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I met this girl for drinks. I picked her up from her apartment. Before I got there, she said that she'll have to go home at 11:30. It was 9:00 when I picked her up. I feel like this was another cluster B women. Mainly because she also has a very fucked up life. I found out she:
- Used to date a guy who's in a gang
- Was kidnapped by her dad
- Her mom or stepmom (not sure which) just turned transgender after knowing her for only 15 years
- She doesn't talk to her dad.
- Has 5 siblings
- Parties with her mom all the time (they apparently go to raves, concerts, parties...everything. Together)
- She moved to the city we're in to follow said ex boyfriend who's in a gang. Then he dumped her.
Other than that, once we got to the bars, I got us a few white Russians and we just hung out. I asked her about what she wanted to do. She said she really wants to do something with art. She has four tattoos all of which she drew. Also, she really liked animals. I suggested that she work with them. She said she didn't want to be a vet or anything like that because she can't stand the idea of having to euthanize an animal. She showed me pictures of her kittens, of her travels. She told me about her family, her friends and so on. At first, she was cautious about getting more than two drinks. I asked her if she wanted to get another and she said no. This signaled that she probably doesn't want to get drunk with me (at least not yet). But after 20 more mins, she decided to get another drink on her own. To me, this means she considers me safe and probably already wants to fuck me. Otherwise she would not allow herself to become intoxicated when I'm the only person with her.
Throughout the interaction, I've also been doing a lot of physical escalation:
- touching her thighs
-Tickling her
- Putting my arm around her
- Kissing her (lightly and not for very long)
- Cuddling with her
Escalations become progressively more intimate as we had more drinks (e.g. I didn't touch her thighs, kiss or cuddle her till we were already drunk). DISCLAIMER: Trying to get girls drunk as a strategy to have sex with them is unethical and ineffective. Also even in the few cases that it does work, it doesn't really develop your game and character, and could lead to serious consequences like FRAs. Generally speaking, I don't recommend it. But given that it was clear to me that this girl wanted to get drunk and have sex when she was still sober, I considered it ok.
I also found out that the reason she had to leave at 11:30 was because a friend of hers was coming from 2 hours away to visit her. But by then, we were already pretty drunk. So she just texted him that she's not home yet and he should just wait for her. We hang out for a little while longer. I suggested she just crash at my place. She said she can't because they (her friends that came to visit) are at her place. She also texted them asking if they can come pick her up. They said yes and asked her when. She kept saying "i don't know". They kept pressuring her for an answer.
I knew that I had to pull otherwise she would give in to the pressure. So I asked her if she wants to come hang out at my place before they pick her up. She said she's down. Then she asked me at what time they should pick her up. I said to tell them 1:30 just to be safe (it is now 11:45). She says she'd feel bad making them wait that long cause they've already been at her place since 11:00. She says she'll tell them 12:30. I said ok.
So as the situation stands right now, I have 45 minutes to take her home and have sex with her. I grab her by the hand, close my tab and start walking towards my car. To be honest, I was pretty drunk and I just had another drink. So driving wasn't super safe. I would've normally called an uber, but since I have such a small time constraint, I figured I"d wing it. Especially since it was a short drive and I had done it equally drunk many times before.
I get us back to my place. There was no need for pleasantries or tours or anything like that. We were both pretty drunk and the reason we're here was clear. So I just lead her to my room and escalated to sex within five minutes. No resistance.
After we were finished, she asked me:
Her: Do you have sex with strangers often?
Me: Every once in a while, yeah.
Her: [laughs] it's ok!
Me: What about you?
Her: Yeah...I've been having a rough few months. I need it.
After this exchange, her friends called her. Apparently they were outside. At this point, she was REALLY drunk. I think that last drink before we left hit her really hard. I help her get dressed and help her down the stairs into her friends car. She leaves. I was actually kinda worried that she might look like I drugged her. But her friends were just laughing and giving her shit the whole time. So this is probably not the first time she's done this lol.
Epilogue:
The next day, my roommate comes knocks on my door:
Him: How was last night?
Me: Good
Him: Did you have a girl over?
Me: yeah, how'd you know?
Him: Samantha texted me and told me they saw you naked with a girl through your window (Samantha is our next door neighbor. She's part of my extended social circle).
Him: I just told her you're a savage.
So to be clear...I WAS BEING WATCHED THROUGH MY WINDOW WHILE I HAD SEX WITH A GIRL LOL. I have blinds on my windows. So that means they were intentionally peeping through them (to be fair, that's something they do a lot when they're drunk and they were probably just coming home from downtown lol).
This is actually very helpful for me. Gives me a much needed status boost with that particular social circle.
Final Thoughts: I run into an unusually large number of damaged, broken or psychotic women via Tinder. I would label 70% of the girls I meet as "crazy" and therefore uneatable. I can't tell if Tinder as a whole attracts this type of women, or if its my profile which attracts them.
