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Amadeaus

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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People have often told me i'm fun or funny. The most common thing girls have told me during pillow talk was that i'm adorable, which is really deflating, even after sex. While I would get laid here and there, I would get friend zoned by the girls I really liked. All that left me feeling a bit like a circus monkey and I didn't really feel respected.

Since I found GC, I've been working having a calm effortless vibe. My favorite bartender told me I always look so stoic, as she gave me a warm smile. That was really a breath of fresh air compared to being called fun or adorable. Overall, women seem to be respecting me more. I'm still working and getting a good feel of it, at first I don't think I was very warm and inviting.

That vibe seems to be treating me well at night, but I'd really like to move to cold approaching in the daytime and really tackle my approach anxiety. Alcohol is a bit of a social lubricant for both me and them. I have also noticed a few of the girls I have met were not really the same without a couple drinks in them.

Should I stick with this calmer vibe for the daytime or will I need to be a little higher energy? Thats assuming I don't end up having a nervous vibe at first haha.
 

Franco

Tribal Elder
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Amadeus,

The calm vibe is perfect for daytime approaching. As a matter of fact, I only go higher energy if I'm at a location that has higher energy (such as a nighclub). And even when I do approach with higher energy, I steadily try to bring the energy down a few notches with the girl so she can get into more of a seductive, sexual state. It's easier to move things forward from there.

Calm and confident is absolutely perfect during the daytime, though. If you feel like you're pulling off that vibe well, then you should be excited to start trying out day game. =)

- Franco
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Amadeaus

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Thanks Franco! That is really great news!
 
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