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Wednesday
Hard to remember all of this stuff but I'll try my best. Need to work on my infield memory.
Daygame:
Grocery store. Don't see anything so I grab breakfast and checkout. Chat the checkout dude, good short convo. As I'm heading out I see one and I'm like, "goddamnit" because I have to approach. Walk briskly down the aisle to catch up. She pulls out her phone. In my head I'm like "GODDAMNIT" because I'm still gonna' approach. Nice ass, can't see her face. Touch her shoulder, deliver direct opener. She says "thanks" in a whisper and walks off. Oh well, warm up, and I have no experience with on the phone girls.
Train game. It's crowded, sit down with four other people. Dude next to me, dude facing me, cute girl catty-corner to me. Pussy foot a bit, then open. BirthdayGirl likes the opener, hooks, convo for a bit. Don't grab her number because I'm a pussy bitch (Yes I'm shaming myself). Walk, see nothing. Go run errands, walk back to the train. Text the girl from Monday. Never responded, flake, must've been lack of comfort/speed. See one, it's dark now. Approach, it's not solid, but she keeps walking and is making eye contact. ASk if I live where she does, I say no and intro myself. We're about 5ft away from each other now, I walk to shake hands. Eject cause I'm a pussy. LIFE IS OVER WAAA!
Back to the train, see a girl. Open her in-direct, still needs a lot of work, not smooth at all. Food in my mouth so I have to cover it and it's sloppy. She says she's going to a hockey game with her boyfriend. She's one of those girls who calibrates to the approach and tells me where she's going in a non-chalant non-attracted way. Tell her the best way to get there, she ignores and says she's getting on a different train. Okay, your loss haha. Don't talk to her, head home to change and what not.
Nightgame:
Pump myself because my night game is weak. Call the uber, grab half a flask of tequila (not even enough to get me anywhere) and an energy drink. Chat the uber guy, he's actually dope. Get to the place, chat people in line. Get in and immediately I'm intimidated. Do a 30 second countdown in my head. Get to "1" and open a girl with "hi". Doesn't stick, I walk off to get an eye for the place. Think I see the people from in line, a girl and a guy and talk for a bit. See some people from another club that think they know me. I say "yeah!" and hug him whatnot. See them soon after and dude that saw me intros me to his other dude. Other dude looks confused, says he doesn't know me. Yeah, that's over haha. Vibe myself up for a bit, trying to get loose. Walk to the other side of the venue, other side of the large dance crowd. Think here I do an approach and say "who are you" girl says "no thank you" haha...what? Decide to head outside, already getting rattled by night game instead of using my process: Get there, have fun, open, because I have no idea what I'm doing when it comes to night game. Get outside, start smoking. Girl walks by with her GF, she trips and I open with "you okay?" smiling. She says "yeah", bitch shield block. I shrug and continue smoking. Her GF re-opens me, hooks hard for NO REASON WHATSOEVER. Okay? Start talking. Think I fucked up by using too much breaking rapport tonality. They weren't that cute=me not caring enough=attainability too low. Decide to grab their numbers and then head back in. Mistake #2, should've grabbed numbers, and kept chatting to solidify them. Girl was asking me where I live, told me where she lives, it seemed like a solid pull later. It was still early, like 10:30-11:00. Oh well.
Head back in, Same shit. Try and open this girl dancing next to me with a booty bump and high five. She stares forward, hard ignore. Haha NEXT.
Open a few, getting really frustrated at this point. Walk and see a buddy of mine from when I went to college, say what's up.
A few more approaches, can't remember much but none hooked inside. Went back to the other side and approached, "hi, who are you" opened decent but after I stopped talking she moved. The fuck! Dancing, walk back outside, chat a dude, hand him a cig. Eventually he gets in a conversation and I don't know how to jump in. Walk back inside, he says thanks.
More dancing, don't see anything. Walk to the bathroom, see one and don't approach because I'm a bitch and don't respect the process. Walk out the bathroom and see one, approach because I respect the process. Grab her lightly, say "hey, two seconds" She gives me the "what the fuck?!" face and I let go. Definitely the hardest approach of the night, felt myself get hot in the face after that one. Decide I'm just gonna' dance now and see if my vibe attracts anything.
Dancing, these others are dancing but not dancing with me. Find this odd, ususally when I dance some people hi five me or dance with me or something, guys or girls. Nope, not happening. It's like they can feel I've failed and distance themselves. Show ends, call it a night but with one more approach. Walk home, forget it's Wednesdasy night and no one's gonna be out haha. See two, decide I'm approaching, looks like they have a serious conversation, push anyway, high five, they give me an awkward looks, wish them a good night.
Super hard night, get home, knowing I need to just follow the process here because I'm not gonna' see results anytime soon with this game. Daygame is 1000000x easier. Just need to: Show up, have fun, open. And that's it. I'll figure out the rest somehow, reading articles doesn't help me with night game for some reason. I just don't get it and I'll have to plow through.
Lessons:
-Process.
-Burn it to the ground.
-Calibrate, somehow haha.
-Have more fun I guess? Thought I was but no one else did haha.
Questions:
-How should I have better handled that two set? Definitely the best set of the night, they opened me. Just didn't know how to handle it.
-Is there a trick to opening I'm missing? It was really hit or miss. Sometimes "hi, who are you" would open okay, others it would blow me out.
Positives:
-Keep getting that night game. build a tolerance
-Daygame is fun. haha
-This has no reflection on my true self. I'm still a boss.
-You all rock
Jake.
