Is there maybe an article on this sort of relationship where you see the girl once or twice a year and that's all? If not perhaps it'd be helpful to some people. Anyways,
I travel a lot so this situation has come up a few times before for me. There's a girl I hook up with for a weekend on vacation (we both have a house in the same place) and we have an amazing time. I only see her once or twice a year for a week at most. I end up sleeping with her and we're both really into it. This girl came to visit me twice at school but we didn't have sex those times (it felt kind of awkward) but we hooked up and everything else seemed to go well. I now see her in summer and she seems very attracted still but it is hard for me to gauge how to proceed. Should I address the issue directly and talk to her about hooking up? Or just try to escalate again and go through the entire process again? I'm wondering whether or not the whole seduction process really has to be repeated or if we should be able to just pick up where we left off. This girl is quite conservative and doesn't usually do this sort of thing. Any viewpoints would be welcome, thanks
I travel a lot so this situation has come up a few times before for me. There's a girl I hook up with for a weekend on vacation (we both have a house in the same place) and we have an amazing time. I only see her once or twice a year for a week at most. I end up sleeping with her and we're both really into it. This girl came to visit me twice at school but we didn't have sex those times (it felt kind of awkward) but we hooked up and everything else seemed to go well. I now see her in summer and she seems very attracted still but it is hard for me to gauge how to proceed. Should I address the issue directly and talk to her about hooking up? Or just try to escalate again and go through the entire process again? I'm wondering whether or not the whole seduction process really has to be repeated or if we should be able to just pick up where we left off. This girl is quite conservative and doesn't usually do this sort of thing. Any viewpoints would be welcome, thanks
