What? Nearly five days without a post? Intolerable! I did Ricardus's X-factor training before I came but it wasn't as potent today. Definitely shouldn't have masturbated in the morning.
Girl 1: tiny thing walking in front of me. I tap her on the elbow. She seems genuinely flattered that a stranger would come up and compliment her so we get into conversation easily. I am not feeling super smooth though, tripping over my words. But I do have some sexy thoughts when I look at her lips and face. We talk well and I recognize when the conversation on my part begins to die, she starts to ask me questions. Investment! She agrees to meet up sometime and I get the number. I ask her what my name is teasingly (they never remember) I ask her for a pen to write it down. I try to write it on her hand but she says that it is sweaty. I concur with this logic and write it down on a piece of paper. I try to give a small hug as opposed to the big ones I usually give but she is holding things and it is a little awkward but I ignore that and we hug anyway.
To improve on: Don't jerk it on going out days, SLEGIM, don't give hugs unless you can tell that they are really into you?
Girl 2: walking to my side, I say hello and that she is cute. She says that she is fifteen. I respond naturally "Well, good job on looking older" and try to make some conversation so that I don't look like a player. But it's awkward and we part.
To improve on: bad luck here but perhaps should have just ejected out of the conversation sooner?
Girl 3: She walks past me. I turn around to reconsider and she that she does indeed have an ass (a major factor for me). I walk back up and tell her I like her style (she is wearing cute clothes). We start conversing easily, but not that sexily (damn, have a hard time finding places to put in chase frames), however, we do get on well. Looking at her soft lips and open blouse is giving me what we call down in the south "stirrings". She gives me her number herself without me asking, however, it's in the form of a business card and then she tells me about her job so maybe it was like a sales pitch? But I do make a mediocre chase frame here: "Oh, looks like I've got friends on the inside now. You're pretty sneaky." Does that even count as a chase frame? Anyway, try to give her a hug but she responds we just met. I don't act like it's a big deal and we shake hands (yeesh, so unsexy).
To improve on: take inward sexual energy and move it outward, she was turning me on, now I have to find a way to ACT turned on without being creepy, don't hug unless into you
Girl 4: sitting down, Asian girl. Usually don't approach Asian girls cause they're a pain in the ass to get anything going with (no offense to anyone out there) but she seemed mature and sexy. I compliment her and she is very flattered cause she says she feels like crap cause she was writing a paper all night. I ask her what are you writing and we talk from there as I ignore her saying she has to work on this. I am touching my face and trying to look sexy. A bit later, I ask her (Sorry, NarrowJ, took this from you
) "Do you think I'm friendly?" "Do you like talking to me?" "Do you want to talk to me again sometime?" She agrees but as friends because she has a boyfriend. I say sure, let me get your digits.
To improve on: SLEGIM (actually raised my voice a bit!), smoother yes ladder
Girl 1: tiny thing walking in front of me. I tap her on the elbow. She seems genuinely flattered that a stranger would come up and compliment her so we get into conversation easily. I am not feeling super smooth though, tripping over my words. But I do have some sexy thoughts when I look at her lips and face. We talk well and I recognize when the conversation on my part begins to die, she starts to ask me questions. Investment! She agrees to meet up sometime and I get the number. I ask her what my name is teasingly (they never remember) I ask her for a pen to write it down. I try to write it on her hand but she says that it is sweaty. I concur with this logic and write it down on a piece of paper. I try to give a small hug as opposed to the big ones I usually give but she is holding things and it is a little awkward but I ignore that and we hug anyway.
To improve on: Don't jerk it on going out days, SLEGIM, don't give hugs unless you can tell that they are really into you?
Girl 2: walking to my side, I say hello and that she is cute. She says that she is fifteen. I respond naturally "Well, good job on looking older" and try to make some conversation so that I don't look like a player. But it's awkward and we part.
To improve on: bad luck here but perhaps should have just ejected out of the conversation sooner?
Girl 3: She walks past me. I turn around to reconsider and she that she does indeed have an ass (a major factor for me). I walk back up and tell her I like her style (she is wearing cute clothes). We start conversing easily, but not that sexily (damn, have a hard time finding places to put in chase frames), however, we do get on well. Looking at her soft lips and open blouse is giving me what we call down in the south "stirrings". She gives me her number herself without me asking, however, it's in the form of a business card and then she tells me about her job so maybe it was like a sales pitch? But I do make a mediocre chase frame here: "Oh, looks like I've got friends on the inside now. You're pretty sneaky." Does that even count as a chase frame? Anyway, try to give her a hug but she responds we just met. I don't act like it's a big deal and we shake hands (yeesh, so unsexy).
To improve on: take inward sexual energy and move it outward, she was turning me on, now I have to find a way to ACT turned on without being creepy, don't hug unless into you
Girl 4: sitting down, Asian girl. Usually don't approach Asian girls cause they're a pain in the ass to get anything going with (no offense to anyone out there) but she seemed mature and sexy. I compliment her and she is very flattered cause she says she feels like crap cause she was writing a paper all night. I ask her what are you writing and we talk from there as I ignore her saying she has to work on this. I am touching my face and trying to look sexy. A bit later, I ask her (Sorry, NarrowJ, took this from you
) "Do you think I'm friendly?" "Do you like talking to me?" "Do you want to talk to me again sometime?" She agrees but as friends because she has a boyfriend. I say sure, let me get your digits. To improve on: SLEGIM (actually raised my voice a bit!), smoother yes ladder
