Hello, I need your opinion about this, guys.
I'll try to explain everything as accurate as possible.
Meeting. Met this girl through social circle around 3 weeks ago (Friend of ours organized a ~10-man party at his house), I could tell from the very beggining she was attracted to me, caught some signals of interest. Later during the party, when it was a little bit more quiet, she sat near me and we started a conversation. She loved it. Also, by then, she was very compliant and non-rebellious. Then, after around 5-6 days we had a first date. She came in a pretty skirt and a nice blouse. The date lasted somewhere around 3 to 4 hours, we had a great time, a lot of kino, both were horny, but logistics is a tough problem for me right now. Nothing happened that night.
Gathering.Two days from a date a friend of ours decided to gather all of us (around 6-7 people) to go for a walk in the downtown, my girl was late. I was against it from the very beggining (for the sake of attraction expiration date, boyfriend expectations and escalation windows), but my friend insisted, and I thought "Well, you someday will have exactly the same situation, so why not give it a try". My girl said she'd accompany us later. Before she arrived, we all had good fun. But after she arrived, my mood f*cked up (as she was flirting with another guy and dedicated him the most of his time). I thought all this were her stupid games and mixed signals, so I ignored `em, though my mood was already f*cked up. From that point I decided to never attend to such a meetings with a girl you want to seduce, as this drastically fucks up your chances and loses you time. You just can't run your game in front of all of your social circle.
I was very close to auto-reject that evening, but suddenly she started to bombard me on social networking site, so that fixed the issue a bit. She then suggested we'd meet up for a walk in the park.
2nd date. Well, everything I can say is that from that point it became my most complicated seduction. Starting from the 2nd date, she became very rebellious, resistant and MEAN (which means horny) to me. I'd tease and touch her very impudently, she resisted a lot, but I could definitely tell she loved it (though doesn't admit it). I was pretty cocky and prideful, she said she hated my guts for it, and that it would madden her, but nonverbally she loved it as hell. She also teased me hard back, sometimes even touching something personal, to which I responded I'd not tolerate it. By the end of the date (it was near her house) I tried to manhandle kiss her, she refused. I asked if she was afraid of me (with a playful tone), and she playfully responded to me something like "yeah, you're a very dangerous guy". I then tried to pull her in, but she still backed off. I then said "bye-bye" to her and left the scene. I was pretty sad at this point, because I've got my fundamentals handled and had never ever met so much resistance from a girl.
Yet again, she started to message me some shit on the social network site. I asked her what her plans were for tomorrow, she said she was free. I proposed to meet up at my place, she agreed to it.
What I see from here is that she never puts any resistance to the meet up, BUT puts up a high wall on the actual date. Don't know what does this mean.
@ my place
I met her up at the subway station, and we went back to my place on feet. I can say the next 2 hours at my place were the most emotionally draining hours in my life. I'VE NEVER MET SO MUCH RESISTANCE BEFORE.
I tried to manhandle kiss her, she rejected every single attempt. After around 2-3 tries, I decided to verbally persuade her into it. She was very horny, and just never stopped to say something like "I want to go out for a walk, lets go"
It took me around 1 hour, after which she finally gave up and we had some passionate kissing. But sadly, nothing else would happen. SHE LITERALLY RESTRAINED HER FROM DOING ANYTHING ELSE. Even though she was VERY horny (dillated pupils, red cheeks, pretty sweaty.)
What I see here is that she wants me to become her boyfriend. I'd say about my rule that I would not engage in a long-term relationship prior to intimacy, but that didn't help. If you need any more details - I'm happy to offer them.
I need your help, guys. She is a nice girl, a nice challenge I've never had before, and the situation itself has lots of things to think about. My goal is to bed her and then make her my girlfriend. I won't give up on my rule just because of this girl.
P.S. I'm sorry for my writing style, I know I suck at writing, and I'm sorry even more for a lot of text. Any feedback would be appreciated.
