What age would you like to settle down into a relationship, marry and have kids?

[Ryan]

When is everyone here thinking of retiring from romancing women? And preparing for all the things that come later?

I think i will have this seduction skill mastered by the time i'm 21 as long as i keep practising, and i'll spend about 4-5 years having fun. Then i really want to marry a beautiful girl and have so many children with her Becoming a loving father and husband is most important to me.
So, for me, i think i will start long-term relationships around 24-25. When i find a girl then, i plan to marry her when i'm 28. And then I hope to have as many cute kids as possible with her at around 30.

What are your plans for life after Girls Chase? I'm curious to hear what everyone hopes for.

N.B. i've read everything on this forum/site on what Chase says about Marriage/rings/long-term love and such and i have taken it into consideration, but (with the help of Chase's advice), i'd still like to marry one day.

 

[Nova]

Re: What age would you like to settle down into a relationship, marry and have k

well what i want now might not necessarily be how things will unfold because such events are so far into the future that who knows how my views, beliefs and desires will change... or maybe they wont.

but for now, i don't see marriage per se as a viable option because i just simply don't believe in it. i think it is such an outdated tradition that is no longer necessary in today's world. a bit like religion if you ask me. i am not somebody who subscribes to things just because the majority of society does. i see things clear, with common sense, and my common sense tells me marriage really can fuck a guy over if things go wrong and that i don't need a piece of paper to show myself or others that i love somebody. marriage these days is such a shallow institution, its basically a really expensive party.

on the other hand if i was with a girl who i was really liking and actually felt like doing something long term with and she was adamant about marriage then maybe.

kids i think are just something that happens in life either by mistake or will. all i can say is right now, no fucking way lol. later on if i feel i want kids and my circumstances and environment are good to raise children in then why not.

i have never lived my life by age and allowed age to dictate the path i follow. i know many people go by the notion of 'by this age you should have this and done this and at this age this needs to be done' - i couldn't live like that. i live by feelings. i do what i want, when i want. and if i cant physically do them then fuck it. i think people put unneeded pressure and make themselves ultimately unhappy by subscribing blindly to society's assigned blueprint.

relationships are nice, and for me its simple. if i like a girl, i will keep seeing her. if that lasts 3 months, 3 years or 3 decades it doesn't matter. if we fall out or i feel as though i want to move on, then i will do that. its very simple.

 

[Ryan]

Re: What age would you like to settle down into a relationship, marry and have k

I guess it's to do with personality too i suppose. I've always prioritised and valued a long-term, loving relationship over a short and casual one. Not to say that's more right or wrong, i'm just more of a one-woman kind of guy, so marriage/a long term relationship is something i look forward to. But i totally understand where you're coming from Nova.

The more i spend on this site, the more i may come to your viewpoint! I know that Chase would agree with you too, so who knows what will happen in the future.

 

[lux7]

Re: What age would you like to settle down into a relationship, marry and have k

Some choose not to go down that road and that's fine.

But I personally think some of those who belittle long term relationships, marriage and 1 to 1 for a lifetime are a bit jealous of those who actually manage to have it.

Of course long term love/happiness isn't all too common, but everyone -or most- know at least someone who's been very happy and supportive together for a lifetime so it''s not even that rare and shouldn't even be discussed whether or not there's such a thing because of course there is.