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The girl who flaked was from this post:
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/theres-another-man.26703/
I'll give a recap if you don't want to read post.
I met this girl on Saturday at a party. I got her number and we planned to make music at college together. Day before the date in social group, she was asked truth or dare on a question and her answer basically said she's been talking to this other guy, they've made out at least once, he tried to fuck her but she didn't want to. Date happens and goes great. Couldn't have gone better. We plan to meet up this upcoming Saturday. Wednesday we meet up at the cafeteria and I guess have a date, I walk her to class and then sneak into her class with her as a joke, got a little physical touch in (nothing sexual) and then dipped (teacher was so confused). On Wednesday we also agree to meet up on Thursday(Today) and make music. Now for today:
She meets me in the cafeteria, looking back the vibe was kinda off because usually she tries to hug me but instead this time I had to hug her. She tells me she doesn't wanna make a song today. As the man I realize I have to keep the date going, so I suggest we grab coffee at the place on campus. She agrees. We get our coffee and right as we're finding a place to sit down, my dawg (friend) calls me about something, I was so focused on trying to escalate with the girl that I basically just told him to call me later. A couple minutes later, my dawg calls me again and this time it's this girl from our social group on the phone saying the girl on the date needs to go pick up her bag. I thought okay that's reasonable we don't want her stuff to get stolen. So then we go to grab her stuff and while walking there date girl says has to go hang out with her friends. I took this as an insult basically. I said "and why didn't you tell me ahead of time?" she said I don't know so I repeated myself, all she could said was sorry. We parted ways. I don't come across as angry or anything, just mildly upset.
There's guy on campus who threatened to spread rumors about me, he threatened me on Wednesday. It's possible that he said something to date girl and that's why she flaked on me.
I call this an unusual flake because people don't usually show up to the date and then cancel it.
How should I react to this? What do I say to date girl?
From what she said during the date, Saturday is still on. Should I go? She may flake on me again.
I'm honestly not attracted to her anymore because she did this to me. But I could forgive her If Saturday goes well. Might just show up to see what happens, I'll be acting really low key if I go. I don't have the desire to put in effort.
What I'm really worried about is if this guy plotted against me and ruined a perfectly good lead for me.
Anyways guys, tell me what you think, What do I text her?
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/theres-another-man.26703/
I'll give a recap if you don't want to read post.
I met this girl on Saturday at a party. I got her number and we planned to make music at college together. Day before the date in social group, she was asked truth or dare on a question and her answer basically said she's been talking to this other guy, they've made out at least once, he tried to fuck her but she didn't want to. Date happens and goes great. Couldn't have gone better. We plan to meet up this upcoming Saturday. Wednesday we meet up at the cafeteria and I guess have a date, I walk her to class and then sneak into her class with her as a joke, got a little physical touch in (nothing sexual) and then dipped (teacher was so confused). On Wednesday we also agree to meet up on Thursday(Today) and make music. Now for today:
She meets me in the cafeteria, looking back the vibe was kinda off because usually she tries to hug me but instead this time I had to hug her. She tells me she doesn't wanna make a song today. As the man I realize I have to keep the date going, so I suggest we grab coffee at the place on campus. She agrees. We get our coffee and right as we're finding a place to sit down, my dawg (friend) calls me about something, I was so focused on trying to escalate with the girl that I basically just told him to call me later. A couple minutes later, my dawg calls me again and this time it's this girl from our social group on the phone saying the girl on the date needs to go pick up her bag. I thought okay that's reasonable we don't want her stuff to get stolen. So then we go to grab her stuff and while walking there date girl says has to go hang out with her friends. I took this as an insult basically. I said "and why didn't you tell me ahead of time?" she said I don't know so I repeated myself, all she could said was sorry. We parted ways. I don't come across as angry or anything, just mildly upset.
There's guy on campus who threatened to spread rumors about me, he threatened me on Wednesday. It's possible that he said something to date girl and that's why she flaked on me.
I call this an unusual flake because people don't usually show up to the date and then cancel it.
How should I react to this? What do I say to date girl?
From what she said during the date, Saturday is still on. Should I go? She may flake on me again.
I'm honestly not attracted to her anymore because she did this to me. But I could forgive her If Saturday goes well. Might just show up to see what happens, I'll be acting really low key if I go. I don't have the desire to put in effort.
What I'm really worried about is if this guy plotted against me and ruined a perfectly good lead for me.
Anyways guys, tell me what you think, What do I text her?