- Used to date a guy who's in a gang
- Was kidnapped by her dad
- Her mom or stepmom (not sure which) just turned transgender after knowing her for only 15 years
- She doesn't talk to her dad.
- Has 5 siblings
- Parties with her mom all the time (they apparently go to raves, concerts, parties...everything. Together)
- She moved to the city we're in to follow said ex boyfriend who's in a gang. Then he dumped her.
Other than that, once we got to the bars, I got us a few white Russians and we just hung out. I asked her about what she wanted to do. She said she really wants to do something with art. She has four tattoos all of which she drew. Also, she really liked animals. I suggested that she work with them. She said she didn't want to be a vet or anything like that because she can't stand the idea of having to euthanize an animal. She showed me pictures of her kittens, of her travels. She told me about her family, her friends and so on. At first, she was cautious about getting more than two drinks. I asked her if she wanted to get another and she said no. This signaled that she probably doesn't want to get drunk with me (at least not yet). But after 20 more mins, she decided to get another drink on her own. To me, this means she considers me safe and probably already wants to fuck me. Otherwise she would not allow herself to become intoxicated when I'm the only person with her.
Throughout the interaction, I've also been doing a lot of physical escalation:
- touching her thighs
-Tickling her
- Putting my arm around her
- Kissing her (lightly and not for very long)
- Cuddling with her
Escalations become progressively more intimate as we had more drinks (e.g. I didn't touch her thighs, kiss or cuddle her till we were already drunk). DISCLAIMER: Trying to get girls drunk as a strategy to have sex with them is unethical and ineffective. Also even in the few cases that it does work, it doesn't really develop your game and character, and could lead to serious consequences like FRAs. Generally speaking, I don't recommend it. But given that it was clear to me that this girl wanted to get drunk and have sex when she was still sober, I considered it ok.
I also found out that the reason she had to leave at 11:30 was because a friend of hers was coming from 2 hours away to visit her. But by then, we were already pretty drunk. So she just texted him that she's not home yet and he should just wait for her. We hang out for a little while longer. I suggested she just crash at my place. She said she can't because they (her friends that came to visit) are at her place. She also texted them asking if they can come pick her up. They said yes and asked her when. She kept saying "i don't know". They kept pressuring her for an answer.
I knew that I had to pull otherwise she would give in to the pressure. So I asked her if she wants to come hang out at my place before they pick her up. She said she's down. Then she asked me at what time they should pick her up. I said to tell them 1:30 just to be safe (it is now 11:45). She says she'd feel bad making them wait that long cause they've already been at her place since 11:00. She says she'll tell them 12:30. I said ok.
So as the situation stands right now, I have 45 minutes to take her home and have sex with her. I grab her by the hand, close my tab and start walking towards my car. To be honest, I was pretty drunk and I just had another drink. So driving wasn't super safe. I would've normally called an uber, but since I have such a small time constraint, I figured I"d wing it. Especially since it was a short drive and I had done it equally drunk many times before.
I get us back to my place. There was no need for pleasantries or tours or anything like that. We were both pretty drunk and the reason we're here was clear. So I just lead her to my room and escalated to sex within five minutes. No resistance.
After we were finished, she asked me:
Her: Do you have sex with strangers often?
Me: Every once in a while, yeah.
Her: [laughs] it's ok!
Me: What about you?
Her: Yeah...I've been having a rough few months. I need it.
After this exchange, her friends called her. Apparently they were outside. At this point, she was REALLY drunk. I think that last drink before we left hit her really hard. I help her get dressed and help her down the stairs into her friends car. She leaves. I was actually kinda worried that she might look like I drugged her. But her friends were just laughing and giving her shit the whole time. So this is probably not the first time she's done this lol.
Epilogue:
The next day, my roommate comes knocks on my door:
Him: How was last night?
Me: Good
Him: Did you have a girl over?
Me: yeah, how'd you know?
Him: Samantha texted me and told me they saw you naked with a girl through your window (Samantha is our next door neighbor. She's part of my extended social circle).
Him: I just told her you're a savage.
So to be clear...I WAS BEING WATCHED THROUGH MY WINDOW WHILE I HAD SEX WITH A GIRL LOL. I have blinds on my windows. So that means they were intentionally peeping through them (to be fair, that's something they do a lot when they're drunk and they were probably just coming home from downtown lol).
This is actually very helpful for me. Gives me a much needed status boost with that particular social circle.
Final Thoughts: I run into an unusually large number of damaged, broken or psychotic women via Tinder. I would label 70% of the girls I meet as "crazy" and therefore uneatable. I can't tell if Tinder as a whole attracts this type of women, or if its my profile which attracts them.
