So lately someone I know has gotten pregnant, she's young only 15 years old and pregnant. I see a lot of unwanted pregnancies nowadays even with women in their 20's. My sister has got a child and not married yet so this child dint come into this world planned for, she dint want to get pregnant but shit happens sometimes and you get a girl pregnant. My question is how does it really happen? Dont these people think and care about using a condom? Whats the best way to avoid pregnanting a girl, I'm still young I want to have fun and I dont want be held back with the responsibilities of being a father yet.
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Use condoms + pullout if you want to be 100% sure your semen didn't go inside her.
Once you start having sex with a girl regularly, it's very easy for the condoms to just come off and you start going raw. I certainly have been guilty of this, and now after a couple of scares, it's a hard boundary of mine to use condoms. And if I don't use condoms (only with girls I trust to be free of STD), I usually pull out way earlier than when I'm about to come and put on the condoms or give her a facial (which can be satisfying too
. However, this is still a little risky with the precum, so you need to understand when you're about to come and when your precum comes out. You can experiment with this when you masturbate, just take note of when the precum comes out and how it makes you feel, then during sex it's easy to know when to pull out once you recognize that feeling. I would say it's very hard for a couple to keep using condoms regularly. Almost every couple I've asked said they don't use condoms all the time. Either the man or the woman would insist on not using them.
Once you start having sex with a girl regularly, it's very easy for the condoms to just come off and you start going raw. I certainly have been guilty of this, and now after a couple of scares, it's a hard boundary of mine to use condoms. And if I don't use condoms (only with girls I trust to be free of STD), I usually pull out way earlier than when I'm about to come and put on the condoms or give her a facial (which can be satisfying too
. However, this is still a little risky with the precum, so you need to understand when you're about to come and when your precum comes out. You can experiment with this when you masturbate, just take note of when the precum comes out and how it makes you feel, then during sex it's easy to know when to pull out once you recognize that feeling. I would say it's very hard for a couple to keep using condoms regularly. Almost every couple I've asked said they don't use condoms all the time. Either the man or the woman would insist on not using them.
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Use condoms. Keep one or two in your wallet at all times. Also get hold of the morning after pill if at all possible, and keep it somewhere convenient like in your car. Then you have a backup option if the condom breaks. Mind you, I have never had a condom break. Australian condoms are made to a very high standard and should never break IMO (it's impossible to break them with your fingers deliberately, unlike some of the shit I have bought overseas which often breaks while I am trying to force it onto my wanger)... so if you are concerned, get some of those. And be sensible, no staying around -- after you cum, withdraw and dispose of the condom. In fact it is best to take the condom with you, since some women will steal your sperm and impregnate themselves with it. Also I suggest to get an STD check once per year, I recently discovered my GP can order these, so there is no need to go to a sexual health clinic or do anything out of your comfort zone.
Ray
+1 Smith, I had gotten extremely lazy (didn't use condoms every time with regular partners and also didn't use if having erection issues or I had lost them or a whole host of other reasons) and yes my gf insisted on not using condoms, result: one pregnancy and my having to tell 4 girls including my pregnant girlfriend that they might have chlamydia... fuckin hell, a huge mess that is now basically under control, but unnecessary had I made it a hard rule. MAKE IT A HARD RULE.
Ray
+1 Smith, I had gotten extremely lazy (didn't use condoms every time with regular partners and also didn't use if having erection issues or I had lost them or a whole host of other reasons) and yes my gf insisted on not using condoms, result: one pregnancy and my having to tell 4 girls including my pregnant girlfriend that they might have chlamydia... fuckin hell, a huge mess that is now basically under control, but unnecessary had I made it a hard rule. MAKE IT A HARD RULE.