Hi guys, hope you're all doing all right.
Yesterday I went on a date with this girl I had already made out with, but we didn't have a chance to get to know each other before the date. It went really well, she was really flirty and interested, and we went to a reunion eith friends from our mutual social circle. We made out again and I asked her to come to my place. The thing is, she said, after some persistence, that she wouldn't do anything sexual with me because she was a virgin and thought that an emotional connection would make things more enjoyable, and that she was attracted enough to me to do it, but not that same day.
We arrived at my place, and we headed to my room. We laid down on my bed and started kissing and talking intermittently, and I kept asking for compliance, but the most I managed to get to was touching her over our clothes. Keep in mind that it was late, we had classes in the morning and she was with an allergy, so it wasn't the most ideal of occasions.
Anyway, she said during our conversation that she doesn't care about other people's opinions about her open sexuality, so the social circle knows about us. I believe I'm in a boyfriend role right now, but I also think I can escalate to sex with this chick.
How can I frame sex as something that would enhance our connection and dismiss her objections about it being something to be done without a big connection? (Or should I proceed in another way?)
She hasn't had it yet, so that kinda makes it hard for me to push the right buttons on her.
Yesterday I went on a date with this girl I had already made out with, but we didn't have a chance to get to know each other before the date. It went really well, she was really flirty and interested, and we went to a reunion eith friends from our mutual social circle. We made out again and I asked her to come to my place. The thing is, she said, after some persistence, that she wouldn't do anything sexual with me because she was a virgin and thought that an emotional connection would make things more enjoyable, and that she was attracted enough to me to do it, but not that same day.
We arrived at my place, and we headed to my room. We laid down on my bed and started kissing and talking intermittently, and I kept asking for compliance, but the most I managed to get to was touching her over our clothes. Keep in mind that it was late, we had classes in the morning and she was with an allergy, so it wasn't the most ideal of occasions.
Anyway, she said during our conversation that she doesn't care about other people's opinions about her open sexuality, so the social circle knows about us. I believe I'm in a boyfriend role right now, but I also think I can escalate to sex with this chick.
How can I frame sex as something that would enhance our connection and dismiss her objections about it being something to be done without a big connection? (Or should I proceed in another way?)
She hasn't had it yet, so that kinda makes it hard for me to push the right buttons on her.
