Hey guys,
Whilst backpacking Europe, I met up with a pretty cool Hungarian girl on Tinder. We'll call her Isabelle.
I met up with her at the city square. I was around 15 minutes late, so I was feeling a bit rushed and flustered. She was standing slightly facing away from me when I walked up to her. "Isabelle, hey!"
She turned to face me and we greeted. I apologised for the lateness and gave her a hug. She hugged me back very awkwardly. We then headed into a nearby bar, and had a very awkward conversation before we were seated. I could tell that she was a very shy and introverted gal. We sat down and I ordered a berry juice, and for her a beer. When the waiter delivered the drinks, he gave me the beer and her the juice. I thought that it was pretty amusing, as I swapped the glasses around. I told her that I didn't drink alcohol as it made me sleepy.
At the bar, Isabelle was sitting directly opposite me across a broad table which made physical escalation impossible. We essentially had pretty awkward conversation because she was so shy. My main goal at this point was trying to make her feel comfortable. At one point, I found out that she played electric guitar, and was a big fan of John Frusciante - a guitarist that I was completely obsessed with and idolised from 2009 - 2013. I deep dived her about her musical talents, passions and hobbies. It was actually pretty awesome that we liked the exact same music. It was a huge coincidence, since we'd matched on Tinder. I teased her about being a stalker, and that she creeped through my Facebook and somehow knew about my musical tastes. After about 30 minutes, we finished our drinks and I suggested taking a walk down to the river. I paid for the drinks since they were so cheap.
After walking out, I grabbed her hands, and headed towards the river. Some of the uncomfortable tension from earlier was released immediately now that we were able to touch each other. We sat down on a bench facing the river, and by this time, the sun had set, making for quite a romantic atmosphere. As I was holding her hand, I deep dived her about travel, passions, and more.
After 10 minutes, I decided that I wanted to kiss her. I stopped her mid conversation and I said that I had to kiss her first. She nervously said okay, and I leaned in to lock lips. For about 20 minutes there was passionate making out (with John Frusciante playing in the background... an earbud for each) and ear sucking... It was pretty passionate. After that, I decided to go for the pull.
I grabbed her hand and led her into the shower cubicle and locked the door. We hung our heavy coats onto the hook and I took off our tops whilst making out. We made out some more and I rubbed her thighs, incidentally rubbing her pussy through her jeans. After some time, I unzipped my pants, and she very briefly put her hand down my pants. We made out some more.
Whenever I tried to put my hand under her pants though, she resisted and pulled back, in which case I'd give take a step back and give her some room. After trying again, with some resistance, I noticed an uncomfortable vibe manifesting. I stepped back completely.
It was a pretty interesting date. I think I did well with leading the interaction and being flirty and unleashing her inner desire. For just a quiet introverted girl, she got really into the kissing at some points.
Take it easy dudes.
Jeff
Whilst backpacking Europe, I met up with a pretty cool Hungarian girl on Tinder. We'll call her Isabelle.
I met up with her at the city square. I was around 15 minutes late, so I was feeling a bit rushed and flustered. She was standing slightly facing away from me when I walked up to her. "Isabelle, hey!"
She turned to face me and we greeted. I apologised for the lateness and gave her a hug. She hugged me back very awkwardly. We then headed into a nearby bar, and had a very awkward conversation before we were seated. I could tell that she was a very shy and introverted gal. We sat down and I ordered a berry juice, and for her a beer. When the waiter delivered the drinks, he gave me the beer and her the juice. I thought that it was pretty amusing, as I swapped the glasses around. I told her that I didn't drink alcohol as it made me sleepy.
At the bar, Isabelle was sitting directly opposite me across a broad table which made physical escalation impossible. We essentially had pretty awkward conversation because she was so shy. My main goal at this point was trying to make her feel comfortable. At one point, I found out that she played electric guitar, and was a big fan of John Frusciante - a guitarist that I was completely obsessed with and idolised from 2009 - 2013. I deep dived her about her musical talents, passions and hobbies. It was actually pretty awesome that we liked the exact same music. It was a huge coincidence, since we'd matched on Tinder. I teased her about being a stalker, and that she creeped through my Facebook and somehow knew about my musical tastes. After about 30 minutes, we finished our drinks and I suggested taking a walk down to the river. I paid for the drinks since they were so cheap.
After walking out, I grabbed her hands, and headed towards the river. Some of the uncomfortable tension from earlier was released immediately now that we were able to touch each other. We sat down on a bench facing the river, and by this time, the sun had set, making for quite a romantic atmosphere. As I was holding her hand, I deep dived her about travel, passions, and more.
After 10 minutes, I decided that I wanted to kiss her. I stopped her mid conversation and I said that I had to kiss her first. She nervously said okay, and I leaned in to lock lips. For about 20 minutes there was passionate making out (with John Frusciante playing in the background... an earbud for each) and ear sucking... It was pretty passionate. After that, I decided to go for the pull.
We walked hand in hand to the hostel, and I focused on making her feel comfortable and kept the mood relaxed. I led her through the front door, up some stairs and led her to the computer room. I told her to wait there as I had to use the bathroom. After I'd gone, she went to use the unisex bathroom too. I sat down on a seat and tried to figure out what to say to pull her into the shower cubicle. After she returned, I stood up and grabbed her hands.
She seemed a little hesitant, and it didn't seem like the smoothest pull, but hey, it worked.
I grabbed her hand and led her into the shower cubicle and locked the door. We hung our heavy coats onto the hook and I took off our tops whilst making out. We made out some more and I rubbed her thighs, incidentally rubbing her pussy through her jeans. After some time, I unzipped my pants, and she very briefly put her hand down my pants. We made out some more.
Whenever I tried to put my hand under her pants though, she resisted and pulled back, in which case I'd give take a step back and give her some room. After trying again, with some resistance, I noticed an uncomfortable vibe manifesting. I stepped back completely.
At this point, a sense of empathy washed over me. She didn't seem entirely comfortable being so sexual with me and she definitely didn't seem like the type of girl who wanted to lose her virginity in a dirty hostel shower cubicle with a stranger she'd known for less than 2 hours. I gave her a kiss and put our clothes back on. After that, I sweet talked her to make sure she walked away from this experience feeling positive. She then said that her mum was expecting her home, so I led her out. She said that she liked me and that she'd missed me before we kissed goodbye.
It was a pretty interesting date. I think I did well with leading the interaction and being flirty and unleashing her inner desire. For just a quiet introverted girl, she got really into the kissing at some points.
Take it easy dudes.
Jeff
