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I suppose I am writing this much sooner than I could have ever imagined. Then again this did not happen because of skill but I digress...
It was Saturday, initiation day for the Binghamton chapter of Kappa Sigma. I helped found this chapter and the entire day we were getting put through the process. There was then a banquet, everyone had dates. I had to have a fellow pledge brother hook me up with a date because you know I have only just started going about things in a smart way with women. I could not get a date and the one he set me up with was not easy on the eyes at all. My god, I could not wait for the after party. I tried some deep diving and what not but just how unattractive she is just stopped me from talking to her about a quarter of a way through the banquet.
Anyway, we finally get to the after party at a club named liquid. Fifteen dollar open bar for 2 hours, 11 to 1 am. I had expected to be drinking Heinekens and good stuff but that ended up not being part of the open bar so once again I was drinking cheap crap. I tried jack and coke but for the most part a lot of shots of hard liquor. Everyone is having a good time, people keep asking me if Hyde is out yet(MY pledge name is Jekyll and Hyde, mainly because I look like a goodie when I am sober but get a little more interesting when I am drunk). So that was nice and I was enjoying myself making some small talk with friends but still nothing.
This is when the moment of truth happens, the open bar is about over, almost 1 and I get a some more drinks. I am pretty schmacked at this point. Still in control but I was feeling it quite well. I head up to the dance floor just chilling trying to see if there are any girls who are fair game(all my brothers brought their dates so I was treading carefully). I see this girl in a red dress, she has 3 friends with her. Two of them are HUMONGOUS women and if either of them sat on me, it would probably kill me. The third is not half bad. Now it gets fuzzy now but one way or another the third not bad girl starts grinding on me, we are talking then we go out on the balcony so she can smoke. She shotguns me the smoke and it is pretty obvious where this is heading.
I think I suggest we get out of there and we then head to a taxi. Get in a taxi, back to campus, straight into her room. We then get to business and do all sorts of shit. Now I am going to get into some details now... While we were fucking I kept slipping out when I was on top, god I could barely feel anything I was pretty god damn numb from the booze. So we change positions and do some other stuff, in retrospect I think I was way to rough, I believe this because she kept saying ow be gentle :/
Anyway I am also talking to her while we screw, using that stuff from that blog post on 9 ways to be a sexual man. I was being quite blunt though but anyway I am telling her how I do not judge, how I like women who take what they want. How I think the double standards are BS, I was really trying to to really put that stuff out there and even saying I like being single. At one point while shes riding me, I notice that she is not looking into my eyes while shes doing her thing. I inquire into this and I get her to tell me that she has been hurt in the past and all those details.We get into how many partners she had, turns out she is at 16. MY old self would have been like holy fuck I am going to get aids but at that moment I was just like... cool. She keeps on asking me about my number of people, I keep dodging and asking her but eventually I tell her 0. Another thing is I could not cum at all, finally managed to but was an endeavor.
This is when things go awry. We start trying to fall asleep, at some point I say something and then she says she wants to go brush her teeth or some crap. She gets her robe on and leaves the room. I then hear her talking with friends, possibly a guy IDK. I hear her complaining about how she keeps getting virgins... she is also telling him or her about all the stuff we did. I start getting my clothes on to leave, it was not that my feelings were hurt but more along the lines of I do not have to stand for this. I am fully dressed, she comes back in and says I can either stay in bed or something else. All I say is good night and walk out, about half way down the stairs though I realize my tie is missing. I walk back up, she is walking down the hall, sees me and immediately darts into her friends room I dont even flinch, head to her room, find my tie and then walk back to my dorm.
I looked like fucking hell when I woke up, I mean geez. Anyway I have been thinking about it since I woke up, deep thought and I then tried looking for her on FB. I managed to find her profile through the mutual friends thing and she is cute. What should I say?
I was thinking along the lines of, Hey, thanks for showing me a good time last night. I hope I can return the favor some day. My number is ########## give me a call some time - CollegeFreshman
Please excuse this monster post and the sooner a reply the better, I really want advice on what to say through FB. I would like to keep this thing going.
