- Joined
- Aug 9, 2013
- Messages
- 441
I went to an all day training conference in Downtown San Francisco and had some time afterwards. I started at 5pm and ended at 6. I have not even to SF since April and was excited to test out my new direct routine. I wanted to practice getting a kiss-close during day game and see how far girls can be pushed. When I was in SF before, I was concentrating on dates. After finishing the Journeyman Guide, I added tons of new tactics to the style:
-compliance pre-opener w/ elbow touch
-simple direct opener
-Getting in a girl’s bubble
-strong after-opener (yeah this is actually a thing from Chase’s article)
-baiting, not trading info
-being VERY persistent on compliance
-dominant vibe
I was tired as hell from the conference and it took me 30min+ to get enough energy to approach. My first approach, I tried pre-opening a girl, but didn’t talk loud enough for her to turn around. Noticing the crowds of people downtown, I decided to pick out my favorite targets.
What walking speed says about the girl/group:
-Sporatic: stop, slow, fast walking in random intervals. They usually are looking for someone and hard to catch up with.
-Standing and looking around/on phone: about to meet someone. I’ve approached girls to have a friend/guy come RIGHT afterward.
-Constant walking speed: They are strolling with nowhere to go in particular. Ideal situation!
Girl #1 - Late Teens, blonde, big butt, German
I walked out of a convenience store with a bottle of water and noticed blonde girl dart past with a sporadic walking speed. I haven’t met many German girls in my life, but as I am googling them, she was the stereotype. Big boned, but skinny waist, red cheeks, chubby face, and bright blonde hair. The crowd was thick, but I plowed on. As she turned the corner I touched her elbow and pre-opened.
Girl #2 was a blonde French and the same age, but encountered resistance to touching her waist. I stopped her from walking away twice, but she kept getting colder. Girl #3 was a blonde American the same age, but was cold to me right away. She nervously said that her bf is extremely jealous, I replied “Sounds like a bad situation, hold on a sec.” She turned and walked away!
Overview:
I have always struggled with girls my age, but I got a winning formula here. Being more calm and stacking compliance has really increased my success. I have tried this exact approach in different places 20 times and got okay results for girls my age: 2 numbers and 1 date. Before, I would get a polite dismissal and they would walk away. I’m excited to keep trying this vibe.
-compliance pre-opener w/ elbow touch
-simple direct opener
-Getting in a girl’s bubble
-strong after-opener (yeah this is actually a thing from Chase’s article)
-baiting, not trading info
-being VERY persistent on compliance
-dominant vibe
I was tired as hell from the conference and it took me 30min+ to get enough energy to approach. My first approach, I tried pre-opening a girl, but didn’t talk loud enough for her to turn around. Noticing the crowds of people downtown, I decided to pick out my favorite targets.
What walking speed says about the girl/group:
-Sporatic: stop, slow, fast walking in random intervals. They usually are looking for someone and hard to catch up with.
-Standing and looking around/on phone: about to meet someone. I’ve approached girls to have a friend/guy come RIGHT afterward.
-Constant walking speed: They are strolling with nowhere to go in particular. Ideal situation!
Girl #1 - Late Teens, blonde, big butt, German
I walked out of a convenience store with a bottle of water and noticed blonde girl dart past with a sporadic walking speed. I haven’t met many German girls in my life, but as I am googling them, she was the stereotype. Big boned, but skinny waist, red cheeks, chubby face, and bright blonde hair. The crowd was thick, but I plowed on. As she turned the corner I touched her elbow and pre-opened.
Me: Hey! Hold on a second!
Girl: (Silently turns around and stops)
Me: (Pregnant pause and looks into eyes for 1 alligator) You’re gorgeous
Girl: (Opens her mouth slightly in surprise, not saying anything)
Me: I just HAD to say that, I’m Barry. (Extends hand and she takes it)
Girl: Oh, I’m X. (Said quickly)
Me: (I keep looking at her while holding her hand then release it)
Girl: Wait, so you just saw me walk by and stopped me? (confused expression)
Me: Yeah, you caught me walking out of the convienece store. Where were you going?
Girl: Community college, points in the general direction.
Me: (I was exhausted and played dumb saying how I didn’t know there was one around here) Oh my god, I see it! Looks like a hole in the wall kind of place.
Girl: Are..you..from around here? (She had weird pauses in her voice as if trying to find the right words in English)
Me: Not really. Wait, hold on…Are you Russian? (Trying to cold read)
Girl: No, from Germany. (Starts telling me her education plans and desire for going to an extension program after getting an AA)
Me: (I connected with her saying how I took an extension program and knew about the procedures)
Girl: (Fumbling with English, she said she needed to go to class)
Me: No, wait! Hold on! Walk with me for a bit (We were walking in the same direction towards her class, not a huge investment) Around here, ppl walk together like THIS! (puts her arm around my hips and I do the same for her)
Girl: They do?!
Me: Of course! Isn’t the week more fun when you do something like this?
Girl: Like what?!
Me: Meeting sexy people on the way to class?
Girl: Um, Okay! (Laughing as we walk, could tell it has a nervous edge)
Me: (I try to turn her around a corner, but she peels away from me and walks across the street) Wait! I’m looking at the scooters, I bet they have those in Germany.
Girl: I need to go to class!
Me: Come back here, X! (We meet halfway in the street and resume walking with arms around each other)
Girl: Okay..well..(loosening her grip on me)
Me: Do you know how we say goodbye here?
Girl: Goodbye? No.
Me: Oh, REALLY?
Girl: (Not saying anything, looks directly in my eyes)
Me: (Stopping) Here’s a goodbye (Pulled her in by her hips w/ one had for a kiss, but she feins her head away. I put the other hand on her hip, pull her in and she meets me with a kiss).
Girl: (As I let her go) Bye! (Said goodbye in a quick/shy manner)
Girl #2 was a blonde French and the same age, but encountered resistance to touching her waist. I stopped her from walking away twice, but she kept getting colder. Girl #3 was a blonde American the same age, but was cold to me right away. She nervously said that her bf is extremely jealous, I replied “Sounds like a bad situation, hold on a sec.” She turned and walked away!
Overview:
I have always struggled with girls my age, but I got a winning formula here. Being more calm and stacking compliance has really increased my success. I have tried this exact approach in different places 20 times and got okay results for girls my age: 2 numbers and 1 date. Before, I would get a polite dismissal and they would walk away. I’m excited to keep trying this vibe.