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I happen to be in a bad place where politics is very much "in".
Apparently the politics inside this organization was so bad that it was going out of control. Before i open my mouth, i decided to do a checklist,
1) Do i got power (seniority) ?
2) Do i have money?
3) Am i popular or recognized?
Until you have one of the above, just shut up or don't open your mouth so much. You only "kill" yourself in an organization or big social circle, for me at least. Anyway i decided to send a text to everyone, in a whatsapp chat. That's when things were gone out of control.
"Guys, i believe if we can go through this, we be closer, better and more tolerating. I believe we need each other now or this might spill to our personal lifes as well. I hope it doesn't go there.
- Zac"
and guess what, everyone just stops. Pardon the sappy text message, but i found the world likes pleasure and pain, Pleasure and Pain are both sides of the emotion spectrum. Only the "ELITES", successful people favour positive enthusiasm, (between slightly generally negative to content to positive enthusiasm.) But it is what is, in this world. It is important that we must be able to always walkaway. FUCK Contracts, FUCK YOUR GIRLFRIEND, FUCK YOUR FRIENDS, You must be able to mean what you say. You must be willing. But of course, treat people accordingly, Don't do this when you don't give people value. It just looks retarded, and people will totally find you "irrelevant".
Use this if you really want to save something, a relationship, work, and slowly gradually build things back up. Sometimes a relationship is bad that you can't really save it. even if you did manage to revive it the first time.
Zac
Apparently the politics inside this organization was so bad that it was going out of control. Before i open my mouth, i decided to do a checklist,
1) Do i got power (seniority) ?
2) Do i have money?
3) Am i popular or recognized?
Until you have one of the above, just shut up or don't open your mouth so much. You only "kill" yourself in an organization or big social circle, for me at least. Anyway i decided to send a text to everyone, in a whatsapp chat. That's when things were gone out of control.
"Guys, i believe if we can go through this, we be closer, better and more tolerating. I believe we need each other now or this might spill to our personal lifes as well. I hope it doesn't go there.
- Zac"and guess what, everyone just stops. Pardon the sappy text message, but i found the world likes pleasure and pain, Pleasure and Pain are both sides of the emotion spectrum. Only the "ELITES", successful people favour positive enthusiasm, (between slightly generally negative to content to positive enthusiasm.) But it is what is, in this world. It is important that we must be able to always walkaway. FUCK Contracts, FUCK YOUR GIRLFRIEND, FUCK YOUR FRIENDS, You must be able to mean what you say. You must be willing. But of course, treat people accordingly, Don't do this when you don't give people value. It just looks retarded, and people will totally find you "irrelevant".
Use this if you really want to save something, a relationship, work, and slowly gradually build things back up. Sometimes a relationship is bad that you can't really save it.
even if you did manage to revive it the first time.Zac
