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Roundy

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About a month ago I was out at a nightclub. On that particular night I was feeling kind of down as I'd been working on letting my guard down. I read Chase's anti-player article (and thinking about it more generally for a while) and realising that I've been a little bit too detached. This probably comes naturally from the sheer intensity of approaching many women, and having such fast-tracked interactions. Not saying that's bad, but I can give you a certain guardedness. I was feeling down because I had met a girl earlier that evening who I had felt a very real connection with. This is a little bit rare for me. After we kissed she turned cold as ice to me. We'd been talking so intimately and touching each other a lot, but then she started acting as if I didn't exist and deliberately flirted with other men in front of me. I was confused at the time, but now I realise it was an attainability issue.

So after that, at a different venue, my wing wanted to get me in an interaction again. He walked up to a Latin looking girl and said "my friend thinks you're beautiful" in Spanish. I think it's one of the two Spanish phrases he knows. I didn't see it happen so I was a bit surprised when a hot little Mexican girl came up to flirt with me. She is about 5'3" with a toned body, long black hair and a million dollar smile. We hit it off immediately. After a while chatting she says she has to go see her friends. I tell her I'll see her around the venue.

About an hour later I see her by the outside bar, and try to seed the pull. It's clearly a no go, she tells me how much she has to do tomorrow. I take her number, kiss her on the cheek then she goes home. It's fortunate that nothing more public happened inside that club, as I actually ran into my main girl there at 4am. After we'd both told each other that we were asleep. Weeks of drama ensue ...

I send a text or two to the Mexican girl, but she's not seeming very responsive. I ask her out for a drink and get no reply. So then I just ask again a few days later and she responds immediately that she is free and wants to meet. Confusing, but okay. We go out and have a drink by the river. It's a very nice evening but once again I know I'm not going to pull. We're just both too busy and logistics aren't particularly in our favour. Still, we go to this Mexican themed bar and listen to the mariachi band. It's good fun, and she has a sexy way of moving her hips to dance. Feeling those hips move gives me an immediate erection. Our hands are all over each other through the night and we do have a bit of a make-out before going our separate ways.

I try in vain to have her come over to my place in the following days. She has a weird way of replying to some messages, and not others. At a certain point I kind of give up and decide that I'll drop her a line every now and then, send her something flirty. I mean, who knows, she could genuinely be time poor. I know I am, so that's okay.

During this time, of course, the world is slowly turning to crisis mode because of the China virus. People are getting scared to leave their houses and all the clubs and bars are shutting. Like most of us, I'm having a bit of trouble generating new leads. I go on one date, but that doesn't really go anywhere. I decide to get away from the city and stay by the beach with my parents. If there's nothing to do in the city, I might as well spend a while swimming in the ocean, walking through national parks and going fishing with my dad and brother. I send her a message while I'm up there saying, "it's a pity you aren't up here with me, the beach is empty and we would have it all to ourselves." She loves this and it starts a long overdue escalation.

When I return home to the city it's not difficult at all to get her over to my house. Chiefly, all I have to do is tell her that yes, it is legal for her to fuck me. It almost feels unfair; I know I'm leveraging our collective boredom to entice her into a night of hot steamy sex. Thank you corona ;) I buy some wine and we spend a while commiserating. Conversation flows very easily and she makes an effort to be friendly with my housemates. At some point she says to me "oh what time is it? the last bus must be gone.. is it alright if I sleep here tonight?" At this point I know its a done deal, which will be useful later on.

