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I notice something,
Every time when a new guy comes onto the pua scene, dating scene or here which is Girlschase, There tend to be some guys who are bitter with women. That bitterness comes from a whole lot of different reasons. But one thing that stands out to me is that a lot of guys who are experienced, dissociating themselves with "bitterness". What is "bitterness" really?
"Bitterness" comes from rejection of another person to you, do it in a manner of analyzing potential circumstances that is about to surface or have already faced. She rejects you because you were hurting her social reputation, She had a bad experience with men turning her down too many times. As a result, you feel the backlash of that potential circumstances that is about to surface or have already faced.
What this mean? It means it's not totally about you. But does this mean you cannot feel "bitterness". You can. Every emotion is important but every emotion is moderation, Just like happiness too. Too much of happiness and you lose process. If girls reject you, and you feel "bitter", Make them work harder for you, then. But don't get carried away by that "bitterness" emotion. Utilize it well.
If you feel "bitter", you might as well make sure that person work harder for you, then. Just remember it's not totally about you. Not everyone can do it, but you find emotional strength if you able to walk with all your emotions.
(and not just walk with joyful things.)
Zac
Every time when a new guy comes onto the pua scene, dating scene or here which is Girlschase, There tend to be some guys who are bitter with women. That bitterness comes from a whole lot of different reasons. But one thing that stands out to me is that a lot of guys who are experienced, dissociating themselves with "bitterness". What is "bitterness" really?
"Bitterness" comes from rejection of another person to you, do it in a manner of analyzing potential circumstances that is about to surface or have already faced. She rejects you because you were hurting her social reputation, She had a bad experience with men turning her down too many times. As a result, you feel the backlash of that potential circumstances that is about to surface or have already faced.
What this mean? It means it's not totally about you. But does this mean you cannot feel "bitterness". You can. Every emotion is important but every emotion is moderation, Just like happiness too. Too much of happiness and you lose process. If girls reject you, and you feel "bitter", Make them work harder for you, then. But don't get carried away by that "bitterness" emotion. Utilize it well.
If you feel "bitter", you might as well make sure that person work harder for you, then. Just remember it's not totally about you. Not everyone can do it, but you find emotional strength if you able to walk with all your emotions.
(and not just walk with joyful things.)Zac