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A lot's happened since I moved in onto my college campus a few months ago. Trying to fit it all in here would be off topic and take way too much time, so I'll summarize the best I can in relevance to this forum.
Few things:
My roommate is fucking awesome (Morally questionable as a man cheating on his girl of a few years now on the daily) but he definitely gets around. He's brought me to a few parties and introduced me to some well connected friends in frats and shit. I'm blown away by how much experience the dude has in so little time but he gives terrible advice and once accidentally cock blocked me at the last minute. (side note: he's consistently got this chick sleeping over who just creeped the fuck out of me by letting herself into our dorm at 3 in the morning to see if he was sleeping here or if he was out partying... take a guess where
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I've met way more women here than anywhere else, to the point where it's hard to go a day without meeting someone new. Though a few keep popping back up in my life throughout my time here. One of them I really liked and have struck a strong chord with but she's in a very very slow dying bittersweet relationship (and I think she's just terrified to break up thanks to some more complicated shit which I'm debating taking the time to invest in writing) and I'm not one to wait these days. She's social circle, so it's hard to cut contact completely so I'm trying to just stay on the peripheral (I only see her three times throughout a week... it's a smallish campus and she's basically my neighbor). On the bright side, I've been busy with my own stuff I have a strong love for (strong enough for my not so sorry ass to become a broke ass). On top of that I found my new favorite place on Earth: a huge mall not far from me that's busy nearly 24/7 and flooded with beautiful women (rip my dick).
Brought my new best friend with me there. Dude's a natural. He looks like Jim Morrison (and can sing and play guitar like him too), has no filter, Oozes raw sexual vibes, and craves attention. He just lacks the confidence. Girls typically ask if we're brothers (I get it, he's like me if I went with a 70s vibe instead of 90s... and if I was always drunk). I'd love to go out and meet girls with him but he's too much of an attention whore and it's getting on my nerves. I honestly don't think he's trying to do it, I just think he attracts way more attention. I have no idea how to compete with the dude. I prefer to play things more subtle... like when I met a chick at a Spencer's store who worked there and showed me some soda product and I got her to agree to come out for drinks later through that. Whereas we'll go to a frat party and he'll just hit the dancefloor and have girls dancing on him in minutes.
I'm trying to adapt my game to be more direct but it feels somewhat unnatural after a certain point but I guess that's the point of getting out of your comfort zone. I'm also trying to learn from what he's doing and thinking but it's getting to the point where some logistics got weird with the social circle chick and I while we where out and ended up getting him to come out with us (this is what happens when you desperately want drinks but your id is expired). She ended up kissing his ass the whole damn time and I mean, we left together and she hasn't been able to leave me alone since that night (just wanting to hang out), but c'mon man... gimme some love, I want some attention too any ideas? Thoughts
Few things:
My roommate is fucking awesome (Morally questionable as a man cheating on his girl of a few years now on the daily) but he definitely gets around. He's brought me to a few parties and introduced me to some well connected friends in frats and shit. I'm blown away by how much experience the dude has in so little time but he gives terrible advice and once accidentally cock blocked me at the last minute. (side note: he's consistently got this chick sleeping over who just creeped the fuck out of me by letting herself into our dorm at 3 in the morning to see if he was sleeping here or if he was out partying... take a guess where
)I've met way more women here than anywhere else, to the point where it's hard to go a day without meeting someone new. Though a few keep popping back up in my life throughout my time here. One of them I really liked and have struck a strong chord with but she's in a very very slow dying bittersweet relationship (and I think she's just terrified to break up thanks to some more complicated shit which I'm debating taking the time to invest in writing) and I'm not one to wait these days. She's social circle, so it's hard to cut contact completely so I'm trying to just stay on the peripheral (I only see her three times throughout a week... it's a smallish campus and she's basically my neighbor). On the bright side, I've been busy with my own stuff I have a strong love for (strong enough for my not so sorry ass to become a broke ass). On top of that I found my new favorite place on Earth: a huge mall not far from me that's busy nearly 24/7 and flooded with beautiful women (rip my dick).
Brought my new best friend with me there. Dude's a natural. He looks like Jim Morrison (and can sing and play guitar like him too), has no filter, Oozes raw sexual vibes, and craves attention. He just lacks the confidence. Girls typically ask if we're brothers (I get it, he's like me if I went with a 70s vibe instead of 90s... and if I was always drunk). I'd love to go out and meet girls with him but he's too much of an attention whore and it's getting on my nerves. I honestly don't think he's trying to do it, I just think he attracts way more attention. I have no idea how to compete with the dude. I prefer to play things more subtle... like when I met a chick at a Spencer's store who worked there and showed me some soda product and I got her to agree to come out for drinks later through that. Whereas we'll go to a frat party and he'll just hit the dancefloor and have girls dancing on him in minutes.
I'm trying to adapt my game to be more direct but it feels somewhat unnatural after a certain point but I guess that's the point of getting out of your comfort zone. I'm also trying to learn from what he's doing and thinking but it's getting to the point where some logistics got weird with the social circle chick and I while we where out and ended up getting him to come out with us (this is what happens when you desperately want drinks but your id is expired). She ended up kissing his ass the whole damn time and I mean, we left together and she hasn't been able to leave me alone since that night (just wanting to hang out), but c'mon man... gimme some love, I want some attention too
any ideas? Thoughts