It was Saturday, initiation day for the Binghamton chapter of Kappa Sigma. I helped found this chapter and the entire day we were getting put through the process. There was then a banquet, everyone had dates. I had to have a fellow pledge brother hook me up with a date because you know I have only just started going about things in a smart way with women. I could not get a date and the one he set me up with was not easy on the eyes at all. My god, I could not wait for the after party. I tried some deep diving and what not but just how unattractive she is just stopped me from talking to her about a quarter of a way through the banquet.
Anyway, we finally get to the after party at a club named liquid. Fifteen dollar open bar for 2 hours, 11 to 1 am. I had expected to be drinking Heinekens and good stuff but that ended up not being part of the open bar so once again I was drinking cheap crap. I tried jack and coke but for the most part a lot of shots of hard liquor. Everyone is having a good time, people keep asking me if Hyde is out yet(MY pledge name is Jekyll and Hyde, mainly because I look like a goodie when I am sober but get a little more interesting when I am drunk). So that was nice and I was enjoying myself making some small talk with friends but still nothing.
This is when the moment of truth happens, the open bar is about over, almost 1 and I get a some more drinks. I am pretty schmacked at this point. Still in control but I was feeling it quite well. I head up to the dance floor just chilling trying to see if there are any girls who are fair game(all my brothers brought their dates so I was treading carefully). I see this girl in a red dress, she has 3 friends with her. Two of them are HUMONGOUS women and if either of them sat on me, it would probably kill me. The third is not half bad. Now it gets fuzzy now but one way or another the third not bad girl starts grinding on me, we are talking then we go out on the balcony so she can smoke. She shotguns me the smoke and it is pretty obvious where this is heading.
I think I suggest we get out of there and we then head to a taxi. Get in a taxi, back to campus, straight into her room. We then get to business and do all sorts of shit. Now I am going to get into some details now... While we were fucking I kept slipping out when I was on top, god I could barely feel anything I was pretty god damn numb from the booze. So we change positions and do some other stuff, in retrospect I think I was way to rough, I believe this because she kept saying ow be gentle :/
Anyway I am also talking to her while we screw, using that stuff from that blog post on 9 ways to be a sexual man. I was being quite blunt though but anyway I am telling her how I do not judge, how I like women who take what they want. How I think the double standards are BS, I was really trying to to really put that stuff out there and even saying I like being single. At one point while shes riding me, I notice that she is not looking into my eyes while shes doing her thing. I inquire into this and I get her to tell me that she has been hurt in the past and all those details.We get into how many partners she had, turns out she is at 16. MY old self would have been like holy fuck I am going to get aids but at that moment I was just like... cool. She keeps on asking me about my number of people, I keep dodging and asking her but eventually I tell her 0. Another thing is I could not cum at all, finally managed to but was an endeavor.
This is when things go awry. We start trying to fall asleep, at some point I say something and then she says she wants to go brush her teeth or some crap. She gets her robe on and leaves the room. I then hear her talking with friends, possibly a guy IDK. I hear her complaining about how she keeps getting virgins... she is also telling him or her about all the stuff we did. I start getting my clothes on to leave, it was not that my feelings were hurt but more along the lines of I do not have to stand for this. I am fully dressed, she comes back in and says I can either stay in bed or something else. All I say is good night and walk out, about half way down the stairs though I realize my tie is missing. I walk back up, she is walking down the hall, sees me and immediately darts into her friends room I dont even flinch, head to her room, find my tie and then walk back to my dorm.
I looked like fucking hell when I woke up, I mean geez. Anyway I have been thinking about it since I woke up, deep thought and I then tried looking for her on FB. I managed to find her profile through the mutual friends thing and she is cute. What should I say?
I was thinking along the lines of, Hey, thanks for showing me a good time last night. I hope I can return the favor some day. My number is ########## give me a call some time - CollegeFreshman
Please excuse this monster post and the sooner a reply the better, I really want advice on what to say through FB. I would like to keep this thing going.
