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Summer is almost here, and so is nightlife.
I went to a rap concert with my friends. The vibe there was great, I met some cool people and got introduced to important names in our local music scene. It felt great, my vibe was good. I do not game at such events, because I do music myself and rather enjoy such events and get into a networking mode. Not risking bad reputation.
After the concert we went to this alternative venue consisting of multiple bars and clubs, that are closed now due to covid, but people still hang out in front of these clubs and make their own parties.
It's around midnight.
I met some people there and lost my friends. Then I went searching for my friend, as I was doing so I felt her eyes on me. I looked back at her, saw her inviting look, thought to myself ok... this one is probably interested, but too many friends around her, then turned my gaze away, looking for my friends, BUT STILL FELT HER GAZE, looked again and she was still checking me out. I finally found my friends but as soon as I joined them, I said to myself loud, that was a strong invitation, sory but I have to go there.
I am wearing white t shirt, black skinny jeans and black chelsea boots with a low heel. I'm of short statue, but lean built. Hair medium length, facial hair stuble with mustache.
She has a beautiful, innocent looking face, anime eyes. Hair shoulder length dyed in vivid colours, pink and blue highlights. She is skinny and short, dressed in black jeans, plaid shirt. She is surrounded with 5 people, mostly dudes if I remember correctly.
I walk past her group as if I'm still searching for my friends. Again she's checking me out so I look at her, then just casualy walk to her.
DG: do we know each other? you look familiar...
HB: hmmm... I don't think so (smiling)
DG: hmmm... trying to think where did I see you before...
HB: anyways, what are you doing here
DG: I was searching for my friends, but then saw you... you seem interesting. remind me of my friend, a contemporary dancer
This is how it started. Immediatly my focus was 100% on her and hers on me. Laser sharp eye contact. Her friends seemed to just disappear. I didn't say a word with them and she did not turn away from me. I asked her 5min in if i could have a sip of her beer (bars were closed, and we ran out of alcohol). She gave me hers and opened herself another one. I thanked her and asked her if I could sit beside her. She made me some space and I was in.
We introduce, she compliments my name (I have an exotic name) then what do I do and starts qualifying me on that. All signs of compliance on her part. I remembered I better start touching her, so I checked out her tattoos. She reciprocated touch. I rolled her a cigarette, then escalated more. It started casually, then some incidental touch, before I know it I'm holding her palms in my palms.
By this point her friends just seemed to go their way, home mostly and there were just the two of us left in our bubble. A nice feeling. We were talking about music mostly as I do music. She qualified herself that she plays the flute, then leaned in my chest, held my hands in a way to show me how you hold a flute. I know how you hold a flute, but I pretended not to. We were talking some more, I was starting to look her with bedroom eyes and started feeling butterflies in my stomach.
She asked me why am I looking at her like that, I just said, I don't know, I think you're cute. She returned the compliment. After a while I interrupted her while talking, sorry, I wasn't listening. Can't focus, because all I am thinking right now how would it be kissing you. She said maybe later.
Escalated more from there and then she was trying to kiss me. I playfully evaded her attempts, didn't want to cause any over protective friends around to see that.
She asked me, why am I evading her. I said I don't want to fuck it up with someone seeing us. Then suggested a walk. Asked her where her friend are, then suggested the other way. Again she said maybe later, there's no rush.
I remembered to defuse asd and seed the pull. Proposed we go to my place later, listen to some music. She told me she couldn't because of her cat, she needed to feed him. I told her we can go to her flat, she agreed. Then as she was laying in my arms, I started asking her if she is an open person and qualified her on that. Not judging people for doing their things, wearing different clothes, sleeping with who they find attractive, identifying as whatever they like. She agreed with all of it.
The night got colder, I got a bit cold, wearing just a t shirt. I apologized if I'm shaking a bit (she is still in my arms), because I'm cold. She offered me her red jacket. That was a very smart move, I didn't realize back then. And it looked good on me.
