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Few things happened:
- Last time, I went on a bus, and a girl just went to the bus driver and said sexual harassment.
I was lucky, that I chatted with the bus driver, so he was on my side.
However, I treated this as an orange flag.
2 factor deciding the man’s success:
- Dominance
- Social
The way I saw was to turtling my way to win. As for right now, I was about to land the corporate gig.
A few observations:
- Be useful
- Make the manager looks good. This will save a lot of time
- The key to stay in a social circle is to find a missing role. Fill that role
- Never say impossible. People pays me to make the impossible possible
- If no one is doing it, someone has to do it. That can be me.
What if there are too many opportunities? Prioritize based on:
- Length of relationship
- Benefit
Basically right now spend 90% time on career, and stash 10% of time to gym and martial art and girls. As my competence increase, that ratio will gradually shift.
Girlfriend:
- Is a burden, but having one will be good for learning. Max attainability.
Learning:
- One thing on the mind was better than multiple goals
- But an occasional check in can keep me out of rust
- Last time, I went on a bus, and a girl just went to the bus driver and said sexual harassment.
I was lucky, that I chatted with the bus driver, so he was on my side.
However, I treated this as an orange flag.
2 factor deciding the man’s success:
- Dominance
- Social
The way I saw was to turtling my way to win. As for right now, I was about to land the corporate gig.
A few observations:
- Be useful
- Make the manager looks good. This will save a lot of time
- The key to stay in a social circle is to find a missing role. Fill that role
- Never say impossible. People pays me to make the impossible possible
- If no one is doing it, someone has to do it. That can be me.
What if there are too many opportunities? Prioritize based on:
- Length of relationship
- Benefit
Basically right now spend 90% time on career, and stash 10% of time to gym and martial art and girls. As my competence increase, that ratio will gradually shift.
Girlfriend:
- Is a burden, but having one will be good for learning. Max attainability.
Learning:
- One thing on the mind was better than multiple goals
- But an occasional check in can keep me out of rust