She tells me she loves horror movies so I tell her we should go put one on. I take her in my room and she climbs on top of me and starts passionately kissing my lips and neck and chest. I pull one of her breasts out of her bra and start sucking it. Usually this is where I escalate heavily, and I do here. This is the first time this method has backfired. I pull my cock out and start stroking it while I suck her nipple. She doesn't notice though, and starts laughing when she sees my cock out. She says "No, you should let the girl take it out, otherwise its creepy." This is method I picked up from Skills, but I'm not sure where I went wrong this time, maybe too much hesitation. She literally puts my dick back in my pants and starts giving me some resistance whenever I try to take her shirt off. I know she's just playing though. Especially given that she'll be staying the night, I have all evening to persist. She tells me she can't believe how big my penis is while she rubs her hand over the outside of my jeans. I had been making some jokes earlier about how she'll be amazed how small it is, that is may be small but its very likeable, it looks like its smiling! But now she's doing the pornstar thing, rubbing it, telling me "god.. it's so big.. it's not going to fit." Oh yes it will.

As she keeps giving me LMR, I decide to up the heat. I grab her legs and start to smell her crotch through her jeans. I make a deep growling sound and hear her little moans. Like, she grabs my cock while saying "no, we can't do anything." Must be confusing to be a girl sometimes haha. After a while I know she's so horny that I just straight up take her jeans off her forcefully, swipe her underwear aside and start eating her pussy. She is going crazy for it, and I don't stop until she has a fiery Latina orgasm. After I do this, she says "Where did you learn that..." I tell her, from this website called Girls Chase. Jk. She sucks my dick, and then we fuck raw in various positions for about half an hour. Then she deepthroats me and I cum right down her throat. Then we both fall asleep and when I wake up she blows me again, well worth the persistence ;)
 
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She tells me she loves horror movies so I tell her we should go put one on. I take her in my room and she climbs on top of me and starts passionately kissing my lips and neck and chest. I pull one of her breasts out of her bra and start sucking it. Usually this is where I escalate heavily, and I do here. This is the first time this method has backfired. I pull my cock out and start stroking it while I suck her nipple. She doesn't notice though, and starts laughing when she sees my cock out. She says "No, you should let the girl take it out, otherwise its creepy." This is method I picked up from Skills, but I'm not sure where I went wrong this time, maybe too much hesitation. She literally puts my dick back in my pants and starts giving me some resistance whenever I try to take her shirt off. I know she's just playing though. Especially given that she'll be staying the night, I have all evening to persist. She tells me she can't believe how big my penis is while she rubs her hand over the outside of my jeans. I had been making some jokes earlier about how she'll be amazed how small it is, that is may be small but its very likeable, it looks like its smiling! But now she's doing the pornstar thing, rubbing it, telling me "god.. it's so big.. it's not going to fit." Oh yes it will.

As she keeps giving me LMR, I decide to up the heat. I grab her legs and start to smell her crotch through her jeans. I make a deep growling sound and hear her little moans. Like, she grabs my cock while saying "no, we can't do anything." Must be confusing to be a girl sometimes haha. After a while I know she's so horny that I just straight up take her jeans off her forcefully, swipe her underwear aside and start eating her pussy. She is going crazy for it, and I don't stop until she has a fiery Latina orgasm. After I do this, she says "Where did you learn that..." I tell her, from this website called Girls Chase. Jk. She sucks my dick, and then we fuck raw in various positions for about half an hour. Then she deepthroats me and I cum right down her throat. Then we both fall asleep and when I wake up she blows me again, well worth the persistence ;)

Ok, when you are doing the method you need to get all exited, and first squeeze the dick through your pants without pulling it out like a pervert that has never seen breast in his life, then you pull it out and jerk off and keep the excitement while looking directly at her breast, and yes you got a be confident, no hesitation (i know you hesitated she will feel this), when she pull the dick back in your pants was a shit test, but as you can tell she was bluffing, flirting, shit testing) now i am telling you all of this so you can learn to do the whole thing smoother next time, the right way to do this is (which you kind of did) https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/g...sexual-act-while-physical-verbally-escalating


Good job overall!
 
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Chase

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@Roundy,

Great example of using pings every now and again to persist with a girl who's sort of flaky over text but still acting interested at least some of the time.

A few comments:

I had met a girl earlier that evening who I had felt a very real connection with. This is a little bit rare for me. After we kissed she turned cold as ice to me. We'd been talking so intimately and touching each other a lot, but then she started acting as if I didn't exist and deliberately flirted with other men in front of me. I was confused at the time, but now I realise it was an attainability issue.