We talked some more, escalated, but didn't kiss then I again proposed we leave and she agreed. Let her just say goodbye to her friends. I said cool, I will wait here.
But then it took almost 10min, so I went searching for her. Wtf. She was talking to this dude, who was giving her some moral crap about some cheap piece of equipment she accidentally broke last time. I asked her, if we're leaving. She said yes but then the dude said he's leaving abroad tomorrow, so if she want's to talk she needs to talk now. I was getting annoyed, so was she. She looked at me and said, so that is that, I guess we'll see each other another time. Looking back I should have insisted of her going, she had enough of that dude anyway.
Instead I remembered I'm wearing her jacket, so she ain't going nowhere without it. I told her no, its cool, talk what you have to, and asked a dude for a beer. He gave me one, and I went back to my friends for the time she finishes. That took too long. I was away for 30min or something, thinking of an excuse to get her away. Then someone said its starting to rain, bingo.
I returned for her and said, we should go, it's going to rain. Of we went.
On our way to her place another wild card. Our mutual friend (more of an acquaintance) was moving to another place and needed some help with it. Had nowhere to sleeep. In the middle of the fucking night, it's 3am by now. Wtf again... I was annoyed... Gave him my number and told him, I will call him in the morning and we will come and help him. Of course I slept through that.
Then it started raining, but we didn't mind. Just told her I will take a shower at her place. Our conversation got more personal, she started to talk to me about her dreams, moving to a country side and living there in peace. I opened myself up about my troubles with anxiety and not so healthy way of dealing with it with alcohol.
I don't think that was such a good idea... It's a thin line when it gets from byronic to weak. But it didn't hurt by that point.
We get to her place, then immediately start to cuddle and kiss on a bed. I needed to get my self a glass of water. Doing so her cat starts to cuddle around my legs. Then she comes joins the cat, then starts giving me head. My god she is good and looks beautiful. Then she says she needs a cigarette. We get on the balcony and i start touching her.
Then she objects. She asks me If I'm ok with not having sex tonight. I ask why? She tells me she needs to know I'm not going to do anything if she says no. I'm like... ok.. Sounds like you had some bad experiences. Was the guy bad in bed, or was he an asshole? She says both. I assure her I'm not going to do anything she won't won't me to do. She talks about how people got sexually frustrated during lockdown and I agree. Asks me how did I handle it. I just had one weird ons experience, other than that I just said to myself, fuck it, I'm going to focus more on my work. So you had your hand basically she jokes. I'm not phased by that and just laugh it off. Asks me what I'm into. She says she likes to be dominant. I say I like anal.... but more than anything I like to dominate the girl myself, sorry. I like when I see that I've got her under my thumb. I like to tell girls what to do and watch the do it.
Then she starts giving me head again and I suggest we move back to bed. We're laying there, and then I say I just wan't to please her and leave her better then I found her. And I really mean it, she was really cool to me this evening. She says isn't that a bit pretentious, I ask why? Asks me don't I have my own needs, I say yeah sure, but I like you and I want to make you feel good.
Then we start kissing and she pushes me down, then pulls me back up. I pull my pants down and take the rest of her clothes of then, she puts my dick inside her. Bareback, not wise I know, but I just said fuck it. The sex was great.
After that we cuddle and I remember when I met her before lol. Before covid, we were dancing in this club and almost made out, but then her friends took her away from me. I had a beard back then. I think there's a fr of that on this forum. She remembers me and says why did I just leave then. We joke around that, then fall asleep.
In the morning I leave, leaving a note.
2 days later I found out its my close friend who tattooes her and she's a regular. Supposedly she talked good things about me.
A week later I fucked it up, as explained in this thread:
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/i-don’t-want-you-to-go-get-offended-when-i-don’t-want-to-have-sex-with-you-anymore.24541/#post-132481
Hope you enjoyed reading it... Any suggestions, observations are warmly welcomed!
