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Went to get drinks with a girl named Cat. She's around 5'9'', blonde with a pretty face (kinda looks like my ex tbh), skinny legs, with a nice butt. Met her at a bar but don't remember hardly any of the conversation.
Our texts before, setting up the date:
We greet, hug, and begin the walk. I'm beginning with questions about what she does and feeling the vibe for her personality. She's awkward. Cute, but awkward. I still did my best to deep dive, and we talked about her vacations and childhood memories.
She had a vacation at a party house with tons of girls and dudes. I said, "yeah those things usually turn into quite a fun orgy", and she laughs and says "yea that part was fun", so I figure she's a little sexual experienced. I tell her to sit closer to me and she does. She was accepting all my chase frames and sexual frames, and I eventually ask her,
I keep doing what I'm doing with sexual frames and chase frames, and establish myself as a sexually experienced male while remaining nonchalant, and doing my best to follow Seppuku's guide to building touch.
At one point I go
Did not work nearly as well as it had in the past. Possibly because of my meh delivery, possibly because of her being a virgin, or both.
I asked her where her craziest place would be to have sex, since she's a virgin and to get us both nonchalantly talking about sex, and then suggest the bathroom of the bar we were in and she laughs a lot. No way she'd actually be down though.
Then I suggest we go to my house for drinks as to not blow all our money at the bar and she agrees.
We call an uber, and right before we get in the car, her friend calls her about how her roommate's boyfriend of 3 years just broke up with her (Greeeat), and she says she doesn't know how long she can stay. "We'll just play it by ear", I say.
We get to my place, I make the drinks, and she starts bringing up her friend again.
After that I said something about how people just need to be in touch with themselves and be themselves, then pull the Franco glass down move and manhandle kiss her. Pull back, we start making out, and.... she knocks her drink over on my table.
I laugh, she's super embarrassed, and I keep everything cool, and grab paper towels no rush. I clean most of it up, then have her get the last part. When she comes back from the trash I put my arms around her and we start making out, then move her to the wall to turn things up.
Then I pick her up and she wraps her legs around my back, and I move her to the couch as I'm on top of her. We make out, I slide my hands below her pants and grab her ass (ooo is it nice) below her underwear, and we make out, and make out, and make out.
She won't let me finger her, but I was rubbing on her pussy above her pants and she's getting wet. Lots of dry humping lol. Then I try to push shit forward and she says she's on her period, and I said I didn't care but she does.
Her pants never came off, but I basically had most of her ass popping out of them and her tits out. I put her hand on my dick and she's rubbing it through the pants, then I whip it out. She strokes, and strokes, and strokes, but I never get going enough to bust. I told her I've never came from a handjob (I haven't) and allude towards dome but she won't do it because it's our first date.
I said tons of shit to try and get around this, the yes ladder, telling her I have a feeling she wants to (and she said she did), put my finger in and out of her mouth asking her what she's thinking about, and got her as turned on as I could from foreplay (biting/sucking on her ears, giving her hickeys, sucking on her tits, rubbing her pussy, grabbing and slapping her ass), but she just wouldn't blow me.
Eventually I move us upstairs because the couch was getting uncomfortable, and while this made our foreplay more enjoyable, she wouldn't blow me, the pants never came off, and I couldn't get off from her handjob. I did cold read her while fondling her ass and she accepted the read, so points for growing comfort, I suppose.
I'm down to take her V card, as I ruled out any boyfriend territory early on, or at least get top from her, but it definitely won't be until next time. I'll invite her over to my house directly to push that my house = sex.
Blue balls
Hueman
Our texts before, setting up the date:
Her: That's sweet!! Who doesn't like [restaurant]!
Me: Me for the moment I'm about to head into work again.. are you free tomorrow?
Her: I just got off myself. I'll be in a school till 1 so I'd be free after then
Me: Okay, how about we meet at ~5
Her: Works with me! Where were you thinking?
Me: [bar] for the long islands of course *cheers emoji*
Her: I live close to the southest part of campus so that'd be a ways from me
Me: Hmm, I haven't been to [bar] in a while
Her: I haven't had a [drink] in a while. Is that too far for you?
