?" in a flirty way and she says "You approached me" I just stay quiet and look at her and ask her "Where are you from?" I do this several times and each time, she doesn't catch on that I avoided her question and made her answer mine. I try to set something up but nothing but then she offers me a part time job
and we start talking more about the job she is talking about (some internet franchising thing). I am initially wary but then I remember that I am supposed to be open to new experiences and I am looking for a way to make more money anyway. never throw away an opportunity. We talk some more about this. I get her number for business. To improve on: sexier approach, more sincere, perhaps not call her out on her asking me questions (might be a cultural thing)
Girl 4: in library. She is on the computer but I notice that she is on facebook and clothing websites so I conclude that she might be receptive. I was wrong. I approach but am insincere (again!) and she is unreceptive. I spend some time talking standing over her until I can find a good time to sit down, ignoring her discomfort. She doesn't look at me when I sit down so I say "I was over there, now I'm over here" and it actually works! She turns to look at me. We talk some more and I thought that I had reeled her back in. I try to initiate a yes ladder: "Do you like talking to me?" No. "No? Why?" in mock hurt. "I don't know, I don't know you" "but you know what it's like to talk to me. So do you like talking to me?" "No" "Why? Am I a bad talker?" "I don't know, I have to study" She brings up a word document with NOTHING on it. I resist the urge to call her out on it (well, I do a little: I say: Yeah, you've done a lot already") Anyway, I leave.
To improve on: good persistence, especially in getting her to keep talking to me by maintaining set but I need to know when to quit, also: don't be bitter, she is uncomfortable with me that's why she lied about studying, it was MY fault
Summary: don't have lines, just walk up and say what you feel