I went to a rap concert with my friends. The vibe there was great, I met some cool people and got introduced to important names in our local music scene. It felt great, my vibe was good. I do not game at such events, because I do music myself and rather enjoy such events and get into a networking mode. Not risking bad reputation.
After the concert we went to this alternative venue consisting of multiple bars and clubs, that are closed now due to covid, but people still hang out in front of these clubs and make their own parties.
It's around midnight.
I met some people there and lost my friends. Then I went searching for my friend, as I was doing so I felt her eyes on me. I looked back at her, saw her inviting look, thought to myself ok... this one is probably interested, but too many friends around her, then turned my gaze away, looking for my friends, BUT STILL FELT HER GAZE, looked again and she was still checking me out. I finally found my friends but as soon as I joined them, I said to myself loud, that was a strong invitation, sory but I have to go there.
I am wearing white t shirt, black skinny jeans and black chelsea boots with a low heel. I'm of short statue, but lean built. Hair medium length, facial hair stuble with mustache.
She has a beautiful, innocent looking face, anime eyes. Hair shoulder length dyed in vivid colours, pink and blue highlights. She is skinny and short, dressed in black jeans, plaid shirt. She is surrounded with 5 people, mostly dudes if I remember correctly.
I walk past her group as if I'm still searching for my friends. Again she's checking me out so I look at her, then just casualy walk to her.
DG: do we know each other? you look familiar...
HB: hmmm... I don't think so (smiling)
DG: hmmm... trying to think where did I see you before...
HB: anyways, what are you doing here
DG: I was searching for my friends, but then saw you... you seem interesting. remind me of my friend, a contemporary dancer
This is how it started. Immediatly my focus was 100% on her and hers on me. Laser sharp eye contact. Her friends seemed to just disappear. I didn't say a word with them and she did not turn away from me. I asked her 5min in if i could have a sip of her beer (bars were closed, and we ran out of alcohol). She gave me hers and opened herself another one. I thanked her and asked her if I could sit beside her. She made me some space and I was in.
We introduce, she compliments my name (I have an exotic name) then what do I do and starts qualifying me on that. All signs of compliance on her part. I remembered I better start touching her, so I checked out her tattoos. She reciprocated touch. I rolled her a cigarette, then escalated more. It started casually, then some incidental touch, before I know it I'm holding her palms in my palms.
By this point her friends just seemed to go their way, home mostly and there were just the two of us left in our bubble. A nice feeling. We were talking about music mostly as I do music. She qualified herself that she plays the flute, then leaned in my chest, held my hands in a way to show me how you hold a flute. I know how you hold a flute, but I pretended not to. We were talking some more, I was starting to look her with bedroom eyes and started feeling butterflies in my stomach.
She asked me why am I looking at her like that, I just said, I don't know, I think you're cute. She returned the compliment. After a while I interrupted her while talking, sorry, I wasn't listening. Can't focus, because all I am thinking right now how would it be kissing you. She said maybe later.
Escalated more from there and then she was trying to kiss me. I playfully evaded her attempts, didn't want to cause any over protective friends around to see that.
She asked me, why am I evading her. I said I don't want to fuck it up with someone seeing us. Then suggested a walk. Asked her where her friend are, then suggested the other way. Again she said maybe later, there's no rush.
I remembered to defuse asd and seed the pull. Proposed we go to my place later, listen to some music. She told me she couldn't because of her cat, she needed to feed him. I told her we can go to her flat, she agreed. Then as she was laying in my arms, I started asking her if she is an open person and qualified her on that. Not judging people for doing their things, wearing different clothes, sleeping with who they find attractive, identifying as whatever they like. She agreed with all of it.
The night got colder, I got a bit cold, wearing just a t shirt. I apologized if I'm shaking a bit (she is still in my arms), because I'm cold. She offered me her red jacket. That was a very smart move, I didn't realize back then. And it looked good on me.