Hard to remember all of this stuff but I'll try my best. Need to work on my infield memory.
Daygame:
Grocery store. Don't see anything so I grab breakfast and checkout. Chat the checkout dude, good short convo. As I'm heading out I see one and I'm like, "goddamnit" because I have to approach. Walk briskly down the aisle to catch up. She pulls out her phone. In my head I'm like "GODDAMNIT" because I'm still gonna' approach. Nice ass, can't see her face. Touch her shoulder, deliver direct opener. She says "thanks" in a whisper and walks off. Oh well, warm up, and I have no experience with on the phone girls.
Train game. It's crowded, sit down with four other people. Dude next to me, dude facing me, cute girl catty-corner to me. Pussy foot a bit, then open. BirthdayGirl likes the opener, hooks, convo for a bit. Don't grab her number because I'm a pussy bitch (Yes I'm shaming myself). Walk, see nothing. Go run errands, walk back to the train. Text the girl from Monday. Never responded, flake, must've been lack of comfort/speed. See one, it's dark now. Approach, it's not solid, but she keeps walking and is making eye contact. ASk if I live where she does, I say no and intro myself. We're about 5ft away from each other now, I walk to shake hands. Eject cause I'm a pussy. LIFE IS OVER WAAA!
Back to the train, see a girl. Open her in-direct, still needs a lot of work, not smooth at all. Food in my mouth so I have to cover it and it's sloppy. She says she's going to a hockey game with her boyfriend. She's one of those girls who calibrates to the approach and tells me where she's going in a non-chalant non-attracted way. Tell her the best way to get there, she ignores and says she's getting on a different train. Okay, your loss haha. Don't talk to her, head home to change and what not.Nightgame:
Pump myself because my night game is weak. Call the uber, grab half a flask of tequila (not even enough to get me anywhere) and an energy drink. Chat the uber guy, he's actually dope. Get to the place, chat people in line. Get in and immediately I'm intimidated. Do a 30 second countdown in my head. Get to "1" and open a girl with "hi". Doesn't stick, I walk off to get an eye for the place. Think I see the people from in line, a girl and a guy and talk for a bit. See some people from another club that think they know me. I say "yeah!" and hug him whatnot. See them soon after and dude that saw me intros me to his other dude. Other dude looks confused, says he doesn't know me. Yeah, that's over haha. Vibe myself up for a bit, trying to get loose. Walk to the other side of the venue, other side of the large dance crowd. Think here I do an approach and say "who are you" girl says "no thank you" haha...what? Decide to head outside, already getting rattled by night game instead of using my process: Get there, have fun, open, because I have no idea what I'm doing when it comes to night game. Get outside, start smoking. Girl walks by with her GF, she trips and I open with "you okay?" smiling. She says "yeah", bitch shield block. I shrug and continue smoking. Her GF re-opens me, hooks hard for NO REASON WHATSOEVER. Okay? Start talking. Think I fucked up by using too much breaking rapport tonality. They weren't that cute=me not caring enough=attainability too low. Decide to grab their numbers and then head back in. Mistake #2, should've grabbed numbers, and kept chatting to solidify them. Girl was asking me where I live, told me where she lives, it seemed like a solid pull later. It was still early, like 10:30-11:00. Oh well.
Head back in, Same shit. Try and open this girl dancing next to me with a booty bump and high five. She stares forward, hard ignore. Haha NEXT.
Open a few, getting really frustrated at this point. Walk and see a buddy of mine from when I went to college, say what's up.
A few more approaches, can't remember much but none hooked inside. Went back to the other side and approached, "hi, who are you" opened decent but after I stopped talking she moved. The fuck! Dancing, walk back outside, chat a dude, hand him a cig. Eventually he gets in a conversation and I don't know how to jump in. Walk back inside, he says thanks.
More dancing, don't see anything. Walk to the bathroom, see one and don't approach because I'm a bitch and don't respect the process. Walk out the bathroom and see one, approach because I respect the process. Grab her lightly, say "hey, two seconds" She gives me the "what the fuck?!" face and I let go. Definitely the hardest approach of the night, felt myself get hot in the face after that one. Decide I'm just gonna' dance now and see if my vibe attracts anything.
Dancing, these others are dancing but not dancing with me. Find this odd, ususally when I dance some people hi five me or dance with me or something, guys or girls. Nope, not happening. It's like they can feel I've failed and distance themselves. Show ends, call it a night but with one more approach. Walk home, forget it's Wednesdasy night and no one's gonna be out haha. See two, decide I'm approaching, looks like they have a serious conversation, push anyway, high five, they give me an awkward looks, wish them a good night.
Super hard night, get home, knowing I need to just follow the process here because I'm not gonna' see results anytime soon with this game. Daygame is 1000000x easier. Just need to: Show up, have fun, open. And that's it. I'll figure out the rest somehow, reading articles doesn't help me with night game for some reason. I just don't get it and I'll have to plow through.
Lessons:
-Process.
-Burn it to the ground.
-Calibrate, somehow haha.
-Have more fun I guess? Thought I was but no one else did haha.
Questions:
-How should I have better handled that two set? Definitely the best set of the night, they opened me. Just didn't know how to handle it.
-Is there a trick to opening I'm missing? It was really hit or miss. Sometimes "hi, who are you" would open okay, others it would blow me out.
Positives:
-Keep getting that night game. build a tolerance
-Daygame is fun. haha
-This has no reflection on my true self. I'm still a boss.
-You all rock
Jake.