Her: [bar] is also right there too and you mentioned how you hadn't been there before
Me: But [bar] has margaritas (;
Her: Truuue
Me: Let's get it then, meet at your house and roll to ugly tuna around 5
Her: Alrighty, sounds like a plan!
Next day
Me: Hey Cat (; what's your address?
Her: It's [address]. If it's out of the way we can meet up there too
Me: Oh wow you're right next to [street], that's really close to my house
Her: Okay, and that's good
Call her, call get's ignored
Wait 45 minutes
Me: I'll be all set in a minute, are we ready?
Her: Ready to rumble
Me: Be there in a few
Her: Sounds good
Me: Outside
We greet, hug, and begin the walk. I'm beginning with questions about what she does and feeling the vibe for her personality. She's awkward. Cute, but awkward. I still did my best to deep dive, and we talked about her vacations and childhood memories.
She had a vacation at a party house with tons of girls and dudes. I said, "yeah those things usually turn into quite a fun orgy", and she laughs and says "yea that part was fun", so I figure she's a little sexual experienced. I tell her to sit closer to me and she does. She was accepting all my chase frames and sexual frames, and I eventually ask her,
I keep doing what I'm doing with sexual frames and chase frames, and establish myself as a sexually experienced male while remaining nonchalant, and doing my best to follow Seppuku's guide to building touch.
At one point I go
Did not work nearly as well as it had in the past. Possibly because of my meh delivery, possibly because of her being a virgin, or both.
I asked her where her craziest place would be to have sex, since she's a virgin and to get us both nonchalantly talking about sex, and then suggest the bathroom of the bar we were in and she laughs a lot. No way she'd actually be down though.
Then I suggest we go to my house for drinks as to not blow all our money at the bar and she agrees.
We call an uber, and right before we get in the car, her friend calls her about how her roommate's boyfriend of 3 years just broke up with her (Greeeat), and she says she doesn't know how long she can stay. "We'll just play it by ear", I say.
We get to my place, I make the drinks, and she starts bringing up her friend again.
Candy from a babyMe: Well you're a good friend, you care
Her: Yeah, I think you're right, but I keep getting texts from my friend
Me: You know what I do when that happens? *gently take her phone, toss it on other side if couch*
Her: Hahaha yeah you're right
After that I said something about how people just need to be in touch with themselves and be themselves, then pull the Franco glass down move and manhandle kiss her. Pull back, we start making out, and.... she knocks her drink over on my table.
I laugh, she's super embarrassed, and I keep everything cool, and grab paper towels no rush. I clean most of it up, then have her get the last part. When she comes back from the trash I put my arms around her and we start making out, then move her to the wall to turn things up.
Then I pick her up and she wraps her legs around my back, and I move her to the couch as I'm on top of her. We make out, I slide my hands below her pants and grab her ass (ooo is it nice) below her underwear, and we make out, and make out, and make out.
She won't let me finger her, but I was rubbing on her pussy above her pants and she's getting wet. Lots of dry humping lol. Then I try to push shit forward and she says she's on her period, and I said I didn't care but she does.
Her pants never came off, but I basically had most of her ass popping out of them and her tits out. I put her hand on my dick and she's rubbing it through the pants, then I whip it out. She strokes, and strokes, and strokes, but I never get going enough to bust. I told her I've never came from a handjob (I haven't) and allude towards dome but she won't do it because it's our first date.
I said tons of shit to try and get around this, the yes ladder, telling her I have a feeling she wants to (and she said she did), put my finger in and out of her mouth asking her what she's thinking about, and got her as turned on as I could from foreplay (biting/sucking on her ears, giving her hickeys, sucking on her tits, rubbing her pussy, grabbing and slapping her ass), but she just wouldn't blow me.
Eventually I move us upstairs because the couch was getting uncomfortable, and while this made our foreplay more enjoyable, she wouldn't blow me, the pants never came off, and I couldn't get off from her handjob. I did cold read her while fondling her ass and she accepted the read, so points for growing comfort, I suppose.
I'm down to take her V card, as I ruled out any boyfriend territory early on, or at least get top from her, but it definitely won't be until next time. I'll invite her over to my house directly to push that my house = sex.
Blue balls
Hueman