I'll try to explain everything as accurate as possible.
Meeting. Met this girl through social circle around 3 weeks ago (Friend of ours organized a ~10-man party at his house), I could tell from the very beggining she was attracted to me, caught some signals of interest. Later during the party, when it was a little bit more quiet, she sat near me and we started a conversation. She loved it. Also, by then, she was very compliant and non-rebellious. Then, after around 5-6 days we had a first date. She came in a pretty skirt and a nice blouse. The date lasted somewhere around 3 to 4 hours, we had a great time, a lot of kino, both were horny, but logistics is a tough problem for me right now. Nothing happened that night.
Gathering.Two days from a date a friend of ours decided to gather all of us (around 6-7 people) to go for a walk in the downtown, my girl was late. I was against it from the very beggining (for the sake of attraction expiration date, boyfriend expectations and escalation windows), but my friend insisted, and I thought "Well, you someday will have exactly the same situation, so why not give it a try". My girl said she'd accompany us later. Before she arrived, we all had good fun. But after she arrived, my mood f*cked up (as she was flirting with another guy and dedicated him the most of his time). I thought all this were her stupid games and mixed signals, so I ignored `em, though my mood was already f*cked up. From that point I decided to never attend to such a meetings with a girl you want to seduce, as this drastically fucks up your chances and loses you time. You just can't run your game in front of all of your social circle.
I was very close to auto-reject that evening, but suddenly she started to bombard me on social networking site, so that fixed the issue a bit. She then suggested we'd meet up for a walk in the park.
2nd date. Well, everything I can say is that from that point it became my most complicated seduction. Starting from the 2nd date, she became very rebellious, resistant and MEAN (which means horny) to me. I'd tease and touch her very impudently, she resisted a lot, but I could definitely tell she loved it (though doesn't admit it). I was pretty cocky and prideful, she said she hated my guts for it, and that it would madden her, but nonverbally she loved it as hell. She also teased me hard back, sometimes even touching something personal, to which I responded I'd not tolerate it. By the end of the date (it was near her house) I tried to manhandle kiss her, she refused. I asked if she was afraid of me (with a playful tone), and she playfully responded to me something like "yeah, you're a very dangerous guy". I then tried to pull her in, but she still backed off. I then said "bye-bye" to her and left the scene. I was pretty sad at this point, because I've got my fundamentals handled and had never ever met so much resistance from a girl.
Yet again, she started to message me some shit on the social network site. I asked her what her plans were for tomorrow, she said she was free. I proposed to meet up at my place, she agreed to it.
What I see from here is that she never puts any resistance to the meet up, BUT puts up a high wall on the actual date. Don't know what does this mean.
@ my place
I met her up at the subway station, and we went back to my place on feet. I can say the next 2 hours at my place were the most emotionally draining hours in my life. I'VE NEVER MET SO MUCH RESISTANCE BEFORE.
I tried to manhandle kiss her, she rejected every single attempt. After around 2-3 tries, I decided to verbally persuade her into it. She was very horny, and just never stopped to say something like "I want to go out for a walk, lets go"
It took me around 1 hour, after which she finally gave up and we had some passionate kissing. But sadly, nothing else would happen. SHE LITERALLY RESTRAINED HER FROM DOING ANYTHING ELSE. Even though she was VERY horny (dillated pupils, red cheeks, pretty sweaty.)
What I see here is that she wants me to become her boyfriend. I'd say about my rule that I would not engage in a long-term relationship prior to intimacy, but that didn't help. If you need any more details - I'm happy to offer them.
I need your help, guys. She is a nice girl, a nice challenge I've never had before, and the situation itself has lots of things to think about. My goal is to bed her and then make her my girlfriend. I won't give up on my rule just because of this girl.
P.S. I'm sorry for my writing style, I know I suck at writing, and I'm sorry even more for a lot of text. Any feedback would be appreciated.
