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[Ree]

There is a girl called pash...we met months ago,but never dated....
She out of the blue sent a reconnect text,asked her out...we met..went on a date...
I was extremely touchy and our stories were mostly about sex....
I changd locations to a drinking location ..Here I was even more touchy..I ..kissed her neck...carried her on my lap,stuck my hands up her shirt...when it got to heavy...I pulled her to my place....

Now once we got home....she would not let me touch her....
I was even laughing like wtf?...
She kept changing seats if I tried to seat next to her....I tried aleks step back routine....i stepped back...and tried more polite touches..elbow..etc..but every time I reached for more intimacy she...violently threw me off and pretended to be angry...she.called cab..threatened to leave.....I then tried to calm her....started the escalation again with very violent results any time I felt like I am getting somewhere
She asked me point blank...do you want to fuck me?
I don know how I responded to this...probably said...we don have to do anything kes just enjoy each others company
She then started complaining about how touchy I was during the date(even though then she was into t,and even grabbing my dick)
....every deescalation and escalation sequence resulted in her fuming...stomping and threatening to leave
.....thoughts?

 

[skin_man]

Weird.

Did you try letting her know (when at your place).. that you actually like her?

 

[Ree]

Weird.

Did you try letting her know (when at your place).. that you actually like her?

yes..plus did i mention on the date she told me all sorts of stories of how she is a freak,how she has had one night stands...fucked outside....has a high partner count...its like she was telling me how much of a bad girl she is

 

[jdoc]

Hi Ree,

I think what you experienced might've been due to a phenomenon called emotional cresting due to your hot touchiness at the bar. Check out Chase's article on emotional cresting:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/emoti ... how-use-it

I think part of the reason for her reaction may have been due to a poorly handled transition from the bar to your place. In the case that it was poorly handled, her hot and heavy emotions might have subsided and she may have second-guessed coming home with you.

 

[Ree]

Hi Ree,

I think what you experienced might've been due to a phenomenon called emotional cresting due to your hot touchiness at the bar. Check out Chase's article on emotional cresting:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/emoti ... how-use-it

I think part of the reason for her reaction may have been due to a poorly handled transition from the bar to your place. In the case that it was poorly handled, her hot and heavy emotions might have subsided and she may have second-guessed coming home with you.

oww....interesting...how do i get around this

 

[jdoc]

Basically you don't want things too hot and heavy before you're in a seduction location where you can escalate into sex. Otherwise you risk emotional cresting when hot emotions calm down. I think a good way to handle transitions is to keep talking about something low pressure to smooth the transition and distract her logical mind.

Jeffrey