What are alternative phrases to 'before I go down on you, do you have any STDs'?

[sinksink]

The problem is that the first time you are in bed -> you both may not know what will happen, how far it will go, won't know if she'll do sex or receive oral or anything

M: Before I go down on you, do you have any STDs

F: Um... [wasn't thinking oral was going to happen yet, hasn't verbally consented to it either, might have killed mood]

M: Fuck godamnit I asked too soon, didn't I? Fuck shit fuck maybe I should not have verbally asked fuck

What are better phrases that won't kill mood? Or better not to ask? I mean there is the option to just go down on her w/o asking which is what I've done so far, hopefully nothing bad happens in future

 

[topcat]

lmao dude. Don't ask this. If you're that worried about a girl potentially having STD's, don't go down on her. Asking this just destroys the mood.

 

[Regal Tiger]

Lmao read the title and thought she asked you that for some reason. But yeah, just don't ask. If you don't want to go down on her then don't.

If she asks you just say no (it's the question I read and damnit I'm going to answer it lol)