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The deep dive is very effective and can be a really useful tool to connect with the girl you're talking to/seeing/dating and helps you converse and interact with whoever you're talking to. It can provide proximity and intimacy to use the psychical escalation ladder to help you get closer on multiple levels. If used appropriately it can advance your interactions and make you seem very socially suave.
However I do advise caution while using it. Lately I think I've moved myself from 'lover' to 'boyfriend material' while using it on dates with girls I have met through 'night game'. I've found that when you meet a girl in a club it is a world within itself that doesn't exist in the real world for girls which allows you to move very fast. (I forget which article I read that in on GC but its very accurate). Although when you leave the club and you enter the 'real world' meeting up with these girls provides them with consequences to their actions that it is now 'real'.
Keeping my dates simple, I go for a quiet drink either alcohol or coffee at a local bar and to help make the date more comfortable I look to connect with them through a deep dive. All these dates are mostly successful but I find unless I can get them back to my place the brakes go on as they try to position me into the boyfriend role. They're very enthusiastic to meet up again and I follow up but I find they're more cautious either because the dates are no longer covert, they've told their friends about it or because they're slowing the interaction down so they don't mess up. I put this down to most 'night game girls' aren't used to guys being able to hold a conversation with them and connect that well. I could be wrong but just an observation I've had.
SilenceintheSnow
However I do advise caution while using it. Lately I think I've moved myself from 'lover' to 'boyfriend material' while using it on dates with girls I have met through 'night game'. I've found that when you meet a girl in a club it is a world within itself that doesn't exist in the real world for girls which allows you to move very fast. (I forget which article I read that in on GC but its very accurate). Although when you leave the club and you enter the 'real world' meeting up with these girls provides them with consequences to their actions that it is now 'real'.
Keeping my dates simple, I go for a quiet drink either alcohol or coffee at a local bar and to help make the date more comfortable I look to connect with them through a deep dive. All these dates are mostly successful but I find unless I can get them back to my place the brakes go on as they try to position me into the boyfriend role. They're very enthusiastic to meet up again and I follow up but I find they're more cautious either because the dates are no longer covert, they've told their friends about it or because they're slowing the interaction down so they don't mess up. I put this down to most 'night game girls' aren't used to guys being able to hold a conversation with them and connect that well. I could be wrong but just an observation I've had.
SilenceintheSnow
