I approached one girl while going out tonight. I had fun I guess...I drank a little bit at one club that played hip hop music. Then I hoped to the next club that was way better. The music was better and people seemed happier. I talked to this one girl for a little bit. She seemed very receptive but probably cuz she was drunk (she told me she needed water to dehydrate). She gave me an pound on the fist and I pounded her back. I had trouble maintaining eye contact and thinking of what to say. We had talked about how she was from the area. I made a joke which she laughed at. I was nervous the entire time. She got her water then said it was nice to meet me. After that I danced a little bit and went club hopping then went home. How can I have more fun going out? How do I turn approaching and socializing in clubs a fun experience instead of dreadful chore? I get initiated by the club environment. Ive picked up a girl before years ago in a club but I can't tell if this is because of age or Im forcing myself in an environment I don't feel comfortable in. I feel like if I had friends I could trust, it could be different. I also feel like I just hold back out of fear and I just can't let go of the fear.
FYI I go out by myself (cuz I have no one else to go out with) and its the main venue I use to meet women.
FYI I go out by myself (cuz I have no one else to go out with) and its the main venue I use to meet women.