Sounds like she wanted you to pull her and instead you kept gaming her.

She figured you were just messing with her and weren't going to do anything, so she went off to flirt with other guys to try to make you jealous.

Generally this is a sign you need to move a little faster than how you're moving right now (or at least needed to in this case).

It's fortunate that nothing more public happened inside that club, as I actually ran into my main girl there at 4am. After we'd both told each other that we were asleep. Weeks of drama ensue ...

lol.

My condolences... but I'm sure there was some comedy gold there as well.

Her: "You were at the nightclub! After you told me you were asleep!"

You: "You told me the same thing!"

Her: "My friend texted so I got up and went out anyway! What's your excuse!"

You: "The same!"

Her: "Liar!"

You: "You are the one lying! I can see it in your eyes!"

Her: "You can't see anything!"

... just me imagining roughly how that went.

I send a text or two to the Mexican girl, but she's not seeming very responsive. I ask her out for a drink and get no reply. So then I just ask again a few days later and she responds immediately that she is free and wants to meet. Confusing, but okay.

Yeah, there are girls like this.

A lot of times I have seen this it will be the case that the girl has a boyfriend or an "it's complicated" type of relationship, where she is alternately busy with her guy, or dealing with emotion due to the chaoticness of the situation.

Best you can do is what you did: you just keep pinging, switching up your offers and messages so it doesn't get stale, and wait to catch her at a good moment.

I try in vain to have her come over to my place in the following days. She has a weird way of replying to some messages, and not others. At a certain point I kind of give up and decide that I'll drop her a line every now and then, send her something flirty. I mean, who knows, she could genuinely be time poor. I know I am, so that's okay.

Yeah, this is the best strategy for this situation.

Getting her on a phone call would be a good call with a general flaky girl, if you felt like connection/rapport/attraction/trust was lacking.

But none of those seem to be the problem here.

So it is probably that she has a guy, the situation is complicated, and she likes you but didn't know if she was ready to go for it yet or not.

You just keep pinging her every now and again, and sooner or later you'll hit her when she's actually ready to hop in bed.

I decide to get away from the city and stay by the beach with my parents. If there's nothing to do in the city, I might as well spend a while swimming in the ocean, walking through national parks and going fishing with my dad and brother. I send her a message while I'm up there saying, "it's a pity you aren't up here with me, the beach is empty and we would have it all to ourselves." She loves this and it starts a long overdue escalation.

Nicely done here.

That's a great text -- role play, painting a romantic scenario for her, getting her to think about "we/us", sense of adventure, showing value on your part, thinking of her at just the right time -- really good. And just what she needed.

When I return home to the city it's not difficult at all to get her over to my house.

Yep. Well done.

Great lockdown lay, Roundy!

Chase
 

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@Roundy,

Getting her on a phone call would be a good call with a general flaky girl, if you felt like connection/rapport/attraction/trust was lacking.

But none of those seem to be the problem here.

So it is probably that she has a guy, the situation is complicated, and she likes you but didn't know if she was ready to go for it yet or not.

You just keep pinging her every now and again, and sooner or later you'll hit her when she's actually ready to hop in bed.
Chase
Wow this is really cool stuff. On one of my reports “sleepover after sleepover after sleepover” I’m running into this same issue. She has a mans but hasn’t fully decided what to do with me. But keeps dangling that she’ll have sex with me one day. I’m trying to debunk that one it would be a great reference point for me in the future. But this report is almost similar to mine I love it.

sleepover after sleepover LMR now

great job on crashing through that barrier. LMR is hard and looking how you unbuttoned her jeans forcefully but very sexually gives me an idea now. I’ve been trying to get the jeans off by kissing her stomach, being persistent. It’s really her mood one day she’ll let me lay on her vag another no. But reading your report really helps to see Theres hope.
 
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