Everything was going great. Met her in a dining hall, grabbed her number, and set the date up for after our midterms aka tonight.
Text Convo
Me: (coffee place) at 7?
Her: I can do after 9ish instead, I have to do something instead?
Good so the later the better I thought. So fast forward to the date I walk in and she's on the phone but hurriedly trying to get off, she keeps saying Ok bye but the person won't hang up just yet. Ok she finally gets off the phone apologizing and saying that it was her dad's birthday. No biggie. So we talk and I do the normal deep diving and stuff and its all good except she keeps looking at her phone and just looking around. Usually when I'm on a date girls zero in on me and its a great little bubble we have but this really wasn't the case tonight. First Mistake What I should have did when she was on her phone was act bored and have her reengage, didn't do that. Ok so blah blah we're there for about an hour then I ask her what she has up for the night as I put my jacket on. She tells me she has to study so she can party this weekend, her Asian parents being strict, blah blah. So yeah I keep small talking with her for a while and finally get her to come chill in my dorm nearby for "15 mins". She agrees after I ask her in like 15 different ways. As we're walking back she says "this won't be 15 mins" but still keeps walking with me anyway to my place. So we get in my room I take my shoes off, she takes her shoes off, I turn the movie on. Movie is taking for ever to load and when it does play it keeps buffering. Of all times! I use this site all the time and now its wants to act up on me, jeez! Second mistake Movie malfunction threw me off my game and my escalation is not as smooth as it usually is. Usually start rubbing her legs, pull her in close (both facing the tv but the girl is laying down in front of me), smell her hair, comment on it usually, kiss her neck, keep my hands moving, act normal, rinse and repeat with more stuff added in the next time until she's ready to go. Fuck allowed this fucked up movie to fuck with me so my escalation was more rushed than usual and when I'm kissing her neck and trying to kiss her she's nervously laughing and turning her head away. She eventually sits up straight but can barely form a sentence through all her nervous laughter but she was throwing up resistance and the fucking movie was still buffering. She said she'll stay for five more minutes and commented on how the movie sucked. I kept trying but my mojo was off and true to her word she was out in 5 minutes.
How I fucked up
1. Should have went for manhandle kiss sooner
2. Allowed the fucked up movie situation to alter my physical escalation causing me to act differently than I normally do (not smooth, not totally at ease, no push-pull, didn't really use bursts of passion, didn't hit milestones)
In summary: I was just fucking off tonight and didn't come ready to win. More than likely won't see her again, and it sucks because she was gorgeous.
Text Convo
Me: (coffee place) at 7?
Her: I can do after 9ish instead, I have to do something instead?
Good so the later the better I thought. So fast forward to the date I walk in and she's on the phone but hurriedly trying to get off, she keeps saying Ok bye but the person won't hang up just yet. Ok she finally gets off the phone apologizing and saying that it was her dad's birthday. No biggie. So we talk and I do the normal deep diving and stuff and its all good except she keeps looking at her phone and just looking around. Usually when I'm on a date girls zero in on me and its a great little bubble we have but this really wasn't the case tonight. First Mistake What I should have did when she was on her phone was act bored and have her reengage, didn't do that. Ok so blah blah we're there for about an hour then I ask her what she has up for the night as I put my jacket on. She tells me she has to study so she can party this weekend, her Asian parents being strict, blah blah. So yeah I keep small talking with her for a while and finally get her to come chill in my dorm nearby for "15 mins". She agrees after I ask her in like 15 different ways. As we're walking back she says "this won't be 15 mins" but still keeps walking with me anyway to my place. So we get in my room I take my shoes off, she takes her shoes off, I turn the movie on. Movie is taking for ever to load and when it does play it keeps buffering. Of all times! I use this site all the time and now its wants to act up on me, jeez! Second mistake Movie malfunction threw me off my game and my escalation is not as smooth as it usually is. Usually start rubbing her legs, pull her in close (both facing the tv but the girl is laying down in front of me), smell her hair, comment on it usually, kiss her neck, keep my hands moving, act normal, rinse and repeat with more stuff added in the next time until she's ready to go. Fuck allowed this fucked up movie to fuck with me so my escalation was more rushed than usual and when I'm kissing her neck and trying to kiss her she's nervously laughing and turning her head away. She eventually sits up straight but can barely form a sentence through all her nervous laughter but she was throwing up resistance and the fucking movie was still buffering. She said she'll stay for five more minutes and commented on how the movie sucked. I kept trying but my mojo was off and true to her word she was out in 5 minutes.
How I fucked up
1. Should have went for manhandle kiss sooner
2. Allowed the fucked up movie situation to alter my physical escalation causing me to act differently than I normally do (not smooth, not totally at ease, no push-pull, didn't really use bursts of passion, didn't hit milestones)
In summary: I was just fucking off tonight and didn't come ready to win. More than likely won't see her again, and it sucks because she was gorgeous.