We talked some more, escalated, but didn't kiss then I again proposed we leave and she agreed. Let her just say goodbye to her friends. I said cool, I will wait here.
But then it took almost 10min, so I went searching for her. Wtf. She was talking to this dude, who was giving her some moral crap about some cheap piece of equipment she accidentally broke last time. I asked her, if we're leaving. She said yes but then the dude said he's leaving abroad tomorrow, so if she want's to talk she needs to talk now. I was getting annoyed, so was she. She looked at me and said, so that is that, I guess we'll see each other another time. Looking back I should have insisted of her going, she had enough of that dude anyway.
Instead I remembered I'm wearing her jacket, so she ain't going nowhere without it. I told her no, its cool, talk what you have to, and asked a dude for a beer. He gave me one, and I went back to my friends for the time she finishes. That took too long. I was away for 30min or something, thinking of an excuse to get her away. Then someone said its starting to rain, bingo.
I returned for her and said, we should go, it's going to rain. Of we went.
On our way to her place another wild card. Our mutual friend (more of an acquaintance) was moving to another place and needed some help with it. Had nowhere to sleeep. In the middle of the fucking night, it's 3am by now. Wtf again... I was annoyed... Gave him my number and told him, I will call him in the morning and we will come and help him. Of course I slept through that.
Then it started raining, but we didn't mind. Just told her I will take a shower at her place. Our conversation got more personal, she started to talk to me about her dreams, moving to a country side and living there in peace. I opened myself up about my troubles with anxiety and not so healthy way of dealing with it with alcohol.
I don't think that was such a good idea... It's a thin line when it gets from byronic to weak. But it didn't hurt by that point.
We get to her place, then immediately start to cuddle and kiss on a bed. I needed to get my self a glass of water. Doing so her cat starts to cuddle around my legs. Then she comes joins the cat, then starts giving me head. My god she is good and looks beautiful. Then she says she needs a cigarette. We get on the balcony and i start touching her.
Then she objects. She asks me If I'm ok with not having sex tonight. I ask why? She tells me she needs to know I'm not going to do anything if she says no. I'm like... ok.. Sounds like you had some bad experiences. Was the guy bad in bed, or was he an asshole? She says both. I assure her I'm not going to do anything she won't won't me to do. She talks about how people got sexually frustrated during lockdown and I agree. Asks me how did I handle it. I just had one weird ons experience, other than that I just said to myself, fuck it, I'm going to focus more on my work. So you had your hand basically she jokes. I'm not phased by that and just laugh it off. Asks me what I'm into. She says she likes to be dominant. I say I like anal.... but more than anything I like to dominate the girl myself, sorry. I like when I see that I've got her under my thumb. I like to tell girls what to do and watch the do it.
Then she starts giving me head again and I suggest we move back to bed. We're laying there, and then I say I just wan't to please her and leave her better then I found her. And I really mean it, she was really cool to me this evening. She says isn't that a bit pretentious, I ask why? Asks me don't I have my own needs, I say yeah sure, but I like you and I want to make you feel good.
Then we start kissing and she pushes me down, then pulls me back up. I pull my pants down and take the rest of her clothes of then, she puts my dick inside her. Bareback, not wise I know, but I just said fuck it. The sex was great.
After that we cuddle and I remember when I met her before lol. Before covid, we were dancing in this club and almost made out, but then her friends took her away from me. I had a beard back then. I think there's a fr of that on this forum. She remembers me and says why did I just leave then. We joke around that, then fall asleep.
In the morning I leave, leaving a note.
2 days later I found out its my close friend who tattooes her and she's a regular. Supposedly she talked good things about me.
A week later I fucked it up, as explained in this thread:
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/i-don’t-want-you-to-go-get-offended-when-i-don’t-want-to-have-sex-with-you-anymore.24541/#post-132481
Hope you enjoyed reading it... Any suggestions, observations are warmly welcomed!